or just an ED with a twist for better clarification. My (gay friend if it makes a difference) has been faced with a new problem. 18 years old, and has an ED already. His most recent ex-boyfriend had the same problem, he chalked it up to still being in love with his last boyfriend. Anytime things got heading toward sex, he would remember his ex, and loose his hard on. It was a really interesting scenario, and my friend decided that instead of trying to get over it, he would psych himself out during sex. Now that my friend is no longer with this guy ^, he has been out partying, drinking, doing drugs, and trying to get over him. He's fooled around with other guys no problem, but as soon as it comes to sex... he looses his hard on, becomes angry, and makes the person leave. The only reason why I'm concerned (besides him being a good friend) is that he'll learn the same helplessness that his ex did... and it will carry on with him. What do you guys suggest?