Emotional response from deep penetration

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stud_hunter said:
:wink: . So the bottom line is I get my easiest and best orgasms from regular 'ol vaginal thrusting,

Geez! I can't believe I just referred to vaginal thrusting as "regular, 'ol", when in fact it is one of the greatest things on the face of the earth! :tongue:
 

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stud_hunter said:
:wink: . Oh, when it comes to female orgasms, I have no trouble speaking in detail - what a lovely topic :wink: .
It's interesting what you say about it being validating to hear from other women that our orgasms and the causes and reactions aren't unique. I know what you mean. I have a few girlfriends who I tend to discuss sex with in detail, and we've long since determined that my orgasmic response is very different from theirs. It's funny - in the past there was a misconception that women were supposed to cum from intercourse, and nobody really paid much attention to the clit. Now everyone knows women orgasm mostly from clit action and most can't cum from intercourse alone. At one point I was a bit self-conscious because I cum like they used to think women were supposed to :confused: . What I mean is I orgasm from intercourse alone, without direct clit stimulation. Just thrusting. Sure it helps if it's skilled thrusting from a man who knows how to move, and it also helps if the guy gets me hot first by kissing me all over, fingering me or oral. But I still orgasm from just thrusting. I'm aware this is very rare, but as I've read more and learned more I've come to understand my orgasmic response. I've learned that I have G-spot and cervical orgasms but that I also have clit orgasms through indirect stimulation of my clitoral hood through my labia. That's why I do so love a thick penis - more friction on my labia. As for external clit stimulation, it feels good but the outside of my clit just isn't as sensitive as the inside of it. So the bottom line is I get my easiest and best orgasms from regular 'ol vaginal thrusting, and oral sex gets boring to me after a couple minutes.
My point in all this is to say I too know the validation that comes from understanding my orgasms and knowing there's nothing wrong with me. Now, feeling self-conscious about how I cum seems just silly :wink: .


OOh I'm just so jealous...it all sounds great! Thanks everyone for your answers too.
 

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i must be different from most girls, i dont mind a guy bangin into the cervix, i havent had it hurt yet but i do get the same cluster of orgasms, slow passionate massaging of the cervix is great too
 

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Last time this happened to me, the girl I was with yelped, swore and whacked me upside the head. This certainly made me feel like crying.

So I speak from experience when I say that hitting the cervix with your penis induces headaches.
 

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Honey_Grrrl83 said:
I'm not a huge fan of doggy style,neither are my friends,but it seems like the doggy style position is even more hazardous with a large cock

I've also caused a few girlfriends pain in a position I can only describe as a missionary pretzel, it's very kama sutra-like. She is on her back, legs in the air, ankles behind my neck, ass off the floor; I'm above her, in push-up position thrusting my hips up and down.

This position also works as anal, is even more pretzel-like then. Advantage as an anal is that there is no "wall" to hit and once the path has adjusted pile driving, if allowed, is very effective...
 

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It certainly depends on the position and angle as was mentioned earlier in the thread. I'm only 7x6, and I've been with girls where going all the way in caused great pain, wheras others took it just fine. Some girls would be fine in missionary, but in doggy or having her lying on her side and me entering her would easily punch the cervix and cause great pain. The key is to take is slow and figure out what you can take. If you're a guy and have a big one, you have to learn how to keep some of it out so you dont hurt her, and know each others limits.
 

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This probably doesn't count as an emotional response but the only time I've experienced extreme pain during sex with my b/f was during doggie and angled his body in such a way that his penis was pointing downwards.
I wasn't sure what caused the pain exactly but after reading some of the other posts I now know it was his penis hitting my cervix.
A tip for girls who aren't into doggie: one of the best orgasms I've had was achieved when we fucked standing up and in doggie- he lowered his body so that his penis was pointing up into me and it rubbed my g-spot. :smile:
 

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From what I have found out most don't like their cervix hit hard But one girl that had me fist her loved to have me massage hers with my hand griping, squeezing and rubbing her cervix gave her so many orgasms causing her shake and cry out more more that I lost count but finally after about fourty minutes she would passout for the better part of an hour
 

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God, I can't recall the number of times I had tears in my eyes from a REALLY DEEP and hard penetration. Some pain, but most ecstasy and sheer emotional feeling of KNOWING I was really taking SOOOOO much. But if a guy hits square up on my cervix, you better believe I can scream in agony!!
 

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The only time I remember having pain with intercourse... was the first time I had sex, with a longer dick that my vibrator would go in. It didn't hurt as much as it made me feel like I had to pee. I guess I have a funny angled cervix, cause I love rough insertion in doggy stlye position, and I've never had any pain, even with longer guys.
 

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I'm not sure, I got it from women on top sex, not doggy style. I usually tend to not stay on just my knee's or hands/elbows. I usually arch my back either up or down, and rest on my arms. I think it then becomes leapfrog position like this:
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A less painful penetration, and the best for when I'm tired.
 

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I've gotten that (or more properly 'given that') a number of times and was never sure what exactly was causing it or what it ment. Does it mean you really have to pee or is it something else? And is there anything I can do during doggy-style to prevent it?

I get that same sensation before I squirt. I used to get it all the time and tried to "hold back" thinking I was going to pee. Then I read on a website that this urge was actually a squirting orgasm and the best way to experience it was to "let go" in other words, go ahead and "pee" when you feel it coming. After you do it once, you'll want to keep doing it. It's amazing, and is most definitely not pee.
 

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I can't answer seeing as I'm not a woman, but I do know I love the look on a woman's face the 1st time I bottom out in her. Sometimes it sure does look emotional to me.
 

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You got that right. I'm an emotional kind of person anyway, and I KNOW my face had to have been making some really wild expressions every time a guy hits bottom and starts taking me deeper than any man has ever gone before!!!

For any guy who is looking for a response on a womans face, I'm sure he'd see "oh shit" or "oh my god" or any number of other eye-popping expressions on mine!!