Embarrassing situation...

[mmjr]

Be happy he still has a sex drive at 65 and after serioius surgery. He needed help getting up so one can deduce that he was where you found him when the "urge" hit him. He had little chance to go somewhere else. Hope that his genes mean that you will be equally horny when youre that age. Tell him youre proud of him for his attitude and tell him he needs to do the laundry as soon as he is able. LOL

 

[dolfette]

just out of hospital.
post op infection.

does he seem 100% on the ball? is this really out of character? because i see a lot of infections through my work and they can effect behaviour and judgement. some even seem quite senile until the infection clears.

 

[helgaleena]

After the talk you had it sounds like you both cleared the air to a good extent! And your dad sounds like he's not unreasonable and is going to be private again after this, now that he's got the technology figured out better. I think the masturbation is going to be a recovery aid! As they say in my family of doctors, 'sign of life'.

 

[ottosafado]

Any updates?

 

[rayray]

I'm happy you guys cleared the air . Nobody mentioned it about him being bare ass naked on your living room couch . Lol...

 

[Florida Boy]

Okay guys, I've never posted a thread on here before, but I feel like I need to now. First, a little background info:

My 65 year old dad is staying with me for a while because he had hip replacement surgery a few weeks ago and is still unable to climb stairs, and he has a post-op infection and is on an antibiotic IV that a visiting nurse needs to come and check on twice a day, and I only live three blocks from the hospital in case he should need to go back. Plus, I live in a one-storey house, I've never married and have no children, and things are just very convenient for him here. I usually get home from work around 5:30, but today I had to go to the grocery store and I called him to let him know I'd be about an hour later than usual, depending on traffic. It didn't take as long as I thought and I got home a bit before 6:30. Now here's the embarrassing situation:

When I walked into my house today, I caught my 65 year old father butt-assed naked on my couch, jacking off and watching porn on my laptop. I was quite surprised, and all I could say was "Oops. I'm sorry." and I walked into the kitchen. I was so embarrassed that I was shaking when I put the groceries in my kitchen. My dad didn't even bat an eye. He didn't try to cover himself up and he didn't stop what he was doing. All he said was, "Okay. I'll be done in a little while." About 7:00 he called to me and told me he was done and asked if I could help him get up so he go to the bathroom and get a towel to wipe up.

I took him a towel and his robe so he could put it on before I helped him up. I couldn't even look him in the eye and I'm still so embarrassed that I don't know if I should talk to him about this or not. I don't care that he was masturbating, but if he had been doing it in the guest room, where he's staying while he's here, I wouldn't have caught him. Should I ask him to jack off in his own room or should I just get over it and assume that he'll not do it in my living room anymore?

Don't assume he will come to his senses and do it privately. Just wondering how long he's been there recovering. Looks like he had an extra hour. He had all day to jack-off, except when the nurse was there. Poor judgement on his part or was it intentional?

 

[Florida Boy]

Don't assume he will come to his senses and do it privately. Just wondering how long he's been there recovering. Looks like he had an extra hour. He had all day to jack-off, except when the nurse was there. Poor judgement on his part or was it intentional?

I just realized how old the post was that I responded to was. Guess I should have read the rest of the thread first. But then there would be no need to reply.

 

[Viper73]

D_gcx11cv,

Been there done that... I'm 42 and my Dad is 78. It is quite a shock to walk in on! In my case it was right as he unloaded so there was no stopping. After the initial shock, things went pretty quickly back to normal in my case.

 

[ottosafado]

D_gcx11cv,

Been there done that... I'm 42 and my Dad is 78. It is quite a shock to walk in on! In my case it was right as he unloaded so there was no stopping. After the initial shock, things went pretty quickly back to normal in my case.

Tell us more about your embarrassing situation ...

 

[Viper73]

Pretty much the exact same situation as the original poster...

After my Mom passed away Dad came to live with me. He has parkinsons and doesn't get around very well. I had the room and figured that 'home' was the best place for him rather than some care facility.

He'd been staying with me for about six months. I had to work much later than normal and got home around 9pm.

