Endowed men over forty...E.D. issues ?

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  1. bodascious_tahtahs

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    I wondered if any women have dealt with men over forty having E.D. issues...I have experienced men that if they could get an erection would have been endowed or shall I say once were...it is frustrating because the men I dated that had this problem only about 50 percent reponded to vitamins, cobra, herbal remedies and viagra is a joke...anyone else experience issues with flaccid men that were well endowed when younger...sheesh I am no longer open to dating older men because I need to be satisfied...and I can only have vaginal orgasms from penetration from a penis....dildos dont do it for the long term for me...cervix stimulation by a penis is a must...funny though these men seem to think that women can get just as much satisfaction from a soggy dick as a hard one...wtf???!!!
     
  2. dolfette

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    i've found ED to be not the norm in men that age.

    maybe you're scaring them.
    stage fright.

    *digging te older men*
     
  3. bodascious_tahtahs

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    what age...???I said over forty which could be anywhere for 41 to 90...but since you are a pro you should know...
     
  4. dolfette

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    starting with the insults already?

    a decent troll would build up to them :rolleyes:
     
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    love it dolfette, you offer some helpful comments and the tart shoves it back in ya face.

    I think 40+ is a valid age range considering you need blood to fill a cock up and if its a big cock you need lots of blood the 40+ range of men are suseptable to heart problems I would expect there to be erection problems. Coarse attraction plays into it alot too I can get hard in the time it takes you to sneeze but if their a dog it wont stand up for them ever.
     
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    I am in my forties and have never experienced e.d. While some men do experience it, a figure of 50% seems very high.

    Are you both often drunk when you have sex? Is it forced or contrived in any way?
     
  7. dolfette

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    a 40+ who watches his weight, doesn't drink too much and doesn't smoke, has pretty good odds of banging for decades to come.
    it's the smoking that's the killer. sad waste.

    i'm starting to understand why men wilt in her company :wink:
     
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    Lol you two are so right I was just bein a smart mouth sometimes i get a bit cocky (bein 25) and make fun of the older I deffinatley think here expreience maybe due to the surrounding environment as I have never experienced it or heard of it from any of my friends stories. Maybe 10-20% of men 10-20% of the time is more accurate.
     
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    Funny coincidence, being a younger guy I can't get an erection from looking at most of the women over 40 unless they look, well, under 40.

    Anyway, I always thought dildos maintained stiffness for the long term. Do they respond to vitamins?
     
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    Sad to say, I've been with two guys with ED, one of them with severe ED (hasn't maintained an erection in nearly 10 years, and Viagra doesn't work). They were also the two most endowed guys I've been with. And neither of them smoke. But they do have other health issues. The one with severe ED has clinical depression, diabetes, chronic pain and high blood pressure. The other guy I'm not sure but he was taking medication for his dizzy spells. His was not as severe, but he was younger, too.

    With my own issues, there's that voice in the back of my head saying "It's because you're not pretty enough, you're too fat and your breasts are too small", etc. Although logically I know it's more likely the medical problems...

    And, I'm over 40 but look like I'm in my late twenties (pics in gallery - I have proof!) Everyone is flabbergasted when they find out how old I am.
     
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    Psychological ED is very common in men of all ages...and once it happens, there's so much worry and stress on 'getting it up' that it can easily become a problem.

    I was fooling around with a beautiful korean girl and I couldn't get it up because I was too nervous and insecure because I wanted her really bad.

    To be fair she's kind of a bitch and didn't really make me feel very comfortable...she was one of those 'just lay there' types.
     
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    I think you should have said you were being a dumb ass because there is nothing smart about your spelling...:rolleyes::tongue:
     
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    Too bad... I personally only think the good thing about a hard cock is sex... other than that it is beautiful soft. Maybe if you were not such a stuck up bitch and attacking someone right off the start would you have gotten some valid answers. Maybe you are too dominating for them... with an attitude towards them as you have displayed no wonder they loose their hard on. I'd cower as well... no one likes a bitch like you... So get off your pink high horse, and be celibate, cause no one young or old will find your personality attractive.
    I can't say I've had a man that old, but from what I know of my parents friends, and older males I've chatted with; it isn't normal at all. I think it's all her issue really. Lets place the blame on the other person if she has run into this problem so many times.. it can't be the males fault anymore eh?
     
  14. dolfette

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    just playing the numbers game, you'd need damn bad luck!
    like freakily. it's worth at least asking yourself the question imo.

    or maybe she's going for men who chain smoke, have booze problens and/or take drugs. in that case, by the age of 40, they would be expected to have some problems.
     
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    Or maybe.. lol seeing as she said over 40.. she is talking about goodness you know what :p
     
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    I'm wondering what is the topic of this thread? Is it to rag on men who are having difficulty?

    Not fair!
     
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    I didn't think it was fair either.. thus is why we are ragging on her instead.
     
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    Hey gals...Iam forty-one...i have no health issues and exercise 3 times a week...don't have a pot belly..
    Ok ..I admit I don't get my erections quicker or as harder when in my 20's, but i still enjoy a normal sex life....

    So...take it easy on us old blokes...lol
     
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    We know hun.. thats why we attacked the original poster :)
     
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