I avoid ego as much as I can; I aim for associating from the superego whenever possible. In my experience you can't get a healthy self-image from another anyway. It's always nice to hear an intelligent, sincere compliment from my lover however...and from various colleagues, close friends & family. I don't think I've ever been deeply flattered by a stranger paying me a compliment...unless it's spontaneous, unbidden and sincere. Something given without expectation of anything in return (and that's kinda rare).