Endowed men over forty...E.D. issues ?

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Hey gals...Iam forty-one...i have no health issues and exercise 3 times a week...don't have a pot belly..
Ok ..I admit I don't get my erections quicker or as harder when in my 20's, but i still enjoy a normal sex life....

So...take it easy on us old blokes...lol
i don't think you really want us to do that :wink:
 

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i think ed is not always the most appropo term. i had it when i was still an intercourse virgin. it was with a girl.
she was a lay back and have nothing to do with it person.
the role i was supposed to play was ludicrous. i was uncomfortable. i don;t think it was disfunction but an appropriate respose

yea yea this is slightly off topic.
at 43 i occasionally get 'it'. but it's usually booze or not being in touch
 

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I'm 51 and have never had ED. Yes, there were times of not being 100% hard, but, like others have said, I could usually assign it to a bit too much to drink. It had nothing to do with age. I don't get any less hard than I did 30 years ago.
 

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Any man who finds himself with any condition that affects blood circulation can start having problems with ED.
High Blood Pressure
Diabetes
Heart conditions
Injury to the specific bodypart(s) that close things off and prevent the blood from draining right back out of the penis, once it is hard.
(& there are probably others)

Also I read, at what seemed a reliable source, that the more overweight a man is, the lower his testosterone level is.
If and when he loses weight, the testosterone level corrects itself.

Women are supposed to have a certain amount of testosterone, too.....I don't know what my level is, but I know my mind is never far from the gutter at any given time.

:eek::wink:
 

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Considering a few observations:

Most of the really huge guys in porn (with a couple of notable exceptions) are noticeably softer than the big guys who are in turn noticeably softer than the average guys.

I've known women who reckon that guys with small dicks are harder, one even went as far as saying she'd had her best sex with her smallest partner (no dimensions mentioned) because he was always rock hard.

Guys do have trouble getting completely hard as they get older, I admit I take significantly longer to get fully hard and i'm not that much bigger than average, even while measuring volume.

I'd be amazed if a 45 year old guy with 9x6 wasn't much more likely to have trouble getting it up than a guy with a more averge sized 6x5, his cock requires twice the volume of blood!

Personally, i'm having better sex with my partner than ever before, not cos i'm a freakish stud of a 43 year old but because i've given up smoking, am eating better, losing weight and have almost given up masturbation from a once or twice a day habit...
 

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Yeah, we're all exceptions here of course but erections require blood to the penis and big penises require more of it. the OP's post sounds like real experience to me. I wonder if there are size queens who avoid guys over a certain age because ED is common?, or nymphomaniacs who actively avoid really huge guys?, I mean, I wouldn't really like a cock that only got as hard as Jack Napier's or John Holmes, even though i'd love their size. Didn't I read a quote somewhere from an actress who said fucking John Holmes was like being stuffed with marshmallows...
 

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Holy shit, say it aint so. Not to joke around with this subject but I am almost there and the thought of not being able to get a boner scares the hell out of me. I still get erections like I did when I was 18 but I know that cant last forever. Is there any secret to keeping it that way? For those that have this problem my heart goes out to you all. And remember all this is a support group so please be nice.

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56 here in a few days, and the only thing that seems to bother me is when I have a touch too much to drink; I can get an erection, but stay hard and can't have an orgasm.

Annoying...

Yeah, at this point the trick (for me) is not getting erect, but cummin. Can stay hard for a looong time.
 

