I find the ABC's like mentioned before are a great place to start. Sometimes if you find a letter she likes just keep repeating it haha. But also I think there is more to this act then just your head between her legs. Start from her neck and work your way down paying attention to her whole body and by the time you get to her clit she's ready to burst (in a good way) leading to an orgasm with minimal effort.
Eating Pussy.....
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Every woman is different, and for me the trick is to read her body language and let her guide me towards what I need to do without her needing to tell me, or to even say a word. Some, perhaps many, are reluctant to give advice or instructions, probably believing that all women are the same and we should know how to do it. In addition, being with a new lover for the first time and exploring her, and taking her all the way is all the more romantic and arousing when it's done non-verbally.
Learning what to do by reading her reactions is quite easy once you've had sex with a few dozen, or more, women.
Learning what to do by reading her reactions is quite easy once you've had sex with a few dozen, or more, women.
With my girlfriend I start by just licking her whole pussy, then start sucking her lips and clit. As she gets more into it I suck harder until she begs me to fuck her. Then I slip in a finger and rub her g spot hard. She usually cums after a couple minutes of that. Then I fuck her and make her cum more 
Then you've been watching too much porn and need to return to reality land... :/
Not all women do that.
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work the entire area... out lips, inner lips, vaginal opening, etc. This will give you an idea of what she likes and doesn't like. pay very close attention to her responses and tease her based on her responses.
if you're in tune with her responses, you'll do just fine.
and most of all... do it for you for her. you gotta enjoy eating pussy to be good at it.
if you're in tune with her responses, you'll do just fine.
and most of all... do it for you for her. you gotta enjoy eating pussy to be good at it.
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I've eaten a few hundred girls too.
Kidding!
A bit less than that.
1. The art of anticipation is your friend. Teasing touches at 1st that build anticipation are a good bet.
2. Don't make her feel like she has to cum, don't put pressure on her to do so. If you seem like you are clock-watching then she will feel anxiety about having an O and may not be able to. Women have performance anxiety just as men do.
3. Enjoy it or at least seem to.
Kidding!
A bit less than that.
1. The art of anticipation is your friend. Teasing touches at 1st that build anticipation are a good bet.
2. Don't make her feel like she has to cum, don't put pressure on her to do so. If you seem like you are clock-watching then she will feel anxiety about having an O and may not be able to. Women have performance anxiety just as men do.
3. Enjoy it or at least seem to.
Like someone already said, every woman is different.
I think in order to be good at it, you have to read up on it a little, but really it greatly depends on how much you like doing it. If you say "I don't want to do this really, but this book says I should lick from side to side...." then you'll just be ok but if you LOVE pussy, the taste, the feel of it against your tongue, the way you can make a girl feel by doing it, then you'll find ways to be creative and good at it.
Pay attention to what she likes as you're doing it, and make sure you change up speeds and places you're licking/sucking, and again, most of all get into it and LOVE it
I think in order to be good at it, you have to read up on it a little, but really it greatly depends on how much you like doing it. If you say "I don't want to do this really, but this book says I should lick from side to side...." then you'll just be ok but if you LOVE pussy, the taste, the feel of it against your tongue, the way you can make a girl feel by doing it, then you'll find ways to be creative and good at it.
Pay attention to what she likes as you're doing it, and make sure you change up speeds and places you're licking/sucking, and again, most of all get into it and LOVE it
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alright, going to be as comprehensive as I can but I'm sure I'll leave somethings out, bare with me here.
first things first, "eating pussy" isn't just about jamming your face into her vagina and having your way at it. timing, sensitivity, and creativity are good things to use down below.
when you're eating a girl out, be sure that she's good and ready, get her worked up, play around with all of her erogenous zones before you just dive on in. Its good to know what she likes and is comfortable with, nothing but practice will help you with that.
once you've gotten her worked up don't forget that she's capable of being stimulated other places about her body. tease her up and continue to tease her about. don't just play with her pussy until you or she has finished.
now, having mentioned teasing, don't tease her when she's about to climax, once you've worked her this far don't back off or she'll be likely to lose that release and become frustrated and bored. As well, teasing isn't meant to be a wennie move, don't be a pussy mulling over her too gingerly. I've known many women that get turned off by a man who isn't firm and commited.
be sure to work her with not only your lips and tounge but use your fingers as well especially if your getting tired and need to keep things going. patience and anticipation are so huge, don't get frustrated or bored, genuinely enjoy what you're doing or she's going to sense your mood and start to shut down.
a good way to start is by getting her turned on, nibble at her neck, try a little nipple play, tenderly caress her whole body and get her really worked up. move on down south starting with your hands and give her a little tease, her anticipation should skyrocket as you're nibbling at her thighs and mons. when you're both good and ready go ahead and get in there. give her a little kiss, a lick or nibble whatever she seems to enjoy.
pressure placed on her mons can be very stimulating to some women, if you're tonging her place a firm hand on her abdomen above her clit.
do enjoy every last bit of her vulva and don't forget that there are other sensitive bits about her besides that clit, work her up but save singular focus there for when you're about to finish her.
depending on her, some women I've come to know enjoy the alphabet technique and some like a firm criss crossing of the clitoris and others like a little indirect stimulation from a tonge flittering about the sides of her hood.
a little bit of suction on her lips and clit can be a very stimulating act for some but be careful not to overexert as it can hurt to suck to hard.
don't forget a little penetration from either your tonge or your fingers and be sure to keep her comfortably wet, dry clit is never a good thing but there is such a thing as too sloppy.
there are a lot of other things to be mentioned but its all about getting out there (or should I say DOWN THERE) and trying things out. you know your partner better than any of us so just go with what feels right.
first things first, "eating pussy" isn't just about jamming your face into her vagina and having your way at it. timing, sensitivity, and creativity are good things to use down below.
