Feign interest to continue a conversation? No female on the internet is that hard up. There is literally always someone to talk to.
Pretty much this. I ogled here and elsewhere at one point in my life, but the novelty of that wore off quite quickly. I still appreciate good looking people and I still watch porn, but solo male or female is just meh anymore.
Especially on here, where the expectation is for me to be their private, free cam entertainment. I understand that, but me watching a dude jack off on here, often blurry, usually the same boring ass angle is not enough to titillate me much. Typically it seems they're already watching porn anyway. If I'm going to be a straight up voyeur, I'm not wanting to entertain someone at the same time. That makes it not fun, for my particular preferences. Me being a source of wank fodder/eye candy is pretty much just for my significant other. I still try to have a nice appearance in general, but that's for me, not others.