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At 65, I still get as hard as when I was 20. I tend to last much longer, sometimes to the point of agony, but I'll always cum. I gave up smoking years ago, eat smart, exercise some (work hard), and cum often to keep the tube open. Sex is like alot of things though. If you ain't interested, it ain't gonna happen. The woman has to want me, be attractive to me, and play a little to get what she wants. Then there's no problem.:biggrin1:
 

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At 65, I still get as hard as when I was 20. I tend to last much longer, sometimes to the point of agony, but I'll always cum. I gave up smoking years ago, eat smart, exercise some (work hard), and cum often to keep the tube open. Sex is like alot of things though. If you ain't interested, it ain't gonna happen. The woman has to want me, be attractive to me, and play a little to get what she wants. Then there's no problem.:biggrin1:

Sounds great Over 7! I've been hearing that guys start having erection problems at age 40 for years. I'm now 40, and am glad to say that I've never had an erection problem. Well I did recently, but I know I was very tired and probably shouldn't have tried. At 40 I will say that stamina isn't always as I'd like from day to day. Tried again the next time and had no problems when I wasn't tired. My erections feel about the same as when younger and seem to happen just as fast or faster. Will admit that ejaculating is a lot tougher now, although it pretty much allows me to fuck for as long as I want or can. Needless to say, I have no complaints with myself because of it. From a sexual standpoint, sex at 40 is feeling pretty damn good to me.
 

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This is directed to the gal who stared this tread – ‘bodascious’.

I guess you would call me old. I’m 71-years young next month.

I have had a very large libido. In this memo/letter to you I must sound pretty boastful but I do not mean to. I just want to pass on some info on your dilemma.

I have been blessed with a nine-inch long and two-inches in diameter erect cock.

I could not be this active sexually without the aid of Viagra (Sildenafil Citrate) and Celais (Tadalafic). With these two drugs my hard-on is almost as firm as when I was in my twenties.

Also when I take 10 mg of one of Viagra ever other day I can get an erection almost always by masturbation with my hand or cock handling by my women or my favorite when my woman partner takes me in her mouth and sucks me off.

With ED treatment drugs my hard-on does not go flaccid even after I have climaxed and cum if I keep thrusting. My sex partners are all multiple climaxers so I can still give them several good ones this way.

I and my wife who is 64-years old still have sex about once ever two weeks where I mount her. Other times, about twice a week, we perform oral on each other. This is our favorite kind of sex in our old age. At least her anyway.

When I eat my wife out she likes me to use my fingers and rub on and push hard on her G spot. I do this while lightly biting her big clitoris and she has the most stimulating and hard orgasms.

I and my wife have always liked to masturbate ourselves a lot too. We do it together and alone. I jack-off all the time looking at porn on my computer when I pound my big meat, some days I do it twice.

When my wife masturbates she has a couple of special dildos that she likes and uses. They have a curve upward in them so she can stimulate and press hard into her G spot. She makes herself really cum hard by doing this, almost to the point passing out.

My wife favorite position to have penetration sex with me is for me to enter her from behind. We lie on our left sides with her back to me. She then place her right leg up over my right hip and then take my cock which is now between her crotch and shoves it up into her pussy.

I go in at an angle from the bottom of slit up to the roof of her vagina where her G spot is. My circumcised cock head put a lot of upward force on this most sensitive spot women have and consequently she has the strongest orgasms when we fuck this way.

I have always believed that us men have a very big reasonability to the women we make love to. We are mostly at blame if the woman doesn’t climax because we men do not know how to or don’t take the time to push the ladies almost magical spots.

Of course women have to take some of the blame too by not communicating and tell us men how they want to be loved, touched and have us men mouth them.

Ones mouth, both sexes, is maybe more important to good satisfying, pleasure to your partner than even the hard erect cock and/or a hot tight pussy.

I have had several girls or ladies in my past that had never before me experienced a climax while making love with a man. One of these was just three years ago with a 38 year old neighbor lady. She had been married 18 years and had birthed three kids in her marriage.

They all told me when I asked that they could have very hard strong climaxes when they masturbated. But not once while making love with their boyfriends or husbands.

I am very happy to say, no bragging a little, that that changed with me when I went down and gave them their first head and suck them off. I truly love to eat pussy.

With me anyway it was not because I did not go at the fucking and thrusting long enough that these gals did not have enough time to climax. I am most certainly am not a pre-mature ejaculator. Most of the time I can carry on for a half an hour or more to let the woman come first or at the same time as I do.

