Erected Size Between Best Buddies

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Have you shared your hard size with your best friend?
How did that go, like who put his number out there first - or did you compare, see it accidentally or during some shared activity?
I have been asked at the gym shower by close friends “just how big does that get when it is hard?”. And I have replied. In return, my friend would say how big he is and perhaps talk about his girth or say that they wish they were that big. It has happened a few times and was always a comfortable conversation. But, in each case, the conversation was initiated by seeing me hang heavy in the shower room. It has never happened in a group and always one on one. I have been in a bar group where someone says something about their erect size, but I never volunteered mine. I don’t brag about size. Each if my friends has a physical or character trait or a skill that I would like to have; they don’t brag about their beautiful blue eyes, height, muscles, intelligence or facial structure and I don’t brag about my dick!
 

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I’ve shared my size with 3 of my best friends. Each was one on one. In two cases, we had been drinking. In one case we had been watching porn together. None of use ever compared or saw each other hard.

1) first was in college. My friend volunteered his size first. We were talking about how a chick we knew at a party was saying that gets exaggerate their size. She said that her boyfriend (also a friend of ours) claimed to have 6.5” but it was really more like 6”. Later we told what she had said to a 3rd mutual friend in private. My college friend volunteered that he couldn’t believe that our friend “only had 6”. Our 3rd friend volunteered that it was more than what he had. His was “a little over 5”. After this 3rd friend left, and I was alone with my best friend, we marveled that he would be so up front and admit that his was smaller. My best friend made several comments about how he couldn’t believe they were so small. I said that they weren’t THAT small. And he volunteered that he had 7”. I felt like I had to say something, so I admitted that mine was smaller that the first friend but bigger than the second. (I have 5.5”). My best friend then said, sort of in awe, that he couldn’t believe he had 2” more than our friend who admitted 5”.

Sorry for the round about story. Looking back on it, it seems clear that my best friend took the chick at the party’s description of our friends size and ran with it as a way to broadcast that he was more hung. At the end of the night, out of the group of us 4 college friends, he knew that he was the biggest and had at least an inch on his nearest rival.
 

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2) the second friend I admired my size to was soon after college. A college friend (not one mentioned above) came to visit and we drank beers and watch porn together that night. He was about to get married soon and was “donating” his old porn VHS tapes to me. While we were watching and drinking, we started talking about the size of some of the guys in the video and I told him about the story above. We starting talking about if size matters to women, but in a vague way. Finally I said something like: “I got like, 5.5 inches.” He was like “no problem man. Chicks would have no problem with that.” Then I asked him what he had and he said “a little over 6”, and raised his hand with thumb to finger to show his girth. (Probably about 5.5 based on his hand size.)

While my first friend seemed to be more in awe that his size was bigger than us other guys, my second friend treated the conversation as no big deal. And while his self reported size was bigger than what I had, he generally acted like it didn’t matter and I had nothing to worry about.
 

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3) my third friend was also an old college friend. But it took place about 5 years after the second story. We were talking about how his wife had somewhat lost interest in sex and things he might be able to do to romance her or recharge her interest.

Now, this friend had always been the alpha of the group a work out nut who was always in great shape. But now that he was in his 30s, he was losing some of his edge. I had previously told him about how another friend of ours (actually, the wife of the guys from the first story who’s girlfriend said he had 6”) really loved sex and wanted t all the time.

Remembering that I had said that, this friend asked why I thought it was that she was so interested in sex even after 10 years of marriage. I said that I didn’t know, that some chicks are just wired that way. My friend asked if I had any reason to think her husband (our mutual friend) was hung. I told him no and told him the story from #1 about how his girlfriend said he had 6 and our other friend claimed that he had 7 and about 3rd friend admitted 5”.

My friend sort of laughed and said that no guy should ever admit that his dick is smaller than 5.5. If it is, he should just lie.

He then lamented that our friend who claimed 7” was so big. He didn’t like that guy, who was skinny and not built like him. And said it wasn’t fair that a guy like that could be big. This friend had never said anything that made it seem he wasn’t totally alpha and confident, so hearing that he was in effect jealous of our 7” friend was a shock. His asking if our friends wife liked sex because he was big also made it seem that way.

So I said, “well, what have you got?” It seemed natural in the conversation, but I don’t remember exactly how exactly. He said he wasn’t sure. I sort of laughed at that and said “oh, come on. All guys measure at some point.”

He then said he was a little above average. I then asked what he thought of as average and he said “6, I’d say.” I then said that my understanding that 5.75 or 5.5 is what’s considered average these days and I was average.

He seemed to like hearing that was considered average. (When we were growing up, 6.25 or 6 was considered average). Nothing else was said about our sizes. The conversation was admittedly vague. So I figure he is 6 or 6.25 and I’m sure he figured I’m 5.75 or 5.5.

