Ego, low self esteem, and penis enlargement?

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do you think the 3 are related?

lets face it at what size do you stop at. not to mention everyone whos already got 7-9 inches are the ones on here trying to get bigger. It would appear to be a self image issue if anything. Im no exception to this. So whats your take on it
 
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do you think the 3 are related?

They are not only related, by blood, but also married with offspring while incest fucking and becoming further related. Yes there is a correlation

I will say, that as a healthy person starting out, I feel more sexually confident after achieving modest gains to an already above average size

This may actually just be false comfort, and is most definitely taking validation from an invalid source
 
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I’ve never tried penis enlargement but believe me at times I really do consider it, regardless of what others think.

I have numerous mental health issues and have done since I was around five years old or earlier, body image being a major one of them.

I think ego, low self-esteem and penis enlargement are very much related, at least that’s my opinion.

It’s annoying that a lot of people don’t understand that validation from others, no matter how frequent, sincere, etc, has no bearing on the way we view ourselves, at most (for me) I feel better for literally maybe two minutes if that then I have to distract myself yet again from thinking about the bits I hate about myself.
 
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I’ve never tried penis enlargement but believe me at times I really do consider it, regardless of what others think.

I have numerous mental health issues and have done since I was around five years old or earlier, body image being a major one of them.

I think ego, low self-esteem and penis enlargement are very much related, at least that’s my opinion.

It’s annoying that a lot of people don’t understand that validation from others, no matter how frequent, sincere, etc, has no bearing on the way we view ourselves, at most (for me) I feel better for literally maybe two minutes if that then I have to distract myself yet again from thinking about the bits I hate about myself.
Stay strong my boi. Hang in there and keep pushing forward.
 

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They can be related. If you feel that your self esteem would be greatly improved by a cosmetic procedure, then give it serious thought. Consider all pros and cons. If you still feel that a procedure would make you a happier person, then work toward that goal.

Good luck.
 

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I’ve never tried penis enlargement but believe me at times I really do consider it, regardless of what others think.

I have numerous mental health issues and have done since I was around five years old or earlier, body image being a major one of them.

I think ego, low self-esteem and penis enlargement are very much related, at least that’s my opinion.

It’s annoying that a lot of people don’t understand that validation from others, no matter how frequent, sincere, etc, has no bearing on the way we view ourselves, at most (for me) I feel better for literally maybe two minutes if that then I have to distract myself yet again from thinking about the bits I hate about myself.
This may seem incredulous, but being publicly bragged about for having a bigger tool than others, women fondling me in public in plain view, is very embarrassing. I've certainly enjoyed many many private moments, but my "ego " was much more satisfied by other tasks like rebuilding a car engine completely, or growing a lovely Bermuda grass lawn from seed.
 

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This may seem incredulous, but being publicly bragged about for having a bigger tool than others, women fondling me in public in plain view, is very embarrassing. I've certainly enjoyed many many private moments, but my "ego " was much more satisfied by other tasks like rebuilding a car engine completely, or growing a lovely Bermuda grass lawn from seed.
I would sacrifice one of my testicles for what you wrote in the first part.
 

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100% although for me its not "the only" but a large part.

I've attempted to take my own life on more than one occasion - I now have an app with Phycology on weds..if this doesnt help then there is a high likleyhood my next attempt wont fail.
 

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I’ve never tried penis enlargement but believe me at times I really do consider it, regardless of what others think.

I have numerous mental health issues and have done since I was around five years old or earlier, body image being a major one of them.

I think ego, low self-esteem and penis enlargement are very much related, at least that’s my opinion.

It’s annoying that a lot of people don’t understand that validation from others, no matter how frequent, sincere, etc, has no bearing on the way we view ourselves, at most (for me) I feel better for literally maybe two minutes if that then I have to distract myself yet again from thinking about the bits I hate about myself.
There’s sereral options bro I have had the same kind of issues Struggling with body image and penis size issues. I have been enlarging for about 11 months and I have great results .... I started my journey with the bathmate it worked very well!!! Then I started jelqing work good as also...then I got a phallosan stretcher device... bro the best ever you can even wear while sleeping! I also stretch I can send you a good link to a routine ..... now I just stretch and manual pump to maintain I started at 6.25in I’m now at about 7.5in.
 

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100% although for me its not "the only" but a large part.

I've attempted to take my own life on more than one occasion - I now have an app with Phycology on weds..if this doesnt help then there is a high likleyhood my next attempt wont fail.
Never attempted to take my own life but I used to live a self destructive life man. So I guess subconsciously I was suicidal. These days Im doing PE for my own piece of mind. It's not worth it bro. I mean it sincerely.
 

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Never attempted to take my own life but I used to live a self destructive life man. So I guess subconsciously I was suicidal. These days Im doing PE for my own piece of mind. It's not worth it bro. I mean it sincerely.
I've been doing pe for about 3 years now and tried almost every regime or suggestion under the sun and I've gained a grand total of fuck all...
 
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I've been doing pe for about 3 years now and tried almost every regime or suggestion under the sun and I've gained a grand total of fuck all...
Yea but don't take your life over it dude. I'm small too but over time you learn to accept it. It's hard as fuck I know but try finding hobbies. I took up gaming myself. It distracts me. Keep trying what have we got to lose. I've heard good things on extenders man. I'm saving up for one, a good one.
 

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Yea but don't take your life over it dude. I'm small too but over time you learn to accept it. It's hard as fuck I know but try finding hobbies. I took up gaming myself. It distracts me. Keep trying what have we got to lose. I've heard good things on extenders man. I'm saving up for one, a good one.
I have plenty of hobbies dude, but its gotten to the point I struggle even to get hard now because when I see it, I jsut get so embarassed looking at myself!
 
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I have plenty of hobbies dude, but its gotten to the point I struggle even to get hard now because when I see it, I jsut get so embarassed looking at myself!
That's crazy how we think the same way. It'll be alright man trust me I've been there.
 

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That's crazy how we think the same way. It'll be alright man trust me I've been there.
Well, I know you say it'll be alright but 30 years in its only gotten considerably worse.

When you have every partner you've been with make a negative comment oror comparison you realise your good for fuck all.
Yes I know the quote "motion in the ocean (and similar) but it's beyond that now
 
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I have plenty of hobbies dude, but its gotten to the point I struggle even to get hard now because when I see it, I jsut get so embarassed looking at myself!
I felt that way before every one one I wen to pe and pulled out I was disappointed try some of the tips I suggested they actually work
 
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