I recently went out with a guy who I really dug. He took the physical relationship really slow, which was okay with me. After a few weeks, we made out and then the relationship took off. We never had sex, but we did everything else. He told me he had intimacy issues because of getting herpes 15 years ago and because of previous bad relationships. He told me that it would be a couple of months before he would be "back in business." We tried to have sex a couple of times around 2 months period and after a few minutes, he got soft and we had to stop. It's now 3 months and a couple of times he was able to sex for a few minutes, but it doesn't last long. Actually the whole situation has gotten worse. He doesn't kiss me nor do we even make out anymore. My friend thinks he's impotent. I think he has deep-seeded emotional issues. Does anyone have an idea of what's going on?