Early in my youth, at 16-years old, I lost my virginity to a much older woman of 42-years, my aunt. She was the best at teaching me the right way to fuck. I got to fuck her a lot in my high school years and she taught me so much about how to please the girls at school or the women in my later years.

About the first thing she ever showed me was how to not ejaculate to fast and how to hold back my cum. I think the second best thing my dear, dear aunty taught me was how to give a woman the very best head with my mouth. Women tell me that I eat their pussies better than anyone, male or female has ever done before to them.

Some of my new women did not want me to do my oral thing on them. Well most changed their minds after I got done licking their hot, runny, juicy pussies for their first time.

A man has to want to give his all to make the woman have true and good pleasure. If he does this to her most of the time he can be assured that she in return will give him the utmost pleasure to him by her own body and mouth.

When after intercourse and I thought that my partner had not had a orgasm I would ask her if she had a climax. When no was my answer I always go down between her legs and eat her out.

I just love to lick out my spent cum out of a woman that I have just ejaculated into. Cream pies are so good tasting when my cum mixes with her sweet tasting pussy juices. In doing so, it is real rare that I don’t give my gal a climax or quit possible their very first one by any man.

I and my wife belong to a senior’s swinger’s sex club. We have 12 couples that are members. You have to be 55 or older to join. It is against club rules to couple with your own wife.

Two of the men are in their eighties. I believe that most of the men there are on some kind of erectile dysfunction (ED) drug. The women suck on our dicks to get us up and hard. We all return the favor to the gals as they all yell out with glee as we men slurp and lick down between their legs.

So anyway, what does all this mean to you ‘bodascious’? Let’s look at the list:

Is your older male partner not getting hard because of his ED or because you are not performing oral sex on his penis like you need and have to do at his age?

Have you ever given a man oral before, that act that makes you a whole and truly wonderful sex partner?

Do you suck on his penis to his climax and swallowing all his manly seed down your throat?

Is your man not using a big enough dosage of his Viagra or such?

Has your man seen a good sex orientated doctor about his ED? Not every doctor knows about this condition enough to be an expert in the field.

Do use a special dildo up your pussy that is made especially to stimulate you G spot.

Now questions for ‘bodascious’ male lover:

Lets say you do get hard but are still having trouble giving ‘bodascious’ a climax. Do you know how to go slow down and not ejaculate too soon for her to cum too?

And if you do come first or you can’t get it up and hard in the first place, do you know how to give her a climax by you going down between her legs and eating her out real good with you mouth?

Have you ever preformed oral sex on your woman partner before?

With your mouth do you know how to stimulate and suck on her clitoris?

Do you know how to find and rub her G spot up their on her roof of her vagina tunnel?

Or, do you even know that a woman is blessed with these two special organs that sole purpose is to give her sexual pleasure?

Well ‘bodascious’ I can only relate to you the way that I perform on my women in my sex life of my old age.

I would just love to teach you myself. But I really have enough fucking and empting my big old nut sack of all my good tasting yummy creamy cum. And I guess I have all the women that I can take care of now don’t you think?


-- feelsgood --
 

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I wondered if any women have dealt with men over forty having E.D. issues...I have experienced men that if they could get an erection would have been endowed or shall I say once were...it is frustrating because the men I dated that had this problem only about 50 percent reponded to vitamins, cobra, herbal remedies and viagra is a joke...anyone else experience issues with flaccid men that were well endowed when younger...sheesh I am no longer open to dating older men because I need to be satisfied...and I can only have vaginal orgasms from penetration from a penis....dildos dont do it for the long term for me...cervix stimulation by a penis is a must...funny though these men seem to think that women can get just as much satisfaction from a soggy dick as a hard one...wtf???!!!

my now ex lied to me said he was 35 but after we met he is definitely WAY over 40 and yes he has ED... he could not stay completely hard. I heard when people do hard drugs for a period of time it makes them have ED....
who knows.. He was a lying cheating ass.... Glad I gave up on him ...
moving on to BIGGER and BETTER MEN hopefully :D