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On my bachelor night my best friends brought me to a small spa where i would get a massage by 2 barely clothed girls right in front of them as they were drinking beers. They all stood at the side where my feet were and had a straight view towards my crotch.

As i didn't expect any activity like this at all i was wearing a thong that night and sure enough, that exposed everything i got on that massage table. Little to hide and almost with a boner as these two girls really gave me quite an erotic massage... one of my friends couldn't believe i was wearing such an 'underwear' and laughed out loud as he saw it.

I didn't mind them knowing that i wear sexy undies but i got embarrassed quite a bit by having just a thin string 'covering' my asshole and my bulge laid out openly right in front of them haha...
 

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On my bachelor night my best friends brought me to a small spa where i would get a massage by 2 barely clothed girls right in front of them as they were drinking beers. They all stood at the side where my feet were and had a straight view towards my crotch.

As i didn't expect any activity like this at all i was wearing a thong that night and sure enough, that exposed everything i got on that massage table. Little to hide and almost with a boner as these two girls really gave me quite an erotic massage... one of my friends couldn't believe i was wearing such an 'underwear' and laughed out loud as he saw it.

I didn't mind them knowing that i wear sexy undies but i got embarrassed quite a bit by having just a thin string 'covering' my asshole and my bulge laid out openly right in front of them haha...

What do you think they thought about your cock size?
 

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What do you think they thought about your cock size?

Hmm i don't really know. Some of them already saw my thin, cut 2.5-3.5 in soft dick during many showers after sports. This time they got to see my bulge straight from below haha so i dunno what their impression was. Plus they are all uncut and straight (i believe). Definitely, it makes a nice bulge in that thong even when soft (that's why i put it on for that eve, to feel comfy and bulgy haha).

I think they know that i am not big (say 5-6 in and thick soft) so for them i'm just "normal" or: given the view of some of them being in that bigger range, maybe they see it even as a "small cock"... which is again quite embarrassing, being so exposed and on the spot right in front of them lol..
 
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i mean, how would you feel having an erotic massage (back and then even front) in front of your best friends like this?

I tried to take some pics with let's say "their view" to see myself what they saw - and hmmm... - somehow this is not what you want your best straight buddies to see so closely haha...

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Nothing to be embarrassed about. Your best friends probably all had Boners before you did that night.. I wear sexy underwear all the time. It holds my cock and balls like I want and doesn't buch up under my pants.
Guys need to quit worrying about what others think and wear what you want.

Guys with confidence in themselves wear sexy underwear and Speedos at the beach and pool.
 

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i mean, how would you feel having an erotic massage (back and then even front) in front of your best friends like this?

I tried to take some pics with let's say "their view" to see myself what they saw - and hmmm... - somehow this is not what you want your best straight buddies to see so closely haha...

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Definitely nothing to be embarrassed about. With a body like yours, you should be proud to show it off.. ;)
 

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You have more modesty than I. If I'm getting a massage, I'm naked. If they didn't want the show, they would have left.
Haha wow really in front of your straight buddies? Nice confidence man! Actually, the ladies constantly whispered into my ears that i should tell the other guys to leave the room and have some more private fun... i have no idea what they would have done with me but i also didn't want that to leak out later on to my fianceé...
 

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i mean, how would you feel having an erotic massage (back and then even front) in front of your best friends like this?

I tried to take some pics with let's say "their view" to see myself what they saw - and hmmm... - somehow this is not what you want your best straight buddies to see so closely haha...

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Since I have a small penis, I would definitely have felt embarrassed!
You are a lot more brave than I am.
 

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Since I have a small penis, I would definitely have felt embarrassed!
You are a lot more brave than I am.

thanks man but my average dick size was really not the issue for me. it was more that they saw what i may wear privately underneath and usually i am quite like them "just the next door's guy". plus all my buddies saw straight face at my ass crack and that felt a little awkward for me haha
 
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*five second face*

I think there is something to be said for the people who visit the forums with genuine concerns and questions, vs those who start threads with false pretenses, who lead those who are unaware of their intentions down an orchestrated garden path for their own pleasure, or fetish. Or both.

Those that decide to contribute, to help the OP in some way, are mislead. Why? Because the topic, while appearing to be a valid concern, is actually part of a web of disingenuous design. It simultaneously draws you in, and feeds the OP's fetish by the nature of the replies.

The OP has a very rich posting history regarding humiliation, and small penises.

