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Originally posted by bennyb98@Apr 5 2005, 11:04 AM
Just a question for you guys, when you started first having sex, was going down on your lady a required part of the activities or not?
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Not when I first started, but later with some, not with others. Love it now, and nothing is more supreme than a woman who can reciprocate and cum all over me. It's only fair, no??? A couple months ago I recently experienced a gal who could easily cum more than me... not to boast, but it was udderly a-mazing, as it was easily 5 times more than I'd ever seen. Whoops, off topic... currently it's 50/50 as a "required" event, just as oral on me is.
 
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dbuddha: I actually performed oral on my girlfriend way before we started having sex. But then again, she was a virgin.

I used to think that it was disguisting before I actually tried it one night and now I love everything about it. I dont mind giving her oral and dont really expect it back, although she gives it every now and then, but I dont expect it or make it seem that I do in any way. No pressure, that's the way to go.

Going down on a girl is a great way to warm her up and appreciate her body.
 

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Originally posted by jonb+Apr 9 2005, 05:59 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(jonb &#064; Apr 9 2005, 05:59 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-vega@Apr 9 2005, 07:17 AM
I just enjoy it. Bit of an oral fixation.
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I thought that would be if you sucked on her tits. Fixation means your libido&#39;s in a state of arrested development. Fellatio and cunnilingus are genital behaviors simply because the desire is to pleasure your partner and to watch him or her orgasm.
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in freudian terms an oral fixation can develop into and show it&#39;s self through a want to have something in your mouth. I have an oral fixation and get pleasure from giving her pleasure orally.

It does not mean you are in a state of arrested development. It is a fixation which means you fixate or concentrate one one of the developmental stages. It does not have to show it&#39;s self sexually and can appear in many forms. According to Freud everyone has a fixation on of of the developmental stages.

I enjoy having something in my mouth simple as that. Whether it be breast or clit. Or finger, or ear, or neck, or tongue etc.... you get the point.
 

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Any women care to give us all a lesson on what to do and what definitely not to do? I&#39;m sure a few pointers could help even the most experienced of us.
 

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Every woman is different, so the way one woman wants it may not be the best for another woman. The key is to listen and learn from the woman you are with. Observe her body language if she is not vocal while going down on her.
Encourage the woman you are with to give you feedback on what she likes. And ladies, don&#39;t use negative comments, tell your man that you like it when he does xxxx, or when your tounge goes this way, etc. :9 :p

Communication can make your sexual experiences go from being good, to being great, fantastic, and unfuckingbelievable&#33;

When a woman tells you that you are the best at giving her head that she&#39;s ever had, after only being sexual with each other for a few weeks, that&#39;s a good sign that you are paying attention to what is &#39;best&#39; for her. Believe me, I reaped the rewards of giving a hard-to-orgasm woman, an orgasm every time. ;)

LapDog :p
 

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I was relying on the definition of classic psychoanalysis. Oral sex could be oral or genital for one partner and is certainly phallic for the other partner. Most of us focus on phallic and genital tendencies; few of us derive any pleasure from anal activity anymore. (In my case, I was kinda neurotic about my anus even when I was still in the oral phase; I screamed when this doctor put a thermometer in my ass. So I guess my heterosexuality was determined from birth.)
 

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Originally posted by DeeBlackthorne@Apr 12 2005, 11:23 PM
Never mind: I&#39;m still "fixated" on Dr. Bubbles&#39; insistence that she receives head when she gives it and that she very much enjoys both... :D
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I thoroughly enjoy it... giving and reciprocating&#33; It is all about pleasuring your partner. Personally, if he is happy, then I am going to be happy. I&#39;ve had the good fortune that the men in my life have had the same basic philosophy. Talk about a win-win&#33;&#33;&#33;

Oh, can I help you out with that "fixation?" ;)

dr. bubbles
 
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orionsword57:
Originally posted by LOVEARIAS@Apr 5 2005, 05:07 PM
My view is if a guy dosn&#39;t go down on me, why he should he expect me to go down on him.
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Another variation... I&#39;ve found that women are much more willing to swallow if you are eager to finish them with your mouth and tongue after you have released inside them and are already leaking. I always enjoyed being told I was good at going down, and women know that flattery is often the way into a man&#39;s repetoire.
 

