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Tender: for Sammy,
i disagree that we chose everyday to be happy or not.
with all do respect, a gentlemen here on the board has had a good friend commit suicide.
sorry, but he will not wake up tomarow and choose to be happy. he will wake up to reality.
the reality is that sometimes things are not happy.
i do not live in bliss that things are good, when in reality they are not.
that is not a choice.
we cannot choose whom we fall in love with, Sammy you would have chosen to fall in love with your fiance then? the one you lived with, had a child with, and were engaged to? i should hope that you WANTED to love him? why then didnt you just WILL yourself to love him and be happy in that?  ???
i would have chosen to be in love with SB.
so then i do not believe we chose to be happy everyday.
be happy in life in general, yes, and i am. be happy in an emotional way from day to day, no I do not.
i suppose the cure for those struggling with depression, is to just tell them to shut up and look happy?

the other issues concerning Sammy being insulted by me, i will not rehash, there is no win there for anyone.
sorry if any of my opinion there has offended either of you.
Tender

PS-- this topic will now(hopefully) be returned to its former topic lol

 

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Maximillian: Well lilone, I WAS replying to the IM you sent saying you werent going to take it to the board, yet at the same time you posted the one insulting sammy. Make up your mind here, I wont do it for you I already have a submissive and am not looking for another no matter how bad she needs direction.

However, since you never gave Me the opportunity to apologize, thats on you not Me. I stated My willingness and your response was to insult sammy again instead of verifying that you were joking. Hmm, anyone see a trend here besides Myself? Do you really think you are due one after that? Please dont try to play these little word twisting games with Me, its rather boring.

Maximillian

P.S. I dont wish to IM with you either and all IMs will be deleted, I feel like I am running in circles with you and I dont do the dizzy thing well.

 

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Tender: how was i to know you were replying to me in PM when it was at the same time and i didnt know?
now you insult submisives by saying they need direction?
as far as apologizing, i didnt know i was keeping YOU from being able to type on YOUR keyboard and push POST. lol
yes i see a trend, you have done nothing but sling mud at me, over a simple misunderstood comment, which i explained was insignificant.
there has also been a trend in calling me lilone, even though it is obvious you CAN read, and i HAVE asked that to stop. somehow your dOMINANT role has caused you to attempt to dominate this petty thing....
anyway this is way off course and i am done with it.
i will steer clear of you and maybe we can be civil to eachother, since we clash badly.

Tender

 

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sammygirly: submissives DO ask for direction...that's kinda the point.

Anyway - yes, lets move along shall we? It's obvious we won't agree and you don't want our advice.