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I've been with my wife 8 years.
She's never once successfully given me head to completion, even when we were first dating. In fact, once in the car and even though I'm only 6 inches, she gagged and threw up on my penis. I was somewhat put off on her blowjobs after that but she never offers so I never ask even though I eat her nearly every day, sometimes just for fun, expecting no sex.
Eventually I realized around 3 years ago that even though I had never asked her even one time over the first 5 years of our relationship nor had I put my penis in her face to swallow it after sex, she had never made any attempt to do it. I found this pretty strange because ALL of my girlfriends before her never even thought to ask if I wanted it (and I never implied that I wanted it), they just did.
Around that time, I finally asked her and she said that she hated doing it. The level of selfishness caught me off guard, especially from someone older than me by 6 years who claimed to love me ...
Do you avoid this with your husbands/lovers? If not, how often do you eat it? What do you think I can say to help her warm up to the idea?
She's never once successfully given me head to completion, even when we were first dating. In fact, once in the car and even though I'm only 6 inches, she gagged and threw up on my penis. I was somewhat put off on her blowjobs after that but she never offers so I never ask even though I eat her nearly every day, sometimes just for fun, expecting no sex.
Eventually I realized around 3 years ago that even though I had never asked her even one time over the first 5 years of our relationship nor had I put my penis in her face to swallow it after sex, she had never made any attempt to do it. I found this pretty strange because ALL of my girlfriends before her never even thought to ask if I wanted it (and I never implied that I wanted it), they just did.
Around that time, I finally asked her and she said that she hated doing it. The level of selfishness caught me off guard, especially from someone older than me by 6 years who claimed to love me ...
Do you avoid this with your husbands/lovers? If not, how often do you eat it? What do you think I can say to help her warm up to the idea?