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I've been with my wife 8 years.

She's never once successfully given me head to completion, even when we were first dating. In fact, once in the car and even though I'm only 6 inches, she gagged and threw up on my penis. I was somewhat put off on her blowjobs after that but she never offers so I never ask even though I eat her nearly every day, sometimes just for fun, expecting no sex.

Eventually I realized around 3 years ago that even though I had never asked her even one time over the first 5 years of our relationship nor had I put my penis in her face to swallow it after sex, she had never made any attempt to do it. I found this pretty strange because ALL of my girlfriends before her never even thought to ask if I wanted it (and I never implied that I wanted it), they just did.

Around that time, I finally asked her and she said that she hated doing it. The level of selfishness caught me off guard, especially from someone older than me by 6 years who claimed to love me ...

Do you avoid this with your husbands/lovers? If not, how often do you eat it? What do you think I can say to help her warm up to the idea?
 

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You didn't marry your other girlfriends. You married her. She's different, obviously.

It doesn't matter if I do or not. I know women who do, and I know women who don't. You married one who doesn't.

There are some things I don't like to do. Selfish? Let me ask you this: have you ever had anal sex with another man? Why are you being so selfish with your butt?

I feel the same way about my butt, too. It's just not going to happen. He better be happy with everything else.

And if a complete blowjob is a deal breaker then I recommend leaving her and find someone less selfish. Maybe she will find the same.
 

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You didn't marry your other girlfriends. You married her. She's different, obviously.

It doesn't matter if I do or not. I know women who do, and I know women who don't. You married one who doesn't.

There are some things I don't like to do. Selfish? Let me ask you this: have you ever had anal sex with another man? Why are you being so selfish with your butt?

I feel the same way about my butt, too. It's just not going to happen. He better be happy with everything else.

And if a complete blowjob is a deal breaker then I recommend leaving her and find someone less selfish. Maybe she will find the same.
Absolutely. You don’t convince someone to go past their sexual limits.

If it’s a dealbreaker, find leave her and find someone else.
 

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I think you should just accept the fact that she doesn't like it and leave her alone.

Post history. I remember it. Don't sneak it into her food, either. :mad:


I never say shame on you to anybody but I’m tempted to. And I love to swallow. I just popped in to say the phrasing of the topic title left me feeling less than satisfied.

Swallow? Of course. I. Love. It.
Eat it? ....What the
(EWWW)
Why does it need eating? Has it...congealed or something?
 

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I've been with my wife 8 years.

She's never once successfully given me head to completion, even when we were first dating. In fact, once in the car and even though I'm only 6 inches, she gagged and threw up on my penis. I was somewhat put off on her blowjobs after that but she never offers so I never ask even though I eat her nearly every day, sometimes just for fun, expecting no sex.

Eventually I realized around 3 years ago that even though I had never asked her even one time over the first 5 years of our relationship nor had I put my penis in her face to swallow it after sex, she had never made any attempt to do it. I found this pretty strange because ALL of my girlfriends before her never even thought to ask if I wanted it (and I never implied that I wanted it), they just did.

Around that time, I finally asked her and she said that she hated doing it. The level of selfishness caught me off guard, especially from someone older than me by 6 years who claimed to love me ...

Do you avoid this with your husbands/lovers? If not, how often do you eat it? What do you think I can say to help her warm up to the idea?

No cum in my mouth. Ever. Period. I'd rather eat a pickled herring dipped in used motor oil. Tastes like garbage and it is no sign of love or devotion to do something i find extremely unpleasant. Take it or leave it.
 

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I never say shame on you to anybody but I’m tempted to. And I love to swallow. I just popped in to say the phrasing of the topic title left me feeling less than satisfied.

Swallow? Of course. I. Love. It.
Eat it? ....What the
(EWWW)
Why does it need eating? Has it...congealed or something?
Ditto. I swallow so I don’t have to taste it. Spitting means I’d have to hold it in my mouth. Blech. Down the hatch!

But eating? :confounded:
 
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Ditto. I swallow so I don’t have to taste it. Spitting means I’d have to hold it in my mouth. Blech. Down the hatch!

But eating? :confounded:
Okay, well I mean "swallowing" of course. In Japanese, you "drink" soup, you don't "eat" it. But the end result is the same. Yes, I meant swallowing. I love to "eat" vagina ... But of course I'm just licking and sucking while drinking as much as I can. It's a weird language, English.
 
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I never say shame on you to anybody but I’m tempted to. And I love to swallow. I just popped in to say the phrasing of the topic title left me feeling less than satisfied.

Swallow? Of course. I. Love. It.
Eat it? ....What the
(EWWW)
Why does it need eating? Has it...congealed or something?
haha no, no. Just a weird word choice. Thank you for the response!
 
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haha no, no. Just a weird word choice. Thank you for the response!

No problem. It was a bit regrettable. But if you hadn’t, I wouldn’t have dropped by and would have missed this entire party :)

I’m reminded of the fact that nobody can change their own topic titles once they click that ‘create’ button. ... nobody except for maybe LaFemme now :eek:

She did not need any more super powers for me to be in awe, but..... as I like to tell this one pretty great guy with a great big dick... whenever he wants to send me a pic... ”Surely it can’t hurt?”
 
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No problem. It was a bit regrettable. But if you hadn’t, I wouldn’t have dropped by and would have missed this entire party :)

I’m reminded of the fact that nobody can change their own topic titles once they click that ‘create’ button. ... nobody except for maybe LaFemme now :eek:

She did not need any more super powers for me to be in awe, but..... as I like to tell this one pretty great guy with a great big dick... whenever he wants to send me a pic... ”Surely it can’t hurt?”
Well, okay. I guess I definitely like you.
 
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No problem. It was a bit regrettable. But if you hadn’t, I wouldn’t have dropped by and would have missed this entire party :)

I’m reminded of the fact that nobody can change their own topic titles once they click that ‘create’ button. ... nobody except for maybe LaFemme now :eek:

She did not need any more super powers for me to be in awe, but..... as I like to tell this one pretty great guy with a great big dick... whenever he wants to send me a pic... ”Surely it can’t hurt?”
You make me laugh!
 

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I’ve just read what you have written and the first thing that comes to my mind is communication! How could you waited that long to discuss something so important to you ..if you had talked about it earlier you could have at least known how she felt..sorry if that sounds like I’m putting you down...
I’ve learned in my long marriage that talking with each other regularly is a vital ingredient in a relationship.. I mean talking about the hard stuff.. the things you’d rather just sweep under the rug..
I’m wondering what you said to her after she told you she hated it...? I suggest you talk with her about it ..how important it is to you .. how it makes you feel that she doesn’t do it...how you have equated it with her love for you..there is a lot more going on than just her giving you a blow job...of course I’m not saying she’ll change her mind but I do think it would help both of you to know the what other is feeling around this issue...you might decide it’s a deal breaker...
But... in general ...talk about the hard stuff regularly... it’s what will make you closer and create a newness to your relationship..
PS No I’m not a marriage counselor just lots of real life experience...:)
 

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I don’t think she’s strange at all. I have been with my husband for much longer than you’ve been with your wife, and I can count the number of times that I’ve given him oral to completion on one hand and it is even fewer that I’ve swallowed any of his semen. Part of that is he is very difficult to get off by oral and part of it is we’d both rather get to the main event than continue with oral foreplay. In fact I’m pretty sure the whole second year and at least into the third of our married I didn’t take him in my mouth at all.

Besides, isn t it sexier to do things you know that you both enjoy?
 
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I neither seek nor avoid as it is a rare occasion.

Oral is either;
- Just part of our activities and we prefer to get to the major one asap.
- Or performed out of necessity, during my red week.
- Or someone is feeling naughty and does a random thing.

I just wish they paid more attention to their food intake. :confounded:
 
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