Eating Pussy?

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I just had sex with a woman who said i had the biggest, most beautiful cock she's ever seen. She came 3 times and said I was blessed like she's never experienced before, that she's never felt anything like it and that i have a true gift.

she also texted me when she left saying because i didn't eat her pussy, she doesn't want to see me again. It was "a deal breaker."

i stopped eating pussy 10 years ago for the exact fear of what happened to Michael Douglas.

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Lmao, so you had the best cock she'd ever had and came 3 times but dumped you because you didn't go down on her, I take it this was all dreamt, right?
 

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Go on then, link it here please, I find it pretty implausible for a woman who has just had the best sex of her life to then dump you by text merely because you didn't go down on her, just sounds ludicrous. If this is a true story might I suggest that she had another reason to dump you and used that as an excuse, she was probably talking a load of bs when she was complimenting you.
 

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Oral sex is a dealbreaker for a lot of people. It would be for me, even in a casual hook-up, I figure, if it's just sex, then it'd damn well be great sex including all the things I/she/he likes to do within our comfort zones. If eating pussy isn't within your comfort zone, and she desires it, then you two are not combatible. I mean, exactly how much do you like your cock sucked? Or, if you're also not into receiving oral, then how much do you like penetration? If she likes getting her pussy eaten as much as you like penetration, then she certainly can't be faulted for terminating the sexual arrangement.

Go on then, link it here please, I find it pretty implausible for a woman who has just had the best sex of her life to then dump you by text merely because you didn't go down on her, just sounds ludicrous. If this is a true story might I suggest that she had another reason to dump you and used that as an excuse, she was probably talking a load of bs when she was complimenting you.


Also, Ms Lady has a point. She may have been blowing smoke up your arse about it being the best sex of her life. It's *possible* she showered you with compliments to feed your ego, so you'd leave amicably, waited until you were well enough away, then terminated safely via text. I have no idea if this is the case, because I'm not psychic or whatever, but it baffles me that someone who says they've had the best sex of their life would end a sexual connection over oral -- when you've only had sex once. Even for me, I mean no oral's a deal breaker but just once?? I'd just communicate my needs the NEXT time. If the person refused, then I'd call out gaily, "Don't let the door hit ya in the ass on the way out!!"

This is what leads me to believe she didn't mean it that it was the best ever.
 
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I think she was just trying to make you feel good. If a girl aid to me that it was the best sex she has ever had then I would know she is lying. Ok, maybe i am good but not that good haha.

I think it is just an easy way out for her to not see you again.
 

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While I've read about what Michael Douglas said, it didn't inhibit me from enjoying going down on women, which I relish almost as much as a good fuck. Then just recently a very good friend friend of mine, who's a non-monogamous lesbian, was just diagnosed with throat cancer, induced via HPV. It really makes a difference when it strikes near home for the first time--just like when my first friend was hit with AIDS, deja vu. I'm not sure what I'll do the next time I'm with a new woman. Just not go down? Carry dental dams? Enter a monastery? And I thought it was bad enough that I needed to squeeze on a condom every time. This sure is a game changer.

All I can say is don't do anything you're not comfortable with. Perhaps with this woman, a clean HPV test and monogamy might be a viable answer.
 
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She sounds shallow and probably a good thing you got dumped. You'd have to share more of the conversation.

If she gave you a blowjob you should let her know to go to a doc in case she gets the female of what Michael Douglas talked about. You never know...
 

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You're reasoning for not going down on women is quite poor imo. Stastically, you're much more likely to catch an STD or impregnate a woman while she is on birth control or you're wearing a condom than you are to catch oral cancer from going down on a woman.

Oral Cancer Sneaks Up - NYTimes.com

"Even among those who get an oral HPV 16 infection, less than 1 percent will go on to develop throat cancer."
 

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i met her for the first time last night. we had a beer and then i fucked her.

she asked me to go down on her and i said i do not feel comfortable doing that.

she said that's a dealbreaker.

i fucked her the rest of the night and she said the sex was great.

then she left this morning and sent me some very angry texts for not going down on her and to lose my number. this was the most recent example.

i'm not trying to date her. i'm just saying that i've had lots of women ask for oral sex and they always are offended by me not wanting to do it.


I think she was just trying to make you feel good. If a girl aid to me that it was the best sex she has ever had then I would know she is lying. Ok, maybe i am good but not that good haha.

I think it is just an easy way out for her to not see you again.