Enjoying Ejaculate

Discussion in 'Gay Adult Websites' started by midlifebear, May 12, 2011.

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I do or do not enjoy male ejaculate because:

Poll closed Jul 11, 2011.
  1. I'm worried about getting HIV.

    12 vote(s)
    20.0%
  2. I can't stand cum, it makes me sick.

    2 vote(s)
    3.3%
  3. I like to suck cock, but I always spit it out when someone cums in my mouth.

    8 vote(s)
    13.3%
  4. I like to suck cock and usually swallow when someone cums in my mouth.

    16 vote(s)
    26.7%
  5. I like to suck cock and always swallow when someone cums in my mouth.

    12 vote(s)
    20.0%
  6. I look forward to swallowing a person's load.

    11 vote(s)
    18.3%
  7. I enjoy sharing loads only with my partner.

    11 vote(s)
    18.3%
  8. I enjoy sharing a person's load with others.

    1 vote(s)
    1.7%
  9. My partner and I enjoy getting a third guy off and share his load.

    1 vote(s)
    1.7%
  10. I'm a cum hound and can't get enough of the stuff.

    15 vote(s)
    25.0%
  1. midlifebear

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    So, here's something that I've noticed that is usually avoided in today's porn, although there are some exceptions. Sucking off, sharing and swallowing cum.

    In my generation (1960s through 1970s) it was rare for anyone to spit a guy's load out if he came in your mouth. If you see vintage gay porn from the 1970s (even straight porn) you'll notice that we reveled in sucking a guy dry, making sure not to lose a drip of all that precious boy batter. In addition, it was common for the guy you sucked off to pull you up and swap his load back and forth until it was gone or returned the favor and quickly sucked you off. Sure, we identified as tops and bottoms, but cum play was frequently a major part of getting the most bang out of your fuck.

    Granted, without protection, there is the possibility of contracting HIV. But even the CDC admits that oral transmission is rare to nonexistent since saliva is a well known virus killer. You have to have open sores, serious gum disease or fresh cuts inside your mouth for ejaculate to be a serious problem. And although every top might magically wear a condom when they begin to fuck, 99% of the "oral" bottoms don't protect their mouths. Instead, they suck cock with abandon often sucking off one or more partners. Then when it's time for the big finish everyone tries to get as close as possible to the oral bottom's mouth, with everyone masturbating to a finish in the direction of the central character's mouth. Instead everyone the bottom has blown sprays their loads on his chin, shoulder, arm, down his chest -- everywhere except in his mouth and down his throat. Invariably the boys or young gents rarely share and play with each other's spooge. And considering all that unprotected cock sucking, certainly disease isn't THAT big of an issue, because the oral bottom's been working out all the pre cum that often dribbles in bits and spurts as one is receiving head. Hell, everyone acts as if ejaculate is icky and won't even grab another's guy's cum covered tool and help him enjoy the fading sensations of an orgasm.

    What a waste.

    My first question is: Don't gay men enjoy the taste of cum or get off on swallowing, snowballing, and otherwise playing with one another's loads any more? Is there a serious aversion to having contact with another man's cum in your mouth, on your hands or any part of your body as the 21st Century marches on?

    When I first became sexually active my "sex buddy" and I probably didn't enjoy gulping down each other's loads -- at first. But it didn't take long for both of us to learn to like it -- a lot. And when we encountered other guys for group action we were ready for what it took to engage in daisy chains, timing our orgasms so we all came at basically the same time. This meant swallowing as well as lingering around to clean off every possible drop. And since we were in our teens, it included getting hard and doing all over again with a differen't cocks in our mouths.

    I now see new bareback fucking and gang bangs videos without protection just as frequently as I see new gay porn where EVERYONE is wearing a love glove. But before any "safe" fucking begins everyone is into serious deep rimming. It took me a long time to acquire a taste for rimming -- even with long-time lovers. In today's porn rimming is second only to sucking a guy off. (Yeah, I know, these are "professionals", still it's a major change in sexual play from my era.)

