Envious black guy

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  1. Imported

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    jayjay: Hello everyone,

    I have this problem, I work with a guy who happens to be black, well the problem is I think he's envious of my size, i've told other people I work with about my size and they seem fine with it. This guy really bugs me, he stares at my crotch when I pass by and even when his talking to me. I've told my friends about it, they reckon his got a small dick so his jealous of it and i should hit him next time stares. What should I do!

    Jay Jay
     
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    mindseye: [quote author=jayjay link=board=relationships;num=1074216286;start=0#0 date=01/15/04 at 17:15:46]What should I do! [/quote]

    You should refrain from discussing your penis at work if you can't handle the repercussions. That's what you should do.

    And why is his race germane to your question?
     
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    [quote author=mindseye link=board=relationships;num=1074216286;start=0#1 date=01/15/04 at 17:31:49]And why is his race germane to your question?[/quote]
    Um, because everyone thinks black guys are all donkey-hung? Because a black guy in Washington who discussed his size at work was sued? (You all know who I'm talking about.) Those are the only reasons I can think of.

    Seriously, I'll agree that you shouldn't discuss your size at work. That's sexual harrassment, and that makes me a saaaaaaaaad panda. LOL Use discretion around co-workers; no discussion of sex.
     
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    I'm with Heath and Jon: discussing your cock size at work is both uncouth and immature ... inappropriate for the workplace. (My job situation is different, of course, but even dancers don't talk a lot about their endowments.) Hit him? Sure, if you want a lawsuit on your hands. I can't imagine a court finding in your favour ... decking a dude for jst looking at you. Sheesh!
     
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    [quote author=DoubleMeatWhopper link=board=relationships;num=1074216286;start=0#3 date=01/16/04 at 01:38:33]... decking a dude for jst looking at you. Sheesh![/quote]

    Unless you're Joe Besser...

    "Stop lookin'!! Ya crazzzy!" :D
     
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    jayjay...what kind of work do you do that discussions of cock size would be relevant and or appropriate? If you were having a coffee break and one of your co-workers said "I got a really big cock" what would you think?
    Distance yourself from any further size discussions and ignore the stares. If the guy escalates beyond the stares tell him in private that you dont appreciate the attention and to cut it out. You did kind of set yourself up for this.
     
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    I'm going to have to go with the consensus on this subject, and agree that mentioning your size at work is definitely uncalled for. To the point of hitting him; you really want to hit him just because he stared after hearing about how you boasted about your size? You'd better be sure you want to stand up in front of a judge, and explain that in open court.

    Judge Judy'd have a field day with that one. :D ;D
     
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    jayjay: Looks like I dug myself a hole, You guys are right I shoudn't have told anyone about my dick, but thats the way I am. I have been in trouble like this all my life, in school, college and socially. Recently I have been able to control myself when sex and size are dicussed by co-workers but sometimes I can't help myself and so I join in the dicussion.

    I have decided to ignore the stares and stay away from any sex discussions.
     
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    jayjay: [quote author=mindseye link=board=relationships;num=1074216286;start=0#1 date=01/15/04 at 17:31:49]
    why is his race germane to your question?  [/quote]

    I opolagise to anyone offended by this, I'm not a racist, my best friend is black. It just a term I use i.e black guy, black geezer and so on. What the hell I'm half black myself by the way Jay Jay is my actual name.
     
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    eyemready: jay jay appears to be from U.K. They are not nearly so up-tight about sex or race as we are here and they don't sue one another at the drop of a hat.

    all the advice about work comments may be good from a professional point of view but having spent a lot of time in offices in England, I can tell you that sexual references are much more tolerated there
     
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    bih20: definetley a bad idea to talk about size in the work place.

    I wouldn't say that he is jealous though.

    If he was jealous, he would probably want no interaction with you whatsoever. He would try to stay away from you, and not look at that area, but totally away from you when talking.

    He is probably gay and is sending you signals instead.
     
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    jayjay: Well I've stopped talking about my dick at work, most guys don't believe me anyway.
     
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    ORCABOMBER: [quote author=eyemready link=board=relationships;num=1074216286;start=0#9 date=01/25/04 at 17:00:57]jay jay appears to be from U.K. They are not nearly so up-tight about sex or race as we are here and they don't sue one another at the drop of a hat.

    all the advice about work comments may be good from a professional point of view but having spent a lot of time in offices in England, I can tell you that sexual references are much more tolerated there[/quote]

    I'd argue that, I'd at least talk about it away from work! :D
     
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    [quote author=moyu link=board=relationships;num=1074216286;start=0#13 date=02/17/04 at 04:27:24]ÎÒÊÇÖйúÈË£¬ÎÒ×îϲ»¶ºÚÈ˵Ĵócock,°®µÃ·¢·è¡£Ê²Ã´Ê±ºòÎÒÄܵõ½Ëü£¿pic?
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    [quote author=MASSIVEPKGOFCHUCK link=board=relationships;num=1074216286;start=0#14 date=02/17/04 at 06:36:13]HUUUHHH??? ???[/quote]
    He's turning Japanese. I really think so.
     
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    ORCABOMBER: I thought only my corrupted files looked like that!
     
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    [quote author=jonb link=board=relationships;num=1074216286;start=0#15 date=02/17/04 at 21:06:11]
    He's turning Japanese. I really think so.[/quote]

    Oh, cute, REAL CUTE. Seriously, does anyone know what that said? ???
     
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    No, seriously, it looks like he'd originally written it in Chinese or Japanese. Sadly, YaBB doesn't support Unicode, and neither does Verdana.
     
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    moyu: [quote author=MASSIVEPKGOFCHUCK link=board=relationships;num=1074216286;start=0#14 date=02/17/04 at 06:36:13]

    HUUUHHH??? ???
    [/quote]

    I'm a Chinese.I like very blackmen and his big cock.
    I think gain pic. Thank you!

    moyu-0606@163.com
     
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