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Originally posted by bblumbee+Apr 13 2005, 04:07 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(bblumbee &#064; Apr 13 2005, 04:07 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-DeeBlackthorne@Apr 12 2005, 11:23 PM
Never mind:  I&#39;m still "fixated" on Dr. Bubbles&#39; insistence that she receives head when she gives it and that she very much enjoys both... :D
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I thoroughly enjoy it... giving and reciprocating&#33; It is all about pleasuring your partner. Personally, if he is happy, then I am going to be happy. I&#39;ve had the good fortune that the men in my life have had the same basic philosophy. Talk about a win-win&#33;&#33;&#33;

Oh, can I help you out with that "fixation?" ;)

dr. bubbles
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***starting CPR, on the "unit" where it needs it most&#33;***
 

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Originally posted by bblumbee+Apr 14 2005, 04:41 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(bblumbee &#064; Apr 14 2005, 04:41 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'>
Originally posted by bblumbee@Apr 13 2005, 04:07 PM
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@Apr 12 2005, 11:23 PM
Never mind:  I&#39;m still "fixated" on Dr. Bubbles&#39; insistence that she receives head when she gives it and that she very much enjoys both... :D
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I thoroughly enjoy it... giving and reciprocating&#33; It is all about pleasuring your partner. Personally, if he is happy, then I am going to be happy. I&#39;ve had the good fortune that the men in my life have had the same basic philosophy. Talk about a win-win&#33;&#33;&#33;

Oh, can I help you out with that "fixation?" ;)

dr. bubbles
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***starting CPR, on the "unit" where it needs it most&#33;***
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bblumbee,

Actually going down on me is an easy trip. Most cannot get much of the glans in their mouth let alone any of the shaft. Yet being the appreciative kind guy, I alway have enjoyed having my partner hold on to my dick, for dear life, while I orally "pleasure" her and increase her passionate pre-coital mucus release, for the forth-coming fuck.

A pleasure to give&#33;

blackwood
 

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Originally posted by lapdog2001+Apr 15 2005, 07:12 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(lapdog2001 &#064; Apr 15 2005, 07:12 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-bblumbee@Apr 14 2005, 02:27 PM
blackwood,

are you giving me an invitation, babe?  :evilgrin:
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He&#39;s had 24 hours, so I&#39;m stepping in&#33; :9 :p :9 :p :9 :p

LapDog :p
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:wow: :eek: }( :evilgrin: :9 :blink: :bounce: :blush: :party: :spank: :thumbsup:

I think I better stop while I am ahead&#33;
 

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Another variation. I recommend she be on the Pill before you do this: Basically, this one requires you don&#39;t use condoms, and you cum in her and then eat her out. Kissing her afterward is optional.
 

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The wife and I enjoyed each other on our wedding night for the first time. Neither of us was a virgin but we were to each other (if that makes any sense). As a youth my experiences were with prostitutes so, no I did not induldge myself. On our wedding night I surprised her and went for it. Drover her crazy&#33;&#33; Now after 30 years of marriage I do her as often as I can. It really adds to our time together. My favorite way is to pause mid intercourse and eat on her until she is really moaning, then finish her off. Makes for a great day together.
 

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Originally posted by hungrick@Apr 7 2005, 02:52 AM
I wouldn&#39;t say it was "required". If you&#39;re really feeling connected to a woman & you&#39;re compatible sexually,then giving her pleasure in any way possible is what you want to do. So, yeh, I loved going down on her then & I love it now. BTW I love her too.
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I&#39;m with Rick on this one. I try to do the best that I can in the oral department. My girlfriend is really sensitive down there, so I have to be extra careful not to hurt her,but when she gets warmed up, it&#39;s the best&#33;
 

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Originally posted by marcoxxxx@Apr 17 2005, 02:45 AM
i love to go down on my gf, more than how much (yes i am gonna say it) i love her going down on me.....
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I absolutely agree. Sometimes I think I might be the only male out there that likes eating pussy so much. It&#39;s really weird, but the idea of sending my g/f to the moon and back, because of my mouth, just gets me more excited than the actual fucking which is great too. Maybe it&#39;s cause one requires physical work, while the other I&#39;m just using my mouth, tongue, and hands??