    My second question is: Ironically, in most new bareback porn, a guy's ass is usually left dripping quarts of cum, lots of close ups, but god forbid the same actor be given a close up enjoying and/or sharing several mouths full of the exact same substance. What's up with that?

    The only exception to the lack of cum play in gay porn seems to be Treasure Island Media. And they go overtly in the opposite direction. I've purchased some of their CDs, primarily because a member of their stable of actors, his stage name initials are D.D., is the grandson of one of my first cousin's. Yet another escapee from a giant mormon family. Imagine how proud his parents must be -- and doubly imagine how happy that makes me! D.D. has a whole series of amature porn he and his boyfriend have cobbled together making it a speciality to "do" parts of the USA. I dunno. Maybe it's genetic? He can certainly deep throat and enjoy almost suffocating as he worships cock.

    For examples of "the way it used to be" in the good ol' days, check out Joe Gage's Kansas City Trucking Company, El Paso Wrecking Company, and L.A. Tool Die; especially the first scene in L.A. Tool and Die where John Locke (a long ago short term flame of mine, circa 1974) is begged to join a Gage Man regular to share in finishing off some lucky bastard with a long, skinny cock who is about to pop. Major wet and messy.

    Anyway, help an old, over sexed vestige of the pre HIV years out and select one of the survey questions. It's not the best survey, but it's what I came up with at the last minute.
     
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  2. At.your.cervix

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    I'm straight, and none of the answers apply to me, but why didn't you include "I do or don't because of the taste? I've tasted my own cum, and to me it's "nasty." Too bad, too, as when I was younger, and more limber, I used to selfsuck almost every day.
     
  3. midlifebear

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    Yo, at your cervix:

    I'm still able to self-suck -- to completion -- at a spry 65 years-old. And The Squeeze, who is still in his 40s, is lucky enough to do the same trick. Sorry, it's been so long since I've tasted a bad load the idea didn't cross my mind. However, you're right. I should have included a couple of poll questions for straight men; especially about not liking the taste. Although I can't prove it scientifically, I do notice a difference in taste in cum among men depending upon what they eat, drink, and if they smoke. Smokers always have bitter-tasting cum. Always. Guys who drink more than a few beers tend to have an acrid after taste, but it's not unpleasant. Heavy drinkers are always dehydrated and their cum shoots out in thick ropes of sticky stuff. My favorite are guys who, even in their 60s, can produce a copious thick load that is slightly yellow and flows like hot lava. And I would classify myself as a world class cum hound, although most guys want me to fuck them. Fortunately, I have the reputation of being able to easily fuck almost anyone and still comfortably suck them off at the same time until they explode in my mouth. I'm not religious, but I do thank god for the embarrassment of riches that swing between my legs.

    But may I suggest you lose any excess pounds you may have accumulated if you have them (although I like guys with a bit of a "barriga" or "panza"), and slowly start a serious yoga routine to get yourself limber again. I live in fear of the day I can no longer self-suck. And thanks for posting.
     
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    I prefer it on my face. Particularly thick sticky loads that just cling to wherever they were shot until you scoop it up. I like to feel smothered with it, almost like you can feel the weight of it. I don't care for 'shooters' who produce runny, watery jizz that sprays everywhere.
     
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    are you talking about Dawson?
     
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  6. midlifebear

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    Nope. However, at this point in time I think fucking someone as passive as Dawson would be like dipping your wick in the Grand Canyon.

    My cousin's grandson's stage initials are D.D. He's not a pin up heart throb, but I have to say that what he lacks in "pretty boy" good looks he makes up with rabid enthusiasm -- as well as a great deal of professional practice. I remember quite well that my cousin was always eager and willing to join in mutual sessions of wrapping his lips around our throbbing tools whenever we visited his family's farm in Moroni, Ewetaw. That was in the late 50s and early 60s. Finding out that one of his grandsons has made a career of it? Well, I'm all in support of it.
     
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