Edging Techniques and Advice

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  1. ksbigcock

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    I've come to realize that the summer time makes for great opportunities to edge, especially outdoors. While I've been edging for a while, there are still a few questions I have about it that maybe a few of you experienced edgers can answer. Here it goes-

    I usually edge at night, so throughout the days I try to get hard and come as close to orgasm as many times as possible and then go on to another task. Obviously this feels good, but does it have any effect on my final load? During the time when I actually sit down to edge for a few hours and finish the job... (or not if I want to save it for the next day), I don't use any lube, but try to milk as much precum as I can to rub around the head. When I get close to jizzing, I play with my nuts for a while as my cock throbs and jerks around. After three or four times of coming close to climaxing I shoot my wad and go to bed. I always enjoy the whole edging process, for however many hours I do it, but sometimes the end result isn't the mind-blowing orgasm I waited all day for and afterwards I sometimes feel like I wasted my time. If any of you experts have any input, techniques, strategies, or stories at all, they would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance... :smile:
     
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    I LOVE edging a guy. I have had guys literally with tears in their eyes begging me to let them cum -- hot, hot, hot. Typically I like to use my hand and lube. Bring him to the brink, then switch to just thumb and forefinger around his dick, one stroke every few seconds to get him down a bit from the plateau, then a few fast strokes with my whole hand to get him back up to the brink and repeat.
     
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    For me, lube is a must. 2 reasons:

    - it heightens sensation, and edging is all about sensation
    - practically if you are going to stroke that long, your penis is going to appreciate you minimizing the wear and tear.

    Albolene is the best lube for edging, IMHO

    Another thing you might try is shortening your sessions. I get real tired if I go longer than an hour, and my dick starts to hurt. I am wondering if maybe you are feeling the same way, and that is impacting your orgasms.

    Lastly in terms of intensity, try edging without porn. Porn can really distract you from what you are feeling. Just focus 100% on your sensations and your own pleasure, slowly building up arousal and getting where you can stay on the edge of orgasm for longer periods of time.

    Hope this helps.
     
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    I prefer to let a nice set of lips and a deep throat do the edging for me. I just lay back and moan.
     
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