Embarrassed/Ashamed

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  1. Imported

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    mikeyd: I dont know if this applies to all hung guys, but a gay black guy with a big thick dick. But in my youth I was always ashamed of my size, and I'm now 40 I have finally reached the age where I know I am hung and frankly don't give a damm !

    I get more and more compliments from men and women now I've reached 40.

    I firmly believe "Life Begins at 40"
     
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    Everybody deserves a first start!
     
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    I know this is a little off the tread, but when I was younger (jr. high and high school) I always thought I was on the small size. I also knew from when I was in jr. high that I was bi. I wanted to look at the other guys, but if I did try to steal a peak, I knew I would be labeled a "fag". So the only other penises I saw were in pornos.. I watch John Holmes and knew I was not that large. It wasn't until I was in the Army that I was larger than most (even my roommate who was black). If a women said I was "hung" I thought they were just saying that to make me feel better. But when a gay guy said I was hung, then I knew I was on the large size. I won't say I was embarrassed, but more unsure if I was even in the league of "hung".
     
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    [quote author=mikeyd link=board=meetgreet;num=1071344998;start=0#0 date=12/13/03 at 11:40:58]

    "...I firmly believe "Life Begins at 40"


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    You betcha! ;)

    And thanks for sharing this.

    You've encouraged (untold) thousands of readers
    here, no doubt.
     
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    mikeyd, you might be surprised by the number of men who have written on this board that they were ashamed or embarrassed by their exceptional size as a youth. Boys don't want to be 'different,' especially when it makes their peers envious.

    And, geo, by the same token, many young men will refuse to accept their endowment for exactly the same reason, often without being conscious of it.

    I was one of the latter, I think. I was 30 years old before I was willing to admit to myself that I was well above average.

    At the very least, a late acceptance of our possession may very well have kept us from being big-headed locker room jerks instead of the kind, considerate, compassionate angels we have become. :D
     
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    dable_wi: Very Good, Pecker, and I would add a comment for MikeyD:

    You deserve more than, "....NOT giving a damn." You can care about it. You have a very unique and beautiful thing and, therefore, people, men or women, will be interested in you as a partner for intimacy. That is a tremendous advantage and you can make a difference in people's lives.

    I cannot tell you how many men and women I have met through their interest in my penis. Granted, there are those whose interest turns out to be purely physical and all about, " god,..,you've got a big dick,....blah, blah, blah" but more often, you can spot that and move onto someone more substantive.

    Best of luck and, by the way, Merry Christmas.

    dable
     
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    LittleMike: Now I'm not as big as some of the guys here (7.5" x 5.5") but on my size build, its definitely pretty big - especially with big low hanging balls. Back in high school gym class with showers, I was picked and got very embarrassed about it since I was one of the smallest boys in the class (height-weight-wise).

    It wasn't until I was at college before I got comfortable dealing about stuff like this. Now it doesn't bother me in the slightest - but I can see how many teens must go through hell dealing with these types of issues - not just for being too big, but for being too small, or too skinny, or too ugly, or too poor, or whatever.
     
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    rangersean: Being from a "body ashamed" family, when I started growing I didn't know what the hell was going on and couldn't ask anyone. Oh, and top that off with being gay in a modestly conservative family.

    I used to tuck and hide and be in pain a hell of a lot. I had to move across the country before I could deal with the idea I was hung.
     
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