posternutbag: the other night I managed to maintain that level . . . like right before you lose control, only I kept holding back and extended it for at least ten minutes before finally allowing myself to come . . . this time I was by myself, so there were no distraction/communication barriers. I had myself shaking and gyrating, like when women do it in movies. It was incredible. has anyone else figured out how to go on like this, with a partner or alone?