I wouldn't say i necessarily have a problem ejaculating but I think sometimes it takes too much effort especially lately. I really have to tense up my back, butt, legs, to the max and have some crazy stimulation to orgasm. Its almost impossible for me to orgasm standing up or sitting, i can do it once in a while but its almost not worth the effort. I am in very good shape. I do jack off to porn 1-2 times a day which probably has some effect to it. I think if i cut down to minimizing porn/using imagination for a while that would be a realistic way to cut down on this and not feel like crap. I just really would like to cum on a girls face or tits or something and just haven't been able to. The only trick I have really is to do some prostate stimulation, that an get me to come very quickly but id like to be able to do it without the stimulation. I hear kegels can help. Has anyone had this problem and came up with any headway.