when you're eating a girl out, be sure that she's good and ready, get her worked up, play around with all of her erogenous zones before you just dive on in. Its good to know what she likes and is comfortable with, nothing but practice will help you with that.
once you've gotten her worked up don't forget that she's capable of being stimulated other places about her body. tease her up and continue to tease her about. don't just play with her pussy until you or she has finished.
now, having mentioned teasing, don't tease her when she's about to climax, once you've worked her this far don't back off or she'll be likely to lose that release and become frustrated and bored. As well, teasing isn't meant to be a wennie move, don't be a pussy mulling over her too gingerly. I've known many women that get turned off by a man who isn't firm and commited.
be sure to work her with not only your lips and tounge but use your fingers as well especially if your getting tired and need to keep things going. patience and anticipation are so huge, don't get frustrated or bored, genuinely enjoy what you're doing or she's going to sense your mood and start to shut down.
a good way to start is by getting her turned on, nibble at her neck, try a little nipple play, tenderly caress her whole body and get her really worked up. move on down south starting with your hands and give her a little tease, her anticipation should skyrocket as you're nibbling at her thighs and mons. when you're both good and ready go ahead and get in there. give her a little kiss, a lick or nibble whatever she seems to enjoy.
pressure placed on her mons can be very stimulating to some women, if you're tonging her place a firm hand on her abdomen above her clit.
do enjoy every last bit of her vulva and don't forget that there are other sensitive bits about her besides that clit, work her up but save singular focus there for when you're about to finish her.
depending on her, some women I've come to know enjoy the alphabet technique and some like a firm criss crossing of the clitoris and others like a little indirect stimulation from a tonge flittering about the sides of her hood.
a little bit of suction on her lips and clit can be a very stimulating act for some but be careful not to overexert as it can hurt to suck to hard.
don't forget a little penetration from either your tonge or your fingers and be sure to keep her comfortably wet, dry clit is never a good thing but there is such a thing as too sloppy.
there are a lot of other things to be mentioned but its all about getting out there (or should I say DOWN THERE) and trying things out. you know your partner better than any of us so just go with what feels right.
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Marriedasian & Chrissymgreen are spot on for me -
Love licking my pussy (or act like you do) and tease it - mercilessly.
A little orgasm denial, as long as I'm not too close, works really well.
Love being asked how I like it, what I'm thinking and his telling me what he's feeling/thinking - definitely keep the mental connection going.
If a guy did this to me, I'd be more likely to kick him in the face than cum.
I mean, I love oral with penetration, so fingers are perfect, but not that 'come hither', g-spot stimulation move in every porn. Instead, I prefer very deep fingering with a back and downward motion, while I grind against his hand (or face). Mhmm!
Love licking my pussy (or act like you do) and tease it - mercilessly.
A little orgasm denial, as long as I'm not too close, works really well.
Love being asked how I like it, what I'm thinking and his telling me what he's feeling/thinking - definitely keep the mental connection going.
Don't do this unless you're certain she can take rough g-spot play.
If a guy did this to me, I'd be more likely to kick him in the face than cum.
I mean, I love oral with penetration, so fingers are perfect, but not that 'come hither', g-spot stimulation move in every porn. Instead, I prefer very deep fingering with a back and downward motion, while I grind against his hand (or face). Mhmm!
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good orgasm denial has never failed, though I'm surprised you're into the asking questions. I don't think I've met anyone that liked the "am I doing it right" approach... though I think I see what your getting at with a mental connection
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I have to agree that loving doing it, is the absolute key to being great at it. And I also believe that to reach the goal of giving her a mind-blowing orgasm, is not to make it your goal. It's about the enjoyment in and of pleasuring her. I'll even go so far as to say that I enjoy giving more than receiving! Damn! It's great to be down there...!
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Chinese buffet is the best place to eat fresh pussy and it usually tastes like chicken:wink:
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I know she can take it. I've been with her for a long time and I know exactly what makes her tick
. It's quite amazing what the possibilities are when you get to that point.Having had sex with, maybe, 150 or so women, this is VERY unusual. I would guess that maybe two or three did this, but most were aroused or orgasmed. The signs women give are generally quite subtle. My mistress use to stiffen her body and curl her lip, and squeeze my shoulders with her legs. Other girls had different signs, but the most common is to go really silent, the silence of concentration, and to get stiff as the arousal builds.
If a woman squirmed, I took that as not hitting the right spot. Arching her back means you aren't doing it hard enough and need to press more firmly. These are the signs that guide you.
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". . . .depending on her, some women I've come to know enjoy the alphabet technique and some like a firm criss crossing of the clitoris and others like a little indirect stimulation from a tonge flittering about the sides of her hood.
a little bit of suction on her lips and clit can be a very stimulating act for some but be careful not to overexert as it can hurt to suck to hard.
don't forget a little penetration from either your tonge or your fingers and be sure to keep her comfortably wet, dry clit is never a good thing but there is such a thing as too sloppy..."
I agree with everything you said - saved me from having to type it myself! I learned the alphabet technique from an episode of Friends where Monica was describing what worked and said to "Lick the Alphabet." I found that O,P, and Q tend to work particularly well. And don't do it too hard - they usually like it lighter than you would think.
a little bit of suction on her lips and clit can be a very stimulating act for some but be careful not to overexert as it can hurt to suck to hard.
don't forget a little penetration from either your tonge or your fingers and be sure to keep her comfortably wet, dry clit is never a good thing but there is such a thing as too sloppy..."
I agree with everything you said - saved me from having to type it myself! I learned the alphabet technique from an episode of Friends where Monica was describing what worked and said to "Lick the Alphabet." I found that O,P, and Q tend to work particularly well. And don't do it too hard - they usually like it lighter than you would think.
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