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Actually, I like the idea, but it's not that it's better or worse than penetration, just different.

A kinky thing to try if your girlfriend's on the Pill is fuck her, go down on her until she cums again (and yes, this involves actually sticking your tongue inside to get the cum out), and then kiss her a bit. Another way you can merge the two is to fuck her until you cum, go down on her while you're recharging, and repeat.

In the end, there are so many things you can do with cunnilingus that you can't do with penetration. Take your time. Notice her reactions. Use your hands.
 

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I really enjoy going down on women...I always initiate first for some reason...I remember this one girl I dated for a year - we had sex the night of our first date and of course I went down on her but she refused to go down on me she said till she knew she loved me...It took like a month and a half and I guess she was embarrassed at first because she made me put a pillow in front so I couldn't see her doing it...After that of course I had to do it to her everytime since I started it and she would dish it out at her leisure...
 

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Oral sex has always been a favorite of mine when it comes to pleasing a woman. It gives me the opportunity to get her off before the actual intercourse. I think that in the past every woman has enjoyed oral sex from what I can assess.

As with many of the sediments expressed here I find that oral sex on your part will lead to oral sex on her part, which is always a nice plus.

Old Crude Fraternity Axiom:
.....get the tongue a licking, before the sticking....

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Originally posted by bennyb98@Apr 5 2005, 07:04 PM
Just a question for you guys, when you started first having sex, was going down on your lady a required part of the activities or not?
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Not required, but certainly seems to be appreciated.
 

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Man I love it too! Always have.. Learn to enjoy it early in life and you\'ll be very poplular with the ladies. Many young guys dislike the notion. I was at a bachelor party that moved to a bar. We were drinking and talking it up and the groom to be said he didn\'t like doing oral. I said in a loud drunk voice, why would any woman want to get married to a man who doesn\'t eat pussy? Everyone started laughing at me and I turned around and there was a table of 6-7 pretty ladies looking at me and smiling. I said am I right or not? They all agreed.
 

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Hi, good sex is about pleasing your partner and your partner pleasing you. So this means you loving and trusting one another to make your relationship stronger. I'm sure you know loads of moves but the best sex is experienced by talking to a gf about her needs and yours. In this way you'll learn what pleases her and she'll know what pleases you. As your relationship deepens you may become more adventurous. But I think I would only ever make love in a way both myself and my gf are comfortable with. So for example yes I did go down on my gf and she on me but only because we wanted to. It was never a requirement though. ;)
 

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I do it for my gf, and for me! I love it probably just as much as she does. I wouldn't say it is required but I most ladies like it, and she would probably appreciate it. Just make sure she is comfortable with it and go to town.
 
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Snicklet69: i love guys who eat at the "Y" mmmmmmmmmmmm i wish i had one doing it now!
 

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Originally posted by Snicklet69@May 28 2005, 10:55 AM
i love guys who eat at the "Y" mmmmmmmmmmmm i wish i had one doing it now!
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Something tells me you wouldn't have much trouble finding a recruit. :9
 

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I've never considered it a "requirement," although the girl who took my virginity insisted on it before having sex, so that particular time it was!

I really enjoy doing it and it baffles me that some guys don't like to. My experience is that quite a few women are self-conscious about it and don't know why I'd want to go "down there." Needless to say, I think this is a pretty sad situation. I have met a few women who say they don't like receiving it, although I only slept with one of them. That was really weird because I felt like I'd had an important part of my repertoire taken away.

As for tips....

For a lot of women, her clit is too sensitive to be stimulated directly until she's really warmed up, and some you can't really touch at all. When in doubt, dance around it and judge her reaction. If she starts begging you, feel free to wait a little longer. :)

As I mentioned already, some women are not very confident in how attractive her pussy really is. Be sure to let her know. Not necessarily verbally, but make sure she knows that it turns you on to no end. A lot of women think that guys don't enjoy it very much and only do it out of obligation. Make it clear you're not one of those guys.

Some women aren't very good at giving you feedback, verbal or otherwise. When this has happened to me, I just flat out ask her if she likes it. Tease her to make her answer. Some women like a tongue inside them, but for others it doesn't do much. Don't assume that what your last girlfriend liked will work on the next one. She might wonder what the hell you're doing down there.

If it's not the urgent kind of sex, feel free to tease her a lot. Unless she says "Don't stop!" In that case, don't even think about stopping.
 

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I'm one of the rare females who does not like a guy going down on me. What makes this issue ridiculous is that the only way I can orgasm is via direct clitoral stimulation and tongues are good at that! But for some reason I just don't like it.
 

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Originally posted by ItsJustMe@May 30 2005, 12:41 AM
I'm one of the rare females who does not like a guy going down on me. What makes this issue ridiculous is that the only way I can orgasm is via direct clitoral stimulation and tongues are good at that! But for some reason I just don't like it.
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Is it because you're embarressed or do you just not like the feel and the act in general.

As for the rest of the post, I think once a guy understands what going down on a woman is all about, then the challenge becomes trying to find out the particular differences of every woman. I haven't been with that many women, but all of the women I have been with, have all been a very different experience in terms of going down on them. And I think this has a lot to do with why I like eating pussy.
 
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Originally posted by Mr._dB@Apr 9 2005, 02:09 AM
For men of "size", eating is a necessary skill, 'cause usually it takes a lot of foreplay to get a woman ready to accomodate our long, girthy members.

So you'd better learn to enjoy it.

Just be glad that women are keeping themselves groomed down there these days. Coming of sexual age in the 1970s, we had to deal with furry women's bits. The Brazilian Wax is definitely one of the greatest inventions of the 20th Century.
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Dude..u have to go down on her...first of all its easy and they enjoy it..u gotta get her wet before u put in ur dick..especially if ur big like u should be if ur on this web site. and to the guy who said he doesnt like getting head..ur nuts...someties head is better than sex..u jsut gotta kno how to teach them..
 

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funny i would come up on this one...me and a bud were discussing it just earlier this week....i didn't start off going down until my senior year in high school....i probably wasn't too good but now i eat like a champ....i LOVE it....makes my dick so damn hard and it pleases my girl so damn much that i do it even if we dont go any further...i love to please her and she pleases me by giving me head even more when i go down....oops i think i'm getting a hard on....better stop talking now....:smile:
 

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I think eating pussy is an art ..at least for me bcause i never trully enjoy to be eating or came by it as i do being penetrated...

How long does it take to a man learn eating good almost any women, not just those who usually come easy by oral sex ?
 

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bennyb98 said:
Just a question for you guys, when you started first having sex, was going down on your lady a required part of the activities or not?

When I first started, pretty much now. Then for years not really. Now I kill for it, and try my best to make a girl squirt.
 

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Mr._dB said:
For men of "size", eating is a necessary skill, 'cause usually it takes a lot of foreplay to get a woman ready to accomodate our long, girthy members.

Those are words of wisdom. For my first experiences of vaginal fucking it was great, but gradually it became monotonous. And my size kept me from going right in each time. To get some variation, I decided to go down on her, and found it was incredibly hot. My woman loved it too, and just started "flowing". After that, I went mouth to pussy every time, and also found my nose to her clit was almost as good as the follow-up fucking. It was a steady meal for years after.
 

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