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When ever I get changed at the gym, I can't stop getting a hard on? Does this happen to anyone else and how do people stop it. I'm 8 when hard so its quite hard to hide it even with a towel on!
 

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Is it a turn-on for you to see other guys, or to have them see you do you think? Whenever I see a guy with a big dick getting changed or showