I have never been intimate with anyone. I was violently assaulted in my 20’s. Decades later I attended an online party and met a man . Later, to my horrified surprise. I thought of him and got warm swirls around my heart that went to my lower stomach when I thought of him.
At least 20 years later. I didn’t say anything. I thought we were clicking and becoming friends.
Than I’m sure he deliberately triggered me with with m memories of my rape. I was flashbacking and severe panic attack.
He knew what he had done. Then kicked me out of the party. I apologize the next day to people who went to the party. I took blame for all of it.
So, he told me never to return to the parties ever. No one asked if I was ok. He could of cared less. All he said was ‘you talked about me’ I don’t know what that means!
The other women who were nice when I first was there became mean to me. I wanted to be friends with them.
He and I started to email again at a later date. I gave him all sorts of presents that included a bracelet and a bdsm mask with zipper mouth.
He actually took the effort to email me with me writing first. Asked if I sent it to him and was so happy.
He also put that bracelet on as soon as he saw it.
That night on his birthday video, he made fun of me showing how to keep your gag reflex from working during a bj.
That was around the time I found he had a gf. I got. Angry. He was bitchy and denied it. The video was re edited.
Btw- that bracelet never showed up again. Had falling out. WI tried to stand up for myself and wrote very mean messages he never read.
Last night I freaked out( I have severe ptsd and I’m autistic) I have been asking to make peace with him.
I kept apologizing- saying I realized he thought I was shit. But I wanted a truce.
He made it clear he saw my message. He refused to answer it and deleted it.
I am enraged, humiliated,grieving and despise myself. Meanwhile he has the reputation of being the sweetest, kindest, most compassionate man ever or something.
No one else has been treated like I was. He Evan only people who make him money or women he gets laid . His best friend told him about the rape. His best friend was all like ‘you can tell me anything’ I can tell you have been abused.call me anytime. A female friend told me I was too unattractive to even be friends with him . Not to try to get a guy out of my league.
Why did he do this too me? I know I’m ugly. I have a profile photo on here that shows my ugliness.
Why was he so horrible to me and great to everyone else? He only targeted me- why was he mean and spiteful? He made fun of my rape.
How do I get over this I am anger personified. Ii wouldnt do anything to him . Besides, he wouldn’t give a shit. Why do I still want him? Why am I so fucked up?
Any advice or insights?
At least 20 years later. I didn’t say anything. I thought we were clicking and becoming friends.
Than I’m sure he deliberately triggered me with with m memories of my rape. I was flashbacking and severe panic attack.
He knew what he had done. Then kicked me out of the party. I apologize the next day to people who went to the party. I took blame for all of it.
So, he told me never to return to the parties ever. No one asked if I was ok. He could of cared less. All he said was ‘you talked about me’ I don’t know what that means!
The other women who were nice when I first was there became mean to me. I wanted to be friends with them.
He and I started to email again at a later date. I gave him all sorts of presents that included a bracelet and a bdsm mask with zipper mouth.
He actually took the effort to email me with me writing first. Asked if I sent it to him and was so happy.
He also put that bracelet on as soon as he saw it.
That night on his birthday video, he made fun of me showing how to keep your gag reflex from working during a bj.
That was around the time I found he had a gf. I got. Angry. He was bitchy and denied it. The video was re edited.
Btw- that bracelet never showed up again. Had falling out. WI tried to stand up for myself and wrote very mean messages he never read.
Last night I freaked out( I have severe ptsd and I’m autistic) I have been asking to make peace with him.
I kept apologizing- saying I realized he thought I was shit. But I wanted a truce.
He made it clear he saw my message. He refused to answer it and deleted it.
I am enraged, humiliated,grieving and despise myself. Meanwhile he has the reputation of being the sweetest, kindest, most compassionate man ever or something.
No one else has been treated like I was. He Evan only people who make him money or women he gets laid . His best friend told him about the rape. His best friend was all like ‘you can tell me anything’ I can tell you have been abused.call me anytime. A female friend told me I was too unattractive to even be friends with him . Not to try to get a guy out of my league.
Why did he do this too me? I know I’m ugly. I have a profile photo on here that shows my ugliness.
Why was he so horrible to me and great to everyone else? He only targeted me- why was he mean and spiteful? He made fun of my rape.
How do I get over this I am anger personified. Ii wouldnt do anything to him . Besides, he wouldn’t give a shit. Why do I still want him? Why am I so fucked up?
Any advice or insights?