It actually does happen. It just requires a desperate-for-approval straight guy. I removed myself from those situations because it was plain they were desperate idiots, but it does happen. It’s also nothing to dwell on. I agree they were not my close friends. I feel bad for the people who took advantage of it and then hold on to it later, though. Surely these people had better opportunities than that one. As it turns out, they’re the one that hates you forever after you reject them. Ten years later they look you up just so you know they are married and are supposed to care they found Christ, a wife and had a gaggle of kids.