Talking about it is the exhibitionist part, as is the posting of pictures. It is self directed shaming. Involving others, as many as possible! builds the feelings he is experiencing: sexualized humiliation.

It isn't about solving someone's real problem; it is about getting someone off.

That is what personally offends me about the OP's threads. It is the misleading of those who are unaware, who come in here to genuinely try to help, and all the while it is the intent of the OP to stretch out the conversation for as long, and in as much personal detail as possible, for the sake of his personal humiliation fetish.
 

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don't make such a face haha. thanks for helping my apparent fetish, smart analytic man, but haven't you read my latest posts yet? I've turned my back to sph for quite some time now. in addition, i'd like to quote myself from just above:"thanks man but my average dick size was really not the issue for me. i'm not at all seeking for any humiliation, you have misread, misinterpret and misled. i described a legit situation of my life where i really felt embarrassed in front of my best friends (for being kinky and quite exposed) and thought i might share it and see if any other guys will add their own stories eventually. oh, and as it "offends" you, maybe you just ignore it in the future and stand strong not to write - that would help others to participate and enjoy whatever they enjoy. and try harder!

*five second face*

I think there is something to be said for the people who visit the forums with genuine concerns and questions, vs those who start threads with false pretenses, who lead those who are unaware of their intentions down an orchestrated garden path for their own pleasure, or fetish. Or both.

Those that decide to contribute, to help the OP in some way, are mislead. Why? Because the topic, while appearing to be a valid concern, is actually part of a web of disingenuous design. It simultaneously draws you in, and feeds the OP's fetish by the nature of the replies.

The OP has a very rich posting history regarding humiliation, and small penises.

Talking about it is the exhibitionist part, as is the posting of pictures. It is self directed shaming. Involving others, as many as possible! builds the feelings he is experiencing: sexualized humiliation.

It isn't about solving someone's real problem; it is about getting someone off.

That is what personally offends me about the OP's threads. It is the misleading of those who are unaware, who come in here to genuinely try to help, and all the while it is the intent of the OP to stretch out the conversation for as long, and in as much personal detail as possible, for the sake of his personal humiliation fetish.
 
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(blah blah blah) i'm not at all seeking for any humiliation, you have misread, misinterpret and misled. i described a legit situation of my life where i .. (blah blah blah)
Every time someone calls you out, you pull out the denial cards. Post history. That's all anyone needs.

I only ignore the truly offensive people. Pests? It is good to poke them in the eye once in a while, and to enlighten people who don't know your schtick yet.

I'd suggest going to more niche fetish sites, but that advice has been given in spades. Why do you continue here? So people can stumble onto your threads unaware of what you are up to. They fall for your ruse, and you get to manipulate them. Exhibitionism, humiliation, manipulation, and ultimately control of the threads that feed you.

At any rate, I won't engage you here any further. Cheers.
 

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Nothing to be embarrassed about. Your best friends probably all had Boners before you did that night.. I wear sexy underwear all the time. It holds my cock and balls like I want and doesn't buch up under my pants.
Guys need to quit worrying about what others think and wear what you want.

Guys with confidence in themselves wear sexy underwear and Speedos at the beach and pool.


I agree I love sexy underwear also. I also enjoy freeballing as much as anything especially during the summer. But I have always loved nice sexy underwear. I agree wear what you like and wear what you want!
 

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If they brought you there, then I’m sure they’d expect that it’d be arousing for everyone. Should’ve just taken it all off if you were concerned about what kind of underwear you were wearing. I’m sure they weren’t focused on you, just living variously through you.
 

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If they brought you there, then I’m sure they’d expect that it’d be arousing for everyone. Should’ve just taken it all off if you were concerned about what kind of underwear you were wearing. I’m sure they weren’t focused on you, just living variously through you.

wow, thanks for your reply. i sort of like the idea as i am quite open in general and show "it" off in public and so on. But with my straight buddies which i know all from school and university i would't feel comfy of getting an erection right in front of them and they all being clothed: i imagine me there fully nude and two girls massaging my back first and then eventually i would have to turn around... (even in my thong i had a precum leaking semi by then and was worried what they will see) man, for sure they would see (if they'd even stayed inside continuing to drink beers) my fully erected layed out dick right there - which for me - would have probably been a bit too much in such a straight "i'm getting married" setting of a bachelor night. or do you think if i had taken them off completely, they would have left our of courtesy ...?