so, i think I have a crush on someone from my nighttime job. I believe he's str8 or maybe bi-curious I don't know. yep, it's one of those types of scenarios :wink:
I noticed him the day i went to work for the first time. he didn't see me until the following day when we were both arriving at work cuz we were punching in at the same time. he kept looking at me but i was too shy to look back. anyways, i sat next to him-this is a customer service job and pretended to not know how to use the system in certain ways and asked for his help. He showed me and of course I was in awe of his hot bulge and hot ass in those tight pants of his. From time to time he'd give me pointers and normally i'd get annoy when someone would do that especially when i know what to do. But with me, i've made the exception.
My friend always says that you should never act so desperate with the str8 boys. you need to show them that you don't care so you'll leave them hanging. Kind of what girls do to guys. lol
OK so then the following day we find each other again punching in at the same time and he said hey to me and i replied the same. now sometimes when i say hey i can be indifferent and snobbish but i do it to str8 dudes all the time and they don't care. but this guy had an offended look on his face and i was like "interesting....you care somehow"
i sat away from him but close enough to see him throughout my shift. he looked back at me throughout the shift like 5 times but not continously. by the fifth time i caught his eye and gave him the thumb up like saying "you ok?' and he made a face like saying YEP.
then at night we both caught the train and had a chat about music and stuff. I was telling him about how some girl was explaining to me what some artist was saying in some songs. Now normally the banter between str8 guys would be "yeah man, was she hot?! is that all she showed you..." shit like that. but he stood quiet and was contemplative. I said it again to give him another chance and he reacted the same way. I found that sort of odd.
the following day he deliberately sat next to me and we got to chat a bit more. It was then when he told me he was married but then added right after that he is getting a divorce. i was curious and asked him if he had any kids and he said no. Now i don't know whether that was his way of throwing it back at me because of what i said the night before about the girl explaining to me the songs.
So far this is the story of my latest crush. sorry nick 8 :tongue:
And yes, you'd think by this time with my experience i'd know better but what clouds my judgement in regards to whether he's str8 or not is that I think i like him beyond the physical sense. I think this is turning into a real crush and that's why i sat away from him the other day and i plan to do that tonight.
Should i just forget it and move on?
Aren't crushes pathetic?!?! :redface:
I noticed him the day i went to work for the first time. he didn't see me until the following day when we were both arriving at work cuz we were punching in at the same time. he kept looking at me but i was too shy to look back. anyways, i sat next to him-this is a customer service job and pretended to not know how to use the system in certain ways and asked for his help. He showed me and of course I was in awe of his hot bulge and hot ass in those tight pants of his. From time to time he'd give me pointers and normally i'd get annoy when someone would do that especially when i know what to do. But with me, i've made the exception.
My friend always says that you should never act so desperate with the str8 boys. you need to show them that you don't care so you'll leave them hanging. Kind of what girls do to guys. lol
OK so then the following day we find each other again punching in at the same time and he said hey to me and i replied the same. now sometimes when i say hey i can be indifferent and snobbish but i do it to str8 dudes all the time and they don't care. but this guy had an offended look on his face and i was like "interesting....you care somehow"
i sat away from him but close enough to see him throughout my shift. he looked back at me throughout the shift like 5 times but not continously. by the fifth time i caught his eye and gave him the thumb up like saying "you ok?' and he made a face like saying YEP.
then at night we both caught the train and had a chat about music and stuff. I was telling him about how some girl was explaining to me what some artist was saying in some songs. Now normally the banter between str8 guys would be "yeah man, was she hot?! is that all she showed you..." shit like that. but he stood quiet and was contemplative. I said it again to give him another chance and he reacted the same way. I found that sort of odd.
the following day he deliberately sat next to me and we got to chat a bit more. It was then when he told me he was married but then added right after that he is getting a divorce. i was curious and asked him if he had any kids and he said no. Now i don't know whether that was his way of throwing it back at me because of what i said the night before about the girl explaining to me the songs.
So far this is the story of my latest crush. sorry nick 8 :tongue:
And yes, you'd think by this time with my experience i'd know better but what clouds my judgement in regards to whether he's str8 or not is that I think i like him beyond the physical sense. I think this is turning into a real crush and that's why i sat away from him the other day and i plan to do that tonight.
Should i just forget it and move on?
Aren't crushes pathetic?!?! :redface:
