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Hi, I am just curious, why does it have to be a monogamous situation for you to let a guy cum in you. I have heard that before from other girls but never understood it (aside from possible stds)?

avoidance of crotch plague seems like reason enough :confused:

hmmm not wanting free tickets and accommodation related to a Maury Povich Paternity episode?

This.

It's really not complicated - I'm not gonna risk my health if I can help it and the pill is not 100% effective.
 
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Hi, I am just curious, why does it have to be a monogamous situation for you to let a guy cum in you. I have heard that before from other girls but never understood it (aside from possible stds)?

super agree with mickey.

STD statistics are enough. one in four people.

if i was having casual hetero sex, i wouldn't even blow a guy without a condom. and swallowing a load? forget it. not without monogamy and comprehensive STD testing that's for dang sure.
 

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On the original point, there comes a point in life when you don't have to worry a lot. when the ob-gyn told my wife that for her memopause had happened (it happened to be relatively early) and the kids were grown a whole new intensity of our sex life opened up. now 90percent of the time she wants to receive inside her vagina. With no worries condoms, foam, pills, etc don't get in the way. So there are joys and opportunities at every point in life.
 

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As I mentioned I get the STD thing but what if you are just having casual sex with a guy you've know for a long time and you know he is free of any diseases. For instance, I recently had sex with a 19 year old guy and I was the second woman he had been with so I let him cum in me (the first woman he had ever cummed inside of :smile:).

This.

It's really not complicated - I'm not gonna risk my health if I can help it and the pill is not 100% effective.
 

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Can women feel the cum being shot in them? I would actually prefer shooting in a condom instead but don't get a chance to anymore
 

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Here's one I'd classify as why science can sometimes make me horny...

Semen is composed of lots of fluids from different sources that combine a few moments before ejaculating. There's a chemical that makes it sticky and women have that same chemical that makes the cervical mucous sticky as well when she's ovulating. When the two fluids combine they gel together like glue. There's also another chemical in semen that breaks down the sticky stuff and turns it into something more like a fluid.

They say that the coronal ridge acts like a scooper to extract a competitor's sperm out of the woman's vagina. I don't buy that. I think the sperm would die, get absorbed, or leak out long before another guy put his dick inside her. I think the ridge is there to "wipe" the cervical mucus off of the cervix before coating it with semen. <-- this paragraph is all my theory, btw.

When a woman orgasms, her cervix dips down on to this pool and her uterus acts like a pump siphoning and sucking this fluid in (Upsuck theory). So, following up on my previous post (about how this one time there was no post coitus cleanup), the easiest way to suck up the guy's semen after he's done would be to have an orgasm after he's done, with your legs propped up (so the semen doesn't flow out). If you were in doggy when he came, lower your shoulders to the bed with your butt high up and cum once. In theory, there should be very little cleanup after. I'm thinking if the guy's dick stays hard enough, for long enough after he's climaxxed, have him pull most of the way out and have him massage the g-spot with his cockhead and work the clit to another orgasm.

I hope no one asks me to cite the articles I read all this from, it's an amalgamation of stuff I've read over the years combined with my faulty memory. Take everything I say with a grain of salt and verify for yourself if in doubt. I'd love to be corrected.
 
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As I mentioned I get the STD thing but what if you are just having casual sex with a guy you've know for a long time and you know he is free of any diseases. For instance, I recently had sex with a 19 year old guy and I was the second woman he had been with so I let him cum in me (the first woman he had ever cummed inside of :smile:).

See, outside of catching an STD and the risk of pregnancy (as you mentioned), I totally agree with you on the semen bit. Some people think it's too intimate to share if it's a casual fuckbuddy relationship, but I say what's a bit of bodily fluids between friends, eh? If we're doing it, I'm still swallowing your saliva. It's easy for me to say though, I'm the one depositing my semen, you're the one taking it home.

I used to blow my load (god, I hate that expression) deep inside my fuckbuddy all the time when we were going out. We both knew we were clean (we were friends for a couple of years and I had one partner, my ex wife, before her, and I was her first in quite a while). And, I can't have kids (medical reason, too long to get into).

If, for some reason, I ever find myself single again, I'll definitely request a clean bill of health medical slip from the doctor for both parties before doing the deed. I hate condoms that much. Ergo, my name's RawDog for that reason..

Can women feel the cum being shot in them? I would actually prefer shooting in a condom instead but don't get a chance to anymore

From all I've read, no. They can feel the penis pulsating when you ejaculate, but not the jet... UNLESS you do this:

Right before you cum, bury your dick as deep inside her as you can. When you feel it start to shoot out, retract about half an inch. In fact, retract to the point you can feel your dick sliding out a bit. The deal is when you go deep, the barrel stretches to accommodate. When you start pulling out, the vaginal barrel relaxes, but still sticks to your penis because of the vacuum. At that point where you feel the contact breaks at the very tip of your glans, there's a small space that opens up for a split second. That small space is where she can possibly feel the spray from your urethra to her back wall.

