Encounter In The Gym Showers This Morning

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Ok. This thread has been going for over a month and I have to ask;

I’ve got a hella sore shoulder that I think is either tendinitis or maybe bursitis. I don’t want to completely rest it because shoulders are pretty much necessary in every kind of exercise except maybe running. Even then, it can fucking ache when I’m walking, let alone running.

Any ideas? It’s been causing problems for about a month and a half with no sign of improvement. Last night it woke me up and I was so pissed that I had half a mind to take way more ibuprofen than would prudent.


You might try some butterfly cable pulls with 20 25 pound weights, two sets of 10 reps each for a few days always seems to help my shoulders.

Idk why it's so difficult to find the fiction forum?
 

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Very nice story....MM sex is "different" and special.....love all your descriptions about the sensations and feelings you have experienced.....there is so much more than just the physical pleasure you can experience with another man.....especially when enjoying anal sex and being penetrated.....there's a whole mental and emotional component that takes things to another level....combined with some passionate kissing......feels so natural and powerful........

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You might try some butterfly cable pulls with 20 25 pound weights, two sets of 10 reps each for a few days always seems to help my shoulders.

Idk why it's so difficult to find the fiction forum?

I'll try that. TBH, I haven't been doing anything for it, and I should be. It's not as bad as it was, which is a good sign.
 
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I'll try that. TBH, I haven't been doing anything for it, and I should be. It's not as bad as it was, which is a good sign.


You might also try a few decline shoulder presses to go along with the butterfly pulls. I probably wouldn't go any heavier than 50 lbs 2 sets of 10 for two or three days. That ought to help tighten things up for you.
 

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For the past few months when I’m working out at the gym in my home city I’ve noticed a guy who catches my eye. He’s mid 20’s, around 6’ and probably 175 lbs, clean cut, dark hair and a really nice athletic build. When I see him in the weights area, he says hello to me – not in a wants-to-chat way but more of an acknowledgement that we see each other there often. In the locker room I have seen him nude a couple of times – just quick glimpses as he’s changing or wrapping a towel around him. He has a well built, smooth body, dark bush, and a nice cock that hangs about four inches.

My wife is vacationing with her sister this week and I’m home alone for the next several days, not flying. This morning I was wide awake at 4:30AM. I got up, showered and shaved my face, cock, balls and taint. While drying off I decided to go to the gym and swim laps before it got too hot. After swimming a mile, I got out of the pool around 6:30AM. There were a couple of guys in the showers but no one was in the steam room. I went in and sat on the lower tier as I usually do, sitting on my towel with the longer end over my left thigh. I didn’t get off last night or this morning and was feeling pretty horny. I moved the towel from my thigh and started stroking my dick and feeling with my balls. They had that just shaved, extra sensitive feel which felt really good in the steamy, sweaty steam room. It didn’t take long to get hard. I could hear guys enter and exit the showers but no one came into the steam room. After about 10 minutes of stroking my hardon I realized no one was around, including in the showers. I leaned against the upper seating ledge and stroked my hard, leaking dick while playing with my balls and nipples. It felt really good to lean back and stroke. I was ready to cum. I thought about shooting my load on my chest and stomach – I love that feeling. However, I thought it would be safer to shoot my load into my towel just in case someone walked in “in the moment.” I sat up and put the towel in front of my cock head. Stroking my sweat and precum covered dick, I shot a nice load – four heavy squirts followed by a couple smaller ones. It was a ball draining orgasm and relieved the horny tension. I put the towel over my junk and leaned back. I sat in the steam room for a few minutes to let my hardon subside (it usually takes a long time for my dick to go soft once I’ve been worked up).