That’s the only 3 size conversations I’ve had with friends were our actual sizes were admitted or talked about. Sorry for the length of all that, but i thought folks readying this thread might be interested in real life conversations between str8 friends about size. None of us had obvious agendas or fetishes about it. Just collide friend conversation.
 

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Nice stories! They remind me to two of mine: one buddy was watching porn with me as we had a vcr back then and they didn't hehe.

Immediately or even before we started watching we got hard bulges and he asked me if it was okay to take his dick out! "Sure" i said and he took out a very straight, long and thick rocket shaped dick. It looked like some big guys in the movies! I took mine out as well and we looked at each others hard cocks and both of us smiled, no words, still "focussing" on the porn and each others cocks, jerking them at the same time next to each other till we blew our loads.

We did that several times during our school years and it was always fun regardless that he was much larger than me. He reassured me that i was fine with my size and erection.
It never worried me that he had a much bigger cock until maybe once later in life when he told me that he had repeatedly the wildest sex with 2 girls at the same time etc... then i remembered his hung hard size and saw where that confidence came from lol. but after all i was just happy for him, he was my best buddy back then!
 

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Only a few times.

Once in high school I told two friends that I measured and they didn't believe me and just decided I was a different, smaller but still big, size. I didn't fight them on it, but they both assumed that one of them was larger because he was so tall. I saw his penis a couple years later and he was clearly big, especially thick, but I was bigger.

Once in college I was having a drunken sex talk with a couple of roommates. We were talking about things we had done and what we wanted our respective girlfriends to do. We talked about titty-fucking, I wish there was a name for that that didn't sound so immature, and I mentioned that its even better to have your cock between her tits while she sucks the head. My friends didn't believe that was possible even though it was something I had experienced a few times. They stayed pretty quite afterwards, but when I explained the logistics they just kind of nodded.

Another time in college I was driving a group of people to the bar. In the passenger seat was one of my roommates when I lived with three women. She was beautiful and I still think about her frequently, though, I'm sad to say that we were never intimate despite all of my efforts. My old roommate, a guy, was in the backseat with two friends, both women, of my roommate at the time, the woman who was in the front with me. I heard them say a number that corresponded to the length of my penis, and in a stupid horny haze said something about "telling secrets." When my roommate asked what I meant I told her "my penis is X inches long." It did not get the reaction I wanted at all and my face is turning red with embarrassment now just remembering it.

I remember telling that last story to a friend in a bar one night. I explained how thinking about it brought me such shame that I could feel the heat in my face and I was trying to spark a conversation about things that bring about that level of shame. He took it a different way and started prying me to tell him my size, and he ended up taking guesses which I did not respond to, at least until he said four inches and I explained that I wouldn't be bragging to a woman about that. He said that he was "seven and change" in an attempt to get me to open up, but I didn't tell him.

All my other experiences of friends knowing my erect size happened when I was too young to discuss.
 

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i don't remember how we got there..... but suddenly late at night, like in Jjdov's post #3 above there was this erected size question between another good buddy and me and i had to put my cards out first.

i was about 5.3 in back then and told him that i was 5.7 in fully erected. He smiled at me eyes wide open and said "you're kidding, you must be quite bigger for sure! I am sure you're not only 5.7 in!"

I was ashamed and confused about his amused reaction and said with my usual confidence to him: "no it's true, i am 5.7 in fully hard." Damn, that number was even a little exaggerated than what it really was and he thinks i am supposed to be larger!? F**k, like it cannot be thaaaat small!?

Well, i asked him in return about his hard size and he told me that he had 7 in! Maaan, i felt so shitty and unfortunate in that moment but kept playing all cool and confident about my 5.7 in (thinking in that moment damn i'm more like 5.3 really!!) and told him stuff like "it's more important to know how to work with it" and stuff (even though at that time we both never even had sex with a woman before lol...) "Just don't lose your attitude now" i thought to myself!

In trying so, i explained to him that likely i wont marry a super tall and large woman as i guess there's probably better matches for me (he's taller too) and he could go after the taller ladies haha. Thanks God, he joined in to make me feel a bit better again and kind of confirmed to me that size wasn't all that important lol. For him, as a very competitive guy, i am sure it was a big thrill to beat me in that department but nice of him as a buddy, that he didn't go any further with his winning.

Later in life we saw each other quite often nude after sports and i have to admit, that from his perspective maybe i was naturally "quite small", especially when seen soft. First, after sports my dick is always quite smaller and second he has a nice fat uncut softie hanging low and heavy (i bet it's like 5 in soft). Accepting it is part of the game after all - which is why today i wouldn't lie to him about my size anymore. i am confident about it, have matured and really accepted my size, know how to use it and have never had any complaining customers hehe ;-)