I walk in and my Dad is lying on the couch, 'full mast' jacking it, porn is playing on my bigscreen and just as I start to ask WTF is going on he unloads all over himself - not even realizing I opened the front door.

I was shocked... You know they do it, but really... in my living room??? BAD CHOICE

 

[ottosafado]

Pretty much the exact same situation as the original poster...

After my Mom passed away Dad came to live with me. He has parkinsons and doesn't get around very well. I had the room and figured that 'home' was the best place for him rather than some care facility.

He'd been staying with me for about six months. I had to work much later than normal and got home around 9pm.

I walk in and my Dad is lying on the couch, 'full mast' jacking it, porn is playing on my bigscreen and just as I start to ask WTF is going on he unloads all over himself - not even realizing I opened the front door.

I was shocked... You know they do it, but really... in my living room??? BAD CHOICE

Your dad 78 year has orgamos and jerk off? lol nice. I want to be like him.

 

[EquusAZ]

A few things hit me here. Did I read right that he had to call you and ask for towels to clean up? And then you had to help him to his room? Having had serious SERIOUS surgery recently has clued me into these things. It could have been that he was unable to move or remove himself from the place he was in. And while using your laptop to look at porn is NOT COOL - *shrug* I could understand being worked up.

Remember he's a human being. In fact I would have gone so far as to make certain there was a discrete pile of towels in HIS room and maybe a mag or two for him. *sigh* I had to take care of my grandfather in his late 80's when I was in my 20's. Horny bastard he was he never made a fuss, but I did hear him complain about not having "privacy" later in his life. But he was a sweetheart of a man. If you'd been a few minutes later would it have been THAT awkward?

 

[love2compare]

...so finally my question: who's having the bigger dick, you or your father and were you impressed?

 

[Jjz1109]

Okay guys, I've never posted a thread on here before, but I feel like I need to now. First, a little background info:

My 65 year old dad is staying with me for a while because he had hip replacement surgery a few weeks ago and is still unable to climb stairs, and he has a post-op infection and is on an antibiotic IV that a visiting nurse needs to come and check on twice a day, and I only live three blocks from the hospital in case he should need to go back. Plus, I live in a one-storey house, I've never married and have no children, and things are just very convenient for him here. I usually get home from work around 5:30, but today I had to go to the grocery store and I called him to let him know I'd be about an hour later than usual, depending on traffic. It didn't take as long as I thought and I got home a bit before 6:30. Now here's the embarrassing situation:

When I walked into my house today, I caught my 65 year old father butt-assed naked on my couch, jacking off and watching porn on my laptop. I was quite surprised, and all I could say was "Oops. I'm sorry." and I walked into the kitchen. I was so embarrassed that I was shaking when I put the groceries in my kitchen. My dad didn't even bat an eye. He didn't try to cover himself up and he didn't stop what he was doing. All he said was, "Okay. I'll be done in a little while." About 7:00 he called to me and told me he was done and asked if I could help him get up so he go to the bathroom and get a towel to wipe up.

I took him a towel and his robe so he could put it on before I helped him up. I couldn't even look him in the eye and I'm still so embarrassed that I don't know if I should talk to him about this or not. I don't care that he was masturbating, but if he had been doing it in the guest room, where he's staying while he's here, I wouldn't have caught him. Should I ask him to jack off in his own room or should I just get over it and assume that he'll not do it in my living room anymore?

Dude, sorry by this is fucking hysterical. The fact that he had no shame? In my view, it's time for him to move out!

 

[ottosafado]

Dude, sorry by this is fucking hysterical. The fact that he had no shame? In my view, it's time for him to move out!

You were never caught?

 

[Jjz1109]

You were never caught?

Due. Did you read the OP? What does your question have to do with that?

 

[Notaes]

Good advice, fuck everytime you can, anywhere you can, because you never know when it will be your last. I have had a problem for the last several months that has caused me not to be able to cum. I have never ever even given not being able to cum a thought in my life. But let me tell you, I would give my last dime to be able to cum right now. I'm confirdent I will cum again but I don't know how long it will be or when it will be. Enjoy cumming everytime you can because you never know when it will be your last.