The steam turned on again and I was getting hot and decided to go. Since no one was around I decided to chance it and walk out with a semi hard cock. I stood up and milked the last few drops of cum from my dick with the towel. I opened the door and walked out kind of holding the towel in front of me to cover my dick. I quickly glanced around and didn’t see anyone. I walked over the towel rack, threw the damp towel with my load of cum into the used towel bin. Standing there naked and semi-boned, I reached over to the towel rack to get a fresh towel for the shower. As I put my hand on a towel I heard, “Good morning.” There was no time to cover my dick; whoever it was was going to see me with a semi hardon. I looked over and coming into the wet area was the mid 20’s guy, wearing a towel and looking down at my cock. It was so obvious that my cock wasn’t just stretched out a bit but that it was semi hard. I thought to myself to just act normal. I responded, “good morning”, grabbed a towel and walked into the showers. The showers at my gym are two rows of shower stalls with curtains, facing each other. However, this morning the curtains were missing (probably being replaced). I took a stall on my left and turned on the water. My cock had dwindled further, partly because I had just gotten caught with a semi and I felt a little stupid. I heard him turn on the water in a stall across from me. I turned around and noticed he had stepped into the stall directly across from me. As he stood facing the shower head getting wet I realized this was the first time I was going to have more time than just a quick glance to check him out. He had broad shoulders, a well-defined back, narrow waist, an absolutely perfect, round, firm, smooth ass and nice strong legs. As my eyes were taking in his ass, he turned around. I looked up and he smiled. He then looked down my body and to my cock and balls. I just stood there under the water and let him look. I looked down his smooth body – his smooth well-defined chest, perfect nickel-sized nipples, down his smooth, flat stomach. His bush was buzzed up super close (when I’d seen him previously it was grown out a lot more); his cock and balls were shaved smooth – it all looked really good, beautiful cock, perfectly shaped, medium thickness and framed by his smooth balls. As I looked at his cock it started stretching out. It was really hot to see him starting to get hard. I looked back up at him and he smiled. I felt the blood rushing to my dick and was a little nervous standing there getting hard since there were no shower curtains. I turned around and washed my hair. Since I heard no other shower heads turn on I figured it was still just us. My cock was now back to semi hard, as it had been when I stepped out of the steam room. I turned around as he was rinsing his hair, the suds traveling down his back, across the small of his back and into his smooth ass crack. I watched as he used his hands and arms to soap up his back. He put more soap on his hands and washed his ass, his hands moving across his ass cheeks, into his crack and washing his hole. I stood there watching, taking it in. He washed his right leg bending over slightly to wash down to his knee, his soapy ass spreading as he leaned over. He then lifted his right leg and washed down to his foot. He repeated this with the left leg, his ass spreading as he leaned over, the soapy water traveling through his ass crack, over his smooth taint and dripping from his balls. It was beautiful! I now had a raging hardon.

As he began to turn around my first thought was that I should turn around; on second thought I decided I wanted him to see me with a rock hard dick. He turned around and smiled broadly as he looked at my cock. He looked so hot as he stood there naked and wet, his cock quickly stretching out and lifting up to semi hard. I turned around as it was my turn to give him a similar show. I washed my back, ass and legs, taking my time. I turned around to face him and he had been watching me. He was now fully hard and I was surprised by how big he was. His 4” soft cock had stretched out and was longer than mine. His hardon was a good 8+” and pointing upward. Instinctively we both started soaping up our front sides – arms, chest and stomach. When we got to our cock and balls we took our time, watching each other as we slowly soaped up our cocks, our hands moving the full length of our hard shafts. As much as I wanted to stand across from each other and jack off I didn’t feel comfortable in this environment; I thought it was too risky. I turned around and rinsed off, taking a deep breath. I decided it wasn’t the right place to do this. I turned around and his back was facing me as he rinsed off. I reached behind me and turned off the water. As I grabbed my towel and stepped out of the stall, he turned off the water in his stall. I loosely wrapped the towel around me, holding the tip of my hardon and the ends of the towel together to hide my hardon if anyone walked into the wet area.

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So hotvand erotic story..
 

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You might also try a few decline shoulder presses to go along with the butterfly pulls. I probably wouldn't go any heavier than 50 lbs 2 sets of 10 for two or three days. That ought to help tighten things up for you.

I did some today, with 10# dumbbells, at the end of the session. It felt ok afterward. Felt pretty good, actually. Will do again tomorrow.
 

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I did some today, with 10# dumbbells, at the end of the session. It felt ok afterward. Felt pretty good, actually. Will do again tomorrow.


Good deal. That always helps my shoulders feel better. Sometimes a little painful when I'm doing them, but feel better as the day goes on. Keep it up.
 

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I decided to dry off in the sauna. I walked in towards the back. Since it was still early in the morning it hadn’t heated up. He followed me in. I stood there drying off. I could tell he wasn’t quite sure where this was going – I think he thought I was going to sit down and start jacking off. Just as I was about to break the ice he looked over and said, “I’ve seen you in the weights area a few times. I’m ‘John.’” He reached over and put his hand out. There we stood – naked, boned up, shaking each other’s hand and introducing ourselves. He said he didn’t see me in the weights area this morning and asked what I did for a workout. I told him I swam laps. I then started drying my back, standing in front of him, each hand on opposite ends of the towel, my hard dick pointing at him. He looked down at my cock as he dried off. In a quiet voice, I told him that it was getting a little out of hand in the showers, both of us boned up and I felt a little uncomfortable getting too crazy in there. He acknowledged it was a little crazy and said he’d never done that before, also admitting he’d never done anything with a guy. He then laughed and said, “Maybe that’s a common statement.” I laughed, said it was OK and that I had limited experience. He then said, “You have a really nice body and an awesome cock.” I responded that he did too and that he put on a nice show. He laughed and said I did as well.

