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Hey guys i just wanted to ask if it was wrong to get erect while showering in a communal shower with other guys cause everyone keeps eye balling me when that happens How can i get rid of it?
 

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A few well placed tugs should get rid of it. ;-)

Don't be concerned about it, it's natural. Some guys will probably give you an appreciative smile, and for those that don't, just turn your cock away from them and let them move on.
 

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Don't stress about it. I get hard sometime, myself. I often shower in the corner (last shower in row), so when it happens I can just turn away from everyone. Although, if it's a big one like most of the guys here, I welcome a boner here and there.

If you accidentally hit me with it I won't complain.:biggrin1:
 

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If you really dont want this to happen, turn on the cold water to chill you out. Think of something different.

I would imagine most of the guys are straight, and homophobic..so when they see a guy with a big ol stiffy in the shower..they're looking to avoid it for possible "penetration". Either that...or they dont want to be seen in the shower with the guy with a hardon.
 

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Not wrong - unless you achieved it by jacking off in the shower. Then that would not be cool. Just continue to soap up and think of mom. That usually tames the tiger.
 

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I've seen quite a few hardons in the shower. They never seem to matter and almost always get ignored. When I got them, few seemed to care, althought I did hook up and leave with two different guys this way in my twenties. Don't act like you're interested in anybody, and guys should leave you alone, even if they stare a bit.
 

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Used to go a gym many years ago- one of the regulars there, nice and 'avg' all the way around, very 'straight' was infamous for it....

he would work out hard, strip down (the guy sweated like crazy), and as he was pulling off his shorts/jock there was always that unmistakable 'boing!', he was very self conscious about it.... then I think he saw a few others and wasn't as worried, but again a lot of it depends on the gym...

we have individual showers with curtains- I am sure more than once a few knobs have been polished in there...
 

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Yeah, I have a problem getting a boner in the gym showers. In high school they thought I was being abused at home because I faked so many injuries to get out of gym!
Now I think a lot of really unpleasant thoughts (you can just imagine) because if I think for one second about not get a boner, I get one. I'm embarrassed, but I have never gotten any crap over it, I just don't think it is cool. I'm scared that some homophobe will bash me for it, or I'll bump into one of my friends and it will get around. Some days I like it, with a big half-boner swinging, showing off to other guys, catching thier glances.
I guess I just never got over high school.
 

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Hey guys i just wanted to ask if it was wrong to get erect while showering in a communal shower with other guys cause everyone keeps eye balling me when that happens How can i get rid of it?

Penises get hard. Fact of life. Try to mentally suppress it. It can be distracting.
 

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I do sport since I'm very young, I NEVER saw a guy with a hard on in the locker room. To be errect is natural, yes, but not in the public shower. I dont know where some of the guys here take shower, but not my kind of public shower.
 

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I'm a longtime gym rat, and have probably used communal showers at least 2,000 times. And I could count on one hand the number of guys I've seen in locker rooms or gym showers with full-on erections (as opposed to semis, which are MUCH more common).

I think how a guy behaves when erect in such a setting determines how uncomfortable it might make other people. If you are erect and either a) stroking your dick or b) leering intently at others, this would probably make a lot of guys uncomfortable. When I see a guy with an erection doing either of these things, I get out of there ASAP.

But if you are more or less keeping to yourself and keeping your hands off yourself, then I think others will recognize that it's just a random boner, which happens to all of us sometimes.

Steve
 

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Hey guys i just wanted to ask if it was wrong to get erect while showering in a communal shower with other guys cause everyone keeps eye balling me when that happens How can i get rid of it?

well...do you have to shower at the gym? if it's really that big of an issue, maybe you should wait until you get home. or is that not an option here?