easy getting erect

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  1. xxliuren

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    im easy to getting erect,i will getting erect in the public shower when i saw others guy dick or others looking mine.im not gay actually but i worry that others will thought im gay.anyone here with the same problem?
     
  2. Chase1600

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    There are people in this world who got worse problems.
     
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    How old are you, can I ask? When I was in my mid-teens I'd get hard at almost any provocation, or none. It settled down a bit by the time I was 16 or 17 or so. It could be embarrassing at times (especially one time at a school swimming carnival when I was talking to a friend's mother wearing just my speedos... but that's another story).
     
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    If you pop a rod in the locker room shower, they will think you are gay. True or not, that's what they will say unless you can prove somehow that you are getting hard because of the crack of dawn or because the wind blew...

    I'm all for erections everywhere, but people are going to think what they think.
     
  5. jeff926

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    Just a sweet smell of a girl makes me have an instant boner beside her.
     
  6. JTalbain

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    I'm bi, but that doesn't mean that every erection is wanted. I've had my share of shower erections. It's very rare that anyone pays it any mind. If you're not flopping it around and showing it off, most people actually won't notice. If anyone approaches you about it, any of these is guaranteed* to defuse the situation.

    1) "What? Can yours not do that anymore?"
    2) "I'm (insert age here). I don't need a reason to have an erection." (laughing optional)
    3) "What do you want me to do? Cut if off?"
    4) "Maybe if you'd stop checking him out, he'd stop posing for you."

    *Not actually guaranteed. You may get punched. :biggrin1:

    In all seriousness though, there's a difference between getting a boner in the locker room and cruising. Most guys can tell the difference, and most that can't won't actually do anything unless someone is really blatant about it. Don't go to any extra lengths to try to hide it and don't try to flaunt it. They'll really have nothing to complain about. Oh, I almost forgot:

    5) "What? Should I apologize for being bigger than you?"**

    **Will get you punched. Use at own risk. :tongue:
     
  7. jackhard

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    It doesn't take too much to get me "excited" either. I guess just try to get used to it...maybe jack off before going somewhere/doing something where a boner might be embarassing?
     
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    Maybe not. But it's entirely possible you're not "100% straight" either.
     
  9. maxxy88

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    well it depends...
    I remember once my room mate refuse to go college because he had his hard on since morning. we were having lunch together and we were laughing looking at his bulge. he remain inside the room the whole day.
     
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    My penis is randomly erect at times too. When I'm naked, or when I sit or lay down. I can't help it. I don't have a solution. We can just hope eventually, our penis will only get hard when we want it to.
     
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    ..and you might be one of them
     
  12. D_Edwin Eatser

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    Used to get erect every time I had communal shower when I was at school, wasn't the only one either, guys used to comment on us jokingly rather than critically. All my life I've found it really easy to get erect, one previous gf used to say I had a permanent erection. Often it could be embarrassing - if I was talking to a woman I really fancied, I'd find myself getting hard, even if it was a social setting and her man or other people were present. On the plus side, women have never had to work on me to get me up, and when I've taken that first kiss with a new female they've usually realised I was aroused, which often makes the move to fucking speedier.
     
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    Thats my approach to that issue. Jack off FIRST. :redface:
     
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    Im a bit the same.

    I say have a good jack off first. (in private somewhere, if you dont want seen.) :redface:
     
  15. D_Cock_Hudson

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    I guess you are fairly young, and it will change by the time you are in your mid to late 20s probably.
     
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    I get stiff at the slightest breeze or a quick naughty thought... I was often in class with a stiffy! Still to this day I'll be out at the mall and boing out of nowhere - super stiff. thats when you just gotta put the hand in the pocket and hold it.



     
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    Yea, it happens. Can't do much about it. Enjoy the fact it works and be proud of what you have. It'll go down eventually lol
     
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    damn.. just got hard - see what i mean!
     
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    I get a boner almost whenever I take off my clothes.
     
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    I freeball it alot. And once at an Indians game I got one hell of a hard-on because it was rubbing on my thy. You could see up the leg of my shorts. The couple below me were irritated.
     
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