He then stepped closer to me and asked if he could feel me. Those who have read my other posts know that I don’t touch guys or let them touch me. It just hasn’t been something I was interested in. However, since getting some pretty intimate massages from the massage guy I go to I’ve become more open to the possibility of exploring more. I decided to go for it. I placed my towel in my left hand and down by my side and said, “Sure.” He took another step closer, reached out and wrapped his hand around my hard dick. He applied the perfect amount of pressure as he slowly worked his hand up and down my cock. He looked up at me and said, “You have a really nice cock.” I smiled and said, “Thanks. You do that really well. Your cock is pretty impressive.” He said it was the first time he’d felt another guy’s cock. As his hard cock touched my thigh, he continued stroking the full length of my dick. He then moved to my balls and rolled them around in his hand. It felt so good I noticeably breathed in. He moved his hand back to my cock and stroked it. His hand then went to the tip of my dick, his fingers massaging my cock head and said, “Wow, you’ve got a lot of precum.” I laughed and acknowledged that I was a huge dripper. There were a lot of thoughts swirling around in my head, beyond how good his hand felt working my cock and balls. He was standing in front of me, naked, beautiful body and a perfect hard cock touching my thigh. For the first time I felt really different about interacting with a guy. I wanted more than in the past. I wanted to reach over and feel his chest, move up to his shoulders and across to his deltoids, then around, let my hands travel down his back and over his ass, feel his ass cheeks in both hands and then around to his cock, wrap my hand around his hardon and feel his length and firmness and then to his smooth balls, under to his taint and let my finger find and massage his hole. For the first time I wanted to do this. I told myself to just do it. I placed the towel on the bench and lifted my hands. As I was about to feel his chest we heard the voices of two guys walk into the wet area.

I quickly grabbed my towel off the bench and wrapped it around me, hiding my hardon as much as I could. “John” did the same. We both smiled at each other, a way of acknowledging the mood was interrupted, the moment broken. He whispered that he needed to get going because of work and I said I needed to let my cock go down a bit. He smiled. He said goodbye and walked out. I stood in the sauna for about five more minutes, waiting for my cock to get soft enough where I could manageably hide it while thinking about what had just happened, my moving into new territory. I walked out and into the locker area. John was at the sinks. I went to my locker, opened it and pulled out my stuff. John walked into the same bay of lockers; his locker was three or four away from mine. I was facing John and my back was facing the sinks. As he pulled his stuff out of his locker, I took off my towel to put on my underwear. My dick was still really stretched out but soft enough to stuff it in the pouch of my boxer briefs. John looked at my cock the whole time. When I had my boxer briefs on he did the same. He took off his towel, reached into his bag for his underwear. He looked at me as I was looking at his completely soft cock. No one was around and he quietly said, “Not as impressive now” acknowledging his now soft cock. I smiled and said, “It still looks really good.” He smiled as he pulled on a pair of white boxer briefs that fit him perfectly.

We finished getting dressed and walked out together. Once outside he told me he was working on a graduate degree and had an internship for the summer. He asked me what I did and I told him that I’m a commercial pilot. As we walked to our cars he said he’d never done that before. I told him I only had experience jacking off with guys and that he was the first guy that had felt my cock. I told him I couldn’t believe we were interrupted at the moment I was about to feel him. He said he was disappointed, that he wanted really wanted me to feel him. I asked if he wanted to get together sometime over the next couple of days and chat and hang out. He said he did. And at that moment we were interrupted again! Someone in the parking lot a couple of cars away shouted out to him and started talking to him. He looked over at me and told me it was an old friend of his. It was about to get a little awkward for me to be standing there with context we couldn’t share and I couldn’t give him my number to text me. All I could say was, “See you tomorrow morning?” to which he responded with an obviously disappointed tone that we’d been interrupted, “Yes, sure.”

This is new territory for me. I sense my sexuality is evolving. It started with me shooting my load into that guy’s mouth (another post) and the massage guy (another post). Now this. For years I’ve been comfortable with where I was – just admiring good looking guys and jacking off with them. Now I want more but I’m not sure how much more. I am definitely feeling the need to explore. The encounter this morning has distracted me all day. I’ve already jacked off twice since the gym this morning, thinking about feeling his body all over; feeling and sucking his cock; and eating and fucking his beautiful, smooth, firm ass!
The next morning I met John at the hotel. He had gotten there about an hour earlier. He answered the door in his boxer briefs and a little scruff on his face. He was hot and hungry to be fucked. We made out as I got undressed, then lots of oral – nipples, cock, balls, ass – one on the other and 69’g, followed by a really long session of fucking – multiple positions, several repeated and ending with John on his back legs around my upper back, kissing while he came handsfree with me shooting my load in his ass.

