Ejaculation vs. male orgasm or are they the same?

[sexplease]

usually i cum and it feels awesome but, sometimes my entire body gets a rush. My back stiffens,my eyes clench, toes curl under. so yeah, i think there's a difference between the two,

 

[Nosuportneeded]

There is a difference, though they usually go hand in hand.

Edging gets discussed around here a lot... masturbating until you're at the edge of having an orgasm and then backing off to calm down a bit and then continuing. On a couple occasions I've fucked up when doing that and ended up ejaculating when I didn't mean to and without an orgasm. I would push on and force myself to the point of orgasm, but it was always a much weaker orgasm when that happened.

Conversely, there's been time where I've climaxed enough times in a short timeframe that I have an orgasm with very little to no ejaculate. The same sensations are there, but nothing comes out (it feels better physically to actually spurt cum though).

So in your situation, I think yes, there could be something that's been going on physically that's caused your ejaculation reflex to trigger early and ahead of an actual orgasm response. A medical specialist might be able to help you troubleshoot it.

This. ^

Also: a beat off orgasm usually sucks for me, because I don't take the time to build it. During sex, I edge to prolong for myself and my partner.
Makes my dick bigger and harder, my orgasms super intense, and my ejaculation powerful and plentiful.

 

[Docdon]

I have mentioned this before but nobody seemed to know what I'm talking about.

Male orgasm and male ejaculation are two separate events, that almost always occur simultaneously.

Once a male ejaculates, his' interest' (in more ways than one) generally declines.

It is possible for a male to have multiple orgasms and not ejaculate for days.

This has been known--and a closely guarded 'secret' for thousands of yrs.

It kinda goes to king Solomon and ancient potentates having hundreds---or even thousands---of concubines. Who would maintain that many women if they couldn't enjoy them way more than average?

My first lover--and mentor---is a fount of knowledge on this, he was 'Eastern trained' from a very young age---as was I, by him.

I have taught a few men I felt deeply for how to do it. It takes much dedication, practice and a large expanse of time. And not all males can ever learn how to do it.

I have been learning tantra--sex without ejaculating, many days now, building up to orgasm without ejaculation. It feels much better than the old ejaculation, which was over too quickly and then i was tired, uninterested, and unable to have more sex.

 

[DaisyDoesIt]

"......and then i was tired, uninterested, and unable to have more sex........." EXACTLY! It's about prolonging and multiplying pleasure.

 

[anoushka]

Edging has proven to me the two are separate events, even if they usually occur in synchrony.

Also, drugs that have primacy of effect upon dopamine release and reuptake can present sexual
side-effects such that ejaculation, orgasm, and erection may happen together, become offset, or
occur in the absence of one or two of the others.

 

[W/In 1 Stand Dev]

I have used an Aneros prostate massager before. The feelings are intense and can lead to a euphoria that is out of this world...an orgasm without ejaculation, multiple times over. You can go to a few websites and just do a search for Aneros prostate massager videos...the feeling of levitating off the bed is incredible.

Also, there is e-stim which opens a whole new set of doors to orgasming without ejaculating, and with the right signals ejaculating and orgasming at the same time. It can all feel really amazing for hours on end. Sometimes it is not about the destination, but rather the journey.

 

[eroc001]

Not really, ejaculation is the release of semen from penis
u can orgasm without ejaculation

 

[DurtyVlad]

Glad others think they are separate as well.
I know there's been many a time where I have cum, but not orgasmed.
I think I have orgasms without cumming as well, usually I take a breather. It could be my asthma though.

 

[redlinexxx80]

definitely separate bodily functions. i'm sure i read somewhere that its not the orgasm that results in loss of libido immediately and the cock going soft, it is the ejaculation part that does that. if you are able to orgasm without ejaculating (too much - guess a few drops is okay) potentially we could go a lot longer.

 

[Cum_is_Great]

definitely separate bodily functions. i'm sure i read somewhere that its not the orgasm that results in loss of libido immediately and the cock going soft, it is the ejaculation part that does that. if you are able to orgasm without ejaculating (too much - guess a few drops is okay) potentially we could go a lot longer.

Hmm, I can ejaculate a couple times in a row but not orgasm. After full orgasm I'll stop. But the ejaculations without orgasm don't feel that good. http://www.xtube.com/video-watch/Me-Having-Multiple-Orgasms-Ejaculations-28256111

 

[Addicted2edging]

Hmm, I can ejaculate a couple times in a row but not orgasm. After full orgasm I'll stop. But the ejaculations without orgasm don't feel that good. http://www.xtube.com/video-watch/Me-Having-Multiple-Orgasms-Ejaculations-28256111

ejaculating without orgasm is totally frustrating for the male body. frustrating of the body this is the goal of edging ..and not release. at the same time this practice is totally addicting for the male body. i am just frustrating the totally naked masculine body in a long marathon edging ritual . the male body has practiced now 7 ejaculations without orgasm in 4,5 hours.

 

[Nick56]

When I'm fucking my wife I can have what I call dry or girl orgasms, I get all the sensations of cumming but without the semen, I can only cum in her when she has had two or three orgasms, that means I can effectively have two or three as well.

 

[gobigold]

I was just playing with a fuck buddy. We’d been cuddling and nibbling for awhile when I began to slowly stimulate his ass and cock. He started to sort of moan and twitching. It got stronger and he turned red and began to shake. Harder and harder. He was on his back and his butt was lifting off the bed. He was sweating profusely. I swear his eyes rolled back. After at least 10 minutes of this I said “are you orgasming over and over?” And he just mumbled “yeah, don’t stop.” I’ll take that over an ejaculation any day!

 

[1141702]

Orgasm and ejaculation are 2 separate actions. The just usually happen at the same time. Separate them - boom, multiple orgasms.

We are just like females but females don’t ejaculate. Men can even squirt like chicks if they learn how. It involves rubbing your head close to orgasm like a clit.

I’m sure some above posters may have mentioned this. Adding an affirmative.

I can have multiple orgasms, dry orgasms, and I can squirt like a chick. As you would expect, multiple times.

 

[lowhangers]

When I can go in I ejacted in 1 Maybe 2 min.
That is when mine wife had the luck he is stiff.
Most times he dont erected and we play. When mine wife plays with mine dick and I get horney and I started cumming with mine softy that has even a better feeling than comming inside with an erected penis.
So I think cumming soft is an orgagsm. And so I have accepted mine impotence.

 

[tnman]

When I can go in I ejacted in 1 Maybe 2 min.
That is when mine wife had the luck he is stiff.
Most times he dont erected and we play. When mine wife plays with mine dick and I get horney and I started cumming with mine softy that has even a better feeling than comming inside with an erected penis.
So I think cumming soft is an orgagsm. And so I have accepted mine impotence.

SAY WHAT?

 

[goander]

I have had 20 or more internal orgasms from prostate massage and never ejaculated. Still very pleasurable.

 

[T71R]

My orgasms are when my pc muscles spasm from pleasure- clenching my ass, with the contracting and flexing and pulsing my cock- if I shoot my load, that's ejaculation. They can be separate.

 

[1362937]

I have had 20 or more internal orgasms from prostate massage and never ejaculated. Still very pleasurable.

I have never been able to get one

 

[goander]

I have never been able to get one

Keep trying. I had one today.