I've been having more and more success with that with my wife and that actually ends up giving her a pretty powerful orgasm too. Then her bucking hips from her orgasm ends up fucking up all my hard work by smearing my semen all up inside her. We call that "cave painting". :biggrin1:

Hmm, of course if you two really really want to pitch in on the post coital cleanup, use the guy's glans to scoop up his own mess. Keep fucking after he's done cumming up until he's too soft to continue. Like a woman's clit, my cockhead gets too sensitive for any kind of friction, but with the semen all pooled up deep inside, it's too slick to feel any kind of rubbing. That may be why I'm improving in my post ejaculatory hardness.

I'm constantly experimenting. My body's not a temple, it's a playground!
 
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As I mentioned I get the STD thing but what if you are just having casual sex with a guy you've know for a long time and you know he is free of any diseases. For instance, I recently had sex with a 19 year old guy and I was the second woman he had been with so I let him cum in me (the first woman he had ever cummed inside of :smile:).

Yeah...no offense but your responses indicate you don't get the STD thing, just that you are willing to take the risk. Your call entirely *shrug*. I don't know any other way to say it - for me, it is not worth the risk unless I am in a situation where my partner and I are both STD free, both monogamous and I trust that fact 100%.

In the example you quoted I wouldn't know that he was disease free and I certainly wouldn't take his word for it or even the results of any tests that may have been true at the time, but are not necessarily so now. Therefore wouldn't take the risk.

Again, the pill is not 100% effective - something I have experienced first hand - and I do not want to end up pregnant to someone I am not in a committed relationship with.

At the end of the day, I'm not gonna jeopardise seeing my kid grow up - it seems like a stupid risk to take on the grand scheme of things. The 'M' in MILF means more to me than the 'F'.
 

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My wife is close to her menapausal age and is having longer cycles in between her period. I have a "vericoseal" issue and have been told by my urologist years ago I have low sperm count and highly unlikely to get my wife pregnant. Therefore, I never need to wear a condom. Every sex session I cum inside her vagina. We both enjoy it--very intimate and satisfying. Most of the time when I ask, she says she can feel me "squirt inside her" which helps make her cum almost immediately after I do.
 

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okay.. i take great liberties with the english language... abuse it even. standing on a gimpy leg here.

when did cummed get to be a real word?
 

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As I mentioned I get the STD thing but what if you are just having casual sex with a guy you've know for a long time and you know he is free of any diseases. For instance, I recently had sex with a 19 year old guy and I was the second woman he had been with so I let him cum in me (the first woman he had ever cummed inside of :smile:).

cuz ya can't get an STI from the first person ya have sex with. :cool::rolleyes:

troux faques.
 

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okay.. i take great liberties with the english language... abuse it even. standing on a gimpy leg here.

when did cummed get to be a real word?

I have noticed the usage of this word sneaking in....(no offense to those who use it), but is this the past tense of the word cum? I don't know that I can do that...:redface:
 

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Ejaculating inside of your partner...well that has got to be one of thee best feelings on the planet. Just so happens to bring a certain sort of danger along with it. Its both intimate and primal with no speed bumps or do not pass go signs. Its also a sure fire way to ruin the lives of a couple people if not more.
 

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Okay, the idea is good. The fantasy is one thing. Taking his seed or being a bit dangerous or whatever.

But here's the reality. You don't feel the cum spurting inside you. If you do, then you're doing it wrong, because if that thing is in there deep and proper, then you can only hope to feel the pulsations. And you feel the pulsations whether or not there's a condom on.
Then there's the aftermath. You're not horny anymore, and you just want to tell the guy to get lost so you can have a fag in peace. But no, you have to go to the bathroom and fart the stuff out. The noise is a bloody horrendous splurting which can be heard by anyone in the vicinity. And if it doesn't all come out straight away, then the mix of lube and cum is going to want to make its escape suddenly, so you have to run to a loo. And if you sleep on it and wait until the morning to get the stuff out, it all mixes. It gets onto your underwear, and it's brown from the shit stains that it's been mixing with.

And if it comes out clean and quickly with no fuss, then you don't know what it means to get a nice good ass-wrecking. And the pleasure of that is ten times more the pleasure of thinking 'oh, I've just caught his cum'.


Now, as for giving, it's pretty much the same whether you've got a condom on or not. Just a whole lot cleaner if you have.

And STDs. They're not Pokemon, guys. Don't catch them all.
 

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ONLY if I wouldnt mind being knocked up by him...other than that no inside ejaculations or if I trust the guy then no creampie without a plan B pill on the nightstand

*blink* oh.. urm.... yeah..... condoms? ya know.

if you're going to flood your system with hormones why not just go on the pill?

or use a non-hormone back-up birth control? spermicidal gel/foam/sheet? contraceptive sponge. diaphragm...

Plan B = back up plan. not first course of prevention.
 

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Cumming inside a woman feels fucking amazing, especially since you can keep fucking her and increase your pleasure by a ridiculous amount, and still give her another few orgasms

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