We talked for a while, mostly reflecting on yesterday and this morning. He shared what he had shared already, that he’d been attracted to me for a while, since he’d first seen me at the gym, and that since we had met had been eager to have sex with me and to experience what sex with a guy was really like. He also said that while he had been struggling to understand his attraction to me that he kind of thought once we had sex that he’d realize that it was just the sex he wanted from a guy. But after the past 18 hours he was realizing it was more and
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You're welcome. But these sorts of aches and pains are problems for everyone at some point. Nothing unique about my story.

Work in the building industry as a Bricklayer for 35 years, then Builder for the next 10...all self employed to boot...........then you'll know what aches and pains are all about :) :).........but hey, the way I look a life and stuff, is that I've seen plenty fall beside the wayside for much worse.

Just toughen the fuck up, live with a bit of pain, it lets you know you still be alive, enjoy the pain life gives you, it gives you respect for those who deal with much more..

I was answering the poster you were twoton.
 
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John and I had a great couple of afternoons and nights together.

There were three highlights for me other than having uninterrupted time with him. The first was finally getting into being fucked by him. It took some practice but it finally clicked. FUCK! His big cock in my ass felt AMAZING. I felt like I couldn't get enough. I now know what guys mean when they talk about what it feels like to be fucked really good. And even more important, I know the exact pleasure John receives from me when I fuck him which makes fucking even more incredible. Beyond the intense physical pleasure, I felt like I opened up to him – literally and figuratively – in a way I had never been with another guy. I felt extremely close to him.

The second was sleeping with him. Just having him in the same bed, whether we were sleeping apart or snuggling together. Feeling his presence when I’d wake up during the night. Waking up and feeling each other’s naked body was pretty awesome too.

The third thing was bonding with him through all the sex, discussions and hanging out. I have never felt closer to another guy in my life. That feeling of unfulfilled emptiness, the lack of masculine intimacy in my life, began to be addressed. I experienced a part of me I’ve never experienced before. It all felt so natural.

There are so many questions. The big one is where we go from here. It’s all pretty scary to me. I have no idea. Our time together is an anomaly. Finding two nights to spend together is not going to happen again for a long while. It’s just the reality we’re in unless something shifts. He’s 20 years younger, good looking, fit and masculine. If he wants single guys around his age he could have his pick. I’m older, married and with a family. We talked a lot and he’s incredibly reflective and insightful for his age. He says for now I gave him what he wanted and he understands the future is a I question mark. I want to be fair to him and want him to have what he ultimately wants. I think in some way he will always be a part of my life; I just don’t know what it looks like right now. I wonder what I’m doing with someone so much younger than me. I wonder if times were different, if I were single and around his age how this would play out – but none of that is reality. I’m glad I explored this part of me with him; I couldn’t have asked for a better guy. I have no regrets – if I hadn’t allowed myself to cross over and go into discovery I’m not sure I would have another opportunity like this.

I flew out this afternoon for several days of flying. Tonight, I’m in another city and another hotel room. I look across to the empty side of the bed, feeling the need to be with him, yearning for him to be here with me and sensing that gap that he filled the past couple of days opening up again. I struggle with how drawn I am to him, how much I like being around him and how much I think about him. It wasn’t transactional sex for me and I know it wasn’t for him either.

I’ve heard from a lot of guys on here who are or have been in similar positions and the support has been great. I’ve also heard from and seen posts on this thread from guys who believe this is all fiction. I’m not here to prove anything or make believers out of non-believers. Over the years I’ve enjoyed reading about the situations similar guys are in and have shared a few of my stories along the way. As to what’s recently happened in my life, I have found it helpful to get it out of my head, to share and to hear from others. It will be a difficult and challenging path forward and there is no one right way to proceed. Thanks for allowing me to share and thanks to those who’ve reached out.
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Your romantic/sexy interlude reminds me very much of a man I had an affair with for several years. Its been 10 years since and we still talk weekly - able to share joys and fears with open hearts. And given the chance, we'd fuck like crazy again.
 

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Great story, but reading this at work wearing snug khakis and free balling it I have a sliver dollar sized wetspot of precum I've been and continue leaking plus a raging hard-on for at least 5 minutes now.
I have our weekly recap meeting in about half an hour, I hope it dries and I don't leak anymore as I can't get up and walk across to use the restroom as I'm in the far corner and I would walk by about a dozen people.
 

