Erection @ gym show

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Some advice is needed here guys. I've never really had to shower with other men before and have to decided to start hitting the showers at my gym after the pool or workouts. The majority of the time I am fighting not just a semi but a rageing hardon, even with no one showering with me. Now I know many say its natural, but at the same time I'd rather my cock get semi errect instead of jackhammer through the tile shower stall. Is my mind thinking to much? Is there anything anyone can suggest so I can overcome this and shower normally with a nice semi or stay soft like most men I see I the locker room ?

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I used to have similar experiences but over time you get used to the experience and relax. One thing that does definitely keep me very soft is if I do a session on the bike at the end of my workout. All the blood is pumping around my leg muscles and as such it takes a while for any semi to materialise when I hit the showers.
 
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Imagine Margaret Thatcher naked after having been in warm bath for 3 hours. This should solve any erection problem :)

Think about work. Think about problems you had in traffic. Generally, any negative stuff will help bring the boner down and keep your mind away from the gutter.

Personally, after a hard swim, I have no problem stayng soft because my body is recuperating.
 

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well the idea of working so hard to not allow blood to flow to my cock is a good idea but i think he would have a mind of his own... The showers are open 4 heads on each side, and i just image showering and a guy sparking up a conversation and then my cock wants to awaken and say hello.... hey hows it going don't mind my raging boner its new to this...
 

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you are a young guy , and boners happen . any guy who works out regularly knows that a boner at the gym doesn't necessarily mean you're some sort of sex perv. if anything a guy could look at you and admire , because you are showing at a good length. be proud of your body , and allow others to admire it as well . if it gets a little swollen, who cares ? and you know that a boner can be something that spreads ... One guy gets chubbed and another guy gets bone and men will be men . loosen up, and relax among your fellow brothers. soon you won't have an issue with it anymore I promise .
 
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same problem 2 years ago in college, first time with public showers. Just give it some time and you will get use to it. If your gay you are gonna wanna look at other guys dicks and that will give you a hard on, resist looking for now. Just focus on the shower tiles.
 

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and yes I know that your profile says 100 percent straight ... that's not the point . the reality is that you are at a gym that has a 16 person shower , so it's not like you have the opportunity to have privacy . unless you choose to not shower at the gym that you pay membership dues for, every gym regular, Guest , homophobic straight guy, gay queen or old troll ... All of them are going to see your junk . it's up to you man to set the tone and either invite the stare, tell them to look elsewhere, or just be yourself and be proud of who you are . only you can control you and your actions . the more you stress about your size , your body hair , your muscles ... all that stressed up energy will just make your worry worse . just enjoy being among friends buddy.
 

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oh and one more thing ... EVERY guy looks at a naked body near him . it's human nature to be curious . we don't walk around naked in society, so being in the same room with another naked body is unusual . men are wired to size each other up , it's part of our evolution . Once the curiosity is over, then the motivation changes from to tittilation to pure socialization . take a glance at the human sexuality around you , and allow others to do the same . that's when it becomes much easier to truly hang out with other guys naked in the showers . then it's up to you to decide how you proceed , in choosing your own actions in this social setting .
 

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you are a young guy , and boners happen . any guy who works out regularly knows that a boner at the gym doesn't necessarily mean you're some sort of sex perv. if anything a guy could look at you and admire , because you are showing at a good length. be proud of your body , and allow others to admire it as well . if it gets a little swollen, who cares ? and you know that a boner can be something that spreads ... One guy gets chubbed and another guy gets bone and men will be men . loosen up, and relax among your fellow brothers. soon you won't have an issue with it anymore I promise .

Boner Contagion:biggrin1:
 

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Colder shower helps, shower toward the corner.. Have two towels.. One to cover up and one to dry off
 
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Boner Contagion:biggrin1:

Yeah, like when someone yawns, everyone else yawns ... :)

Choose a shower head that faces the wall, this way fewer people see you. Or put your arms/hands in front of your equipment to make it less obvious you are erect.

Seeing some growth is common. Seeing a full fledged erection is not common (where I train).
 

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It may not be common , but it is also not necessarily indicative of anything sexual . remember that all guys are judged either by being a grower or a shower . the more that you are there with other guys who you will get to know the more you realize it just doesn't matter ... because erections are the great equalizer that makes 85 percent of penises the same approximate size .
as for myself , I have found it much more enjoyable to be myself and actually acknowledge the guys around me , rather than ignoring them . after a few visits you will sense a pecking order (pun intended ) among the guys , and just like in any social situation some guys will not be friendly , and others will be way too friendly ... even if you feel uncomfortable at first, be proactive about remaining open , pleasant , and easy goin. g .
In the book of Proverbs it says that up man who wants friends must show himself friendly ... let that be your guide until you discover who you need to be more guarded around . trust your instincts about people they are usually right
 

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Lately, in the shower, I've seen guys standing there covering their genitals. Just do that if you start to get an erection, or do it the whole time so no one will notice at all.
 

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Thanks for all the suggestions so far everyone, all the feedback is great. Im going to tell my self to relax this morning in preparation for the gym this afternoon

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it happened to me but the thing u need to do is when u feel that ur having an erection in the shower switch to very cold water and ull see that ur erection goes away at least long enough for u to cover up or something it will feel cold but it will stop the boner
 

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For some guys, post-workout we have "shower dick..." For me, a cold shower can actually be the turn-on, and it's a hot shower that causes my nuts to retract and blood to retreat into the body. If I drop the water temperature lower, then the blood flows down to warm things up.

Remember everyone is different. Find out what works for YOU and DO THAT.