Erectile Dysfunction Once in the Vagina?

Discussion in 'The Healthy Penis' started by arkvile, Jul 17, 2011.

  1. arkvile

    arkvile New Member

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    Dear World,

    So I was with a friend of mine last night, and everything was going swimmingly, and foreplay ensued and all the way through the foreplay, my buddy was standing strong and hard, ready to get into action. As things heated up, we got into the action of the moment and everything was Jim dandy! But as it continued, he lost his hardness mid-fuck. I hadn't cum yet, not even close, but he just went soft. It was mildly upsetting, and it happened again when we started to get into again later that night.

    Does anyone know why this might be?

    Signed, Rather Upset and Confused:confused:
     
  2. bonerrific

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    He is nervous. It's happened to me when I was nervous about performing as time drags on.

    He will get used to it and stay hard after a few tries
     
  3. GayFrog

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    Lifestyle choices or habits might be the inhibitor to your sexual performance. Eating too many fast foods and convenient foods. Drinking excessively or using other drugs several nights a week, stress, staying up late and short changing yourself on sleep are critical factors that need to be taken into consideration.

    Another thought to consider is, do you masturbate in the prone position. It causes severe sexual dysfunction in most males who practice it. Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome is the habit some males have of masturbating in a face-down position. Some TMS practitioners rub their penises against the mattress, pillow, or other bedding, or lie on their stomachs and thrust into their hands. Masturbating face down puts excessive pressure on the penis, and especially on the base of the penis. These sensations are not easily replicated in conventional masturbation or during sexual intercourse. This can make TMS practitioners unable to have normal sexual relations. Males who masturbate face-down are more likely suffer from erectile dysfunction during sexual intercourse; while males who masturbate face-up rarely or never have this problem.
     
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    As mentioned prior, was there alcohol involved are you on blood pressure medications, any anti depressants? Medications can cause problems, performance issues while during the act can cause problems, wondering if you can perform well enough....If the problem persists I would go see my care provider and explain the situation, and at that time they can review any medications you are on to see if there might be a side effect that could be giving you the problem. You may also then ask about ED medications such as Cialis. Your first step is identifying you have a problem with erections, now go the next step to fixing the problem.
     
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    I used to get ed while having sex over twenty years ago. I quit smoking then and got in shape and my bedbroom performance improved greatly. I usually orgasm three if not four times.
     
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    This happened to me the last two times my GF and I had sex...but ONLY when she is on top...any other position and I'm hard as a rock...but for some reason when she rides me I seem to go limp...still full and fat but what I call a soft hardon. The other night she was riding and it happend so we went doggiestyle and she even mentioned she could feel me getting bigger and harder.

    I mean what in the hell is this all about??
     
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