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Great story, but reading this at work wearing snug khakis and free balling it I have a sliver dollar sized wetspot of precum I've been and continue leaking plus a raging hard-on for at least 5 minutes now.
I have our weekly recap meeting in about half an hour, I hope it dries and I don't leak anymore as I can't get up and walk across to use the restroom as I'm in the far corner and I would walk by about a dozen people.
Can I help with that... ;)
 
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@Big Dick Pilot Thanks for sharing this story. Your “encounter” that one morning turned into a lot more, including discovering things about yourself.

What’s happened since your last update? Have you been able to see John again? How are you doing processing all of this?

I’m sure you have a lot going on thinking through this, especially since you’re married. But keep in mind how fortunate you are. He seems like a really good guy and the way this has played out is awesome.
 

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There are so many questions. The big one is where we go from here. It’s all pretty scary to me. I have no idea.

Hi, BDP - Your description of John and how you met sounds very familiar. Ten years ago, when I was 44, I met a very hot 27 year old MBA student one night when he made a pass at me in the gym showers and we took it into the sauna. I had noticed him before for a few years, but had thought he was straight and that I was "mostly straight." I sometimes jerked off in the steam room and sauna with other guys but never touched anyone or let anyone touch me (mostly because I didn't want to catch anything and also this scratched the itch enough). I was caught off guard by how attracted I was to him and confused as to why he would want someone older (not realizing that a reasonably fit married dad type with a big dick was exactly what he wanted).

We started to meet up outside the gym and I have fucked him on and off for about 10 years. Despite all of the hot sex over the years and the opportunity to explore a side of me that was more curious than I thought it was, if I had to do it all over again, I definitely would not have taken the bait and kept my shower curtain shut. I unexpectedly developed feelings for him and it caused me a lot of emotional turmoil that I had trouble processing for a number of years to a degree I am rather embarrassed to admit. I am also married (to a woman) and have a family. As much as I would like to say I was able to keep this separate from my marriage, it caused me to pull away from my wife during those rough spots in everyone's marriage when one should try harder to come together. I'm all fine now, but felt compelled to tell you to be careful of all the things of which you know to be careful. Your situation sounds different to a degree than mine, but if I had to do it again, hot sex with a hot guy notwithstanding, I wouldn't.

All the best to you,

David

PS: I read through some of your posts and saw that you are a 787 pilot, which is my current favorite airliner. I've been an aviation buff my whole life and dreamed of being a 747 pilot when I was young. I recently flew my first ultra long haul flight on a 787 and was probably the only passenger in coach who was looking forward to the 14+ hours in the air, lol. While I am not envious of your young hottie, I am envious of your very cool career!
 
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Hi, BDP - Your description of John and how you met sounds very familiar. Ten years ago, when I was 44, I met a very hot 27 year old MBA student one night when he made a pass at me in the gym showers and we took it into the sauna. I had noticed him before for a few years, but had thought he was straight and that I was "mostly straight." I sometimes jerked off in the steam room and sauna with other guys but never touched anyone or let anyone touch me (mostly because I didn't want to catch anything and also this scratched the itch enough). I was caught off guard by how attracted I was to him and confused as to why he would want someone older (not realizing that a reasonably fit married dad type with a big dick was exactly what he wanted).

We started to meet up outside the gym and I have fucked him on and off for about 10 years. Despite all of the hot sex over the years and the opportunity to explore a side of me that was more curious than I thought it was, if I had to do it all over again, I definitely would not have taken the bait and kept my shower curtain shut. I unexpectedly developed feelings for him and it caused me a lot of emotional turmoil that I had trouble processing for a number of years to a degree I am rather embarrassed to admit. I am also married (to a woman) and have a family. As much as I would like to say I was able to keep this separate from my marriage, it caused me to pull away from my wife during those rough spots in everyone's marriage when one should try harder to come together. I'm all fine now, but felt compelled to tell you to be careful of all the things of which you know to be careful. Your situation sounds different to a degree than mine, but if I had to do it again, hot sex with a hot guy notwithstanding, I wouldn't.

All the best to you,

David

PS: I read through some of your posts and saw that you are a 787 pilot, which is my current favorite airliner. I've been an aviation buff my whole life and dreamed of being a 747 pilot when I was young. I recently flew my first ultra long haul flight on a 787 and was probably the only passenger in coach who was looking forward to the 14+ hours in the air, lol. While I am not envious of your young hottie, I am envious of your very cool career!
Nice, thoughtful response. Gives all alot to think about. Thanks for sharing.