Emotional Attraction To Guys And Dating Them...?

alex-xx

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For those of you who in the past didn't think that it would be possible for you to be emotionally attracted to guys and to be in a relationship with one but who then ended up dating them anywway....how did it happen exactly? What/who 'triggered' it?
 
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I grew up in a heteronormative world thinking I was a heterosexual male. Tons of crushes on girls. When I was in high school I started having crushes on a few guys. By the time I became an adult I knew could be emotionally attracted to men as well as women though way more women than men.

I ignored or turned down several guys in college who flirted or asked me out. Near the end of senior year I had sex with a guy who invited me to his room at the hotel where I worked.

No one guy or event "triggered" it. I gradually became aware of it.
 
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