Envy watching porn with gf?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by JonoHari, Aug 29, 2006.

  1. JonoHari

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    How many of you here watch porn with your girlfriends? For those that do, I was wondering how you feel when the male performer has a bigger cock than you. Do you or she ever mention anything about it or carry on as normal? Do you get jealous if she admires it or is it kind of a turn-on? Obviously for many of us, size is a feature of our sex lives with our partners, at least to some degree, so I'd be interested in other people's reactions.
     
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    If it has ever bothered hubby, he hasn't mentioned it.....

    What I hate is when the guy in the film is big and the woman has a look on her face like "Did I remember to feed the dog before I left ?"

    I mean maybe she's big enough to get a Mack truck in there......
    But she could at least ACT like she's overwhelmed.....
     
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    She probably did. In the first 50 takes.
     
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    Yes!Porn is ok But it also can be very boring
     
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    If he is bigger than me (which is pretty much always), and if she is admires it, that well endowed actor is suddenly very ugly and has lots of physical defects, in addition to having low IQ, EQ and any other insults/put downs I can think of.

    And yes, those grapes are very sour indeed.
     
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    It seems to me that porn would be a LOT more interesting if they didn't worry so much about the choreography and focused more on showing real sexual energy. Bombshell, what you said about 50 takes hits it on the nose - I've never been in a porn studio but I'm guessing they do so many takes so they get the positioning just right, but who cares about that when the people don't seem like they're into it?
     
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    I never get jealous. We both drool over any nice tool in a porn, if it's bigger than me we talk about sharing it. I would say that she occasionally gets jealous if i'm rewinding to see a cock again...rolling her eyes, etc...
     
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    my gf has never mentioned about how big some guy in porn is.....she is quite happy with mine. i dont care how big the guy is either, i mean, its not like she is going to fuck him, and its not like that one bigger cock is going to make her go out and try and find some random with a bigger cock.....if she did, then i would let her.....it would show that she was a shallow person and she would be ridden from my life. plain and simple :p
     
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    E-an, this is a very refreshing thing to hear. Sometimes I feel guilty for expressing my preference for a large cock because some guys seem to get completely insecure and hysterical about it. But you seem to get it that women are not just going around searching for the biggest dick all the time. Well, most women. :wink: But you know what I mean. I'm guessing you're absolutely right that your gf is content with yours.
     
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    Interesting feedback... My current girlfriend is the first that i've felt really comfortable with watching porn and it really doesn't bother me that she lusts after hunks with big cocks, especially really girthy ones. afterall, it's not as if i'm oblivious to the attractiveness of the female cast. For us, fantasising about watching hot people having sex - and possibly joining in - is part of the joy of watching porn.
     
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    I love to watch porn with my girlfriend, it usually heats things up between us and we end up in a very steamy sex session.
    She does sometimes say "wow, that one is huge", but after that, during sex, she keeps telling me how big I am. So I absolutely don't mind her lokking at bigger cocks than mine. As long as she doesn't touch them... :p
     
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    I may very well be the only one on this entire board who's never watched porn with ANY woman. Now, don't anybody take this wrong for no offense is intended, but the women I've dated (even those who've been sexually aggressive and wonderful in bed) just haven't been "the type." My type is probably more shy, and more conservative than most. To be sure, during my stretches without a woman in my life, I've rented a few flicks, but a) the sex gets boring B) the acting is a joke c) I'd much rather look at big tits than some drug addict's dick.
     
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    Me too...never watched it with any man plus i used to have preference just for spice or erotic situations...until bcause of researching about my actual bf big size, I found Shane Diesel girth, and I'm hooked on his scenes about initial penetrations....

    I already notice my bf jeaously and he do not like competition particularly from another black guy, i notice that...than no way i'm going to tell my Shane girth porn preference...:wink:

    Anyways i do find porn watching to keep just to myself to enjoy and not welcoming no one to share it too.
     
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    haha, yeah, i know what you are saying, and its all good. if ya like big cocks, then so be it!! hehe, my gf has had a bigger cock then me, only one that has been thicker then me.....and apparently i have given her the best sex she has ever had, and she has had more partners then me and has been having sex longer then i have. and if i give her the best sex ever, then i will take that compliment over "you have the biggest cock ive ever seen!!" any day :) but hey, as long as we are all happy with our significant others.....then thats all that matters :)
     
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