Now, the catch is how to celebrate large labia without making the neat and trim women feel lacking? Seems like a lose-lose situation here.
It's the same as the big boobs/small boobs thing. Showing a preference for one always has the potential to make owners of the other feel a little less than perfect (and not always because of anything the preferrer has said - not specifically anyway).
This effect can be somewhat ameliorated by being polite (saying the other kind are 'disgusting' is NOT polite - not that you would, RawDog!), and by saying that all kinds are lovely, you just have a preference for one.
Mr. Rawdog - me jenny doesn't get all twisted out of joint when the ladies of ample labia get the love.
I'm not as confident as you about my bits. I've always felt less than perfect when I've heard males express a preference for neat labia. But that's because I'd never heard from those who have a preference for larger ones! After spending time on LPSG, I've come to realise that there are plenty of guys on both sides of the fence (and lots in the middle too), and I feel rather more comfortable with what I've got.
Would I go for labiaplasty? Nope. Not even pre-LPSG. It has been tempting on occasion, but never tempting enough that I'd actually do it.