I find myself in a position in which I have never been in before and I am not comfortable with it. I found out Thursday that apparently I am the other woman in an emotional affair! I'm shocked because I thought he and I were just friends. He and I have spent 5 hours a day together for the last 6 weeks. In the last two weeks we started texting each other on weekends, when bored, or whatever. Usually we text/gossip about other people that we don't like. :tongue: There has never been anything sexual between us. Not a kiss, no hand holding, no cow eyed gazes, nothing of that nature. So I was incredibly shocked as was he when someone mentioned that we should keep it platonic and just be friends. I said of course and just laughed it off and went to get more cake. He stayed and protested rather strongly and loudly. This set off my radar that perhaps something was awry. Apparently others had been calling us the Bobsey Twins, Frick and Frack, etc. behind our backs for like the past month! I had no idea. Obviously he is married. I have even met his wife a few times. She and I actually have a shopping date planned for the end of the month. Now I wonder if she is thinking I am after her husband? I know she knows who I am, but I doubt she knows that he shares details of their intimate life with me. Yeah, I tried to discourage that initially; but he said he wanted another womans opinion. (Hmmm, was I being played?:redface Since I am not now, nor have I ever been down with OPP I feel I should confront him about this. Am I being silly? Have you or your partner/spouse ever had an emotional affair? If it was you, did you realize it was happening or was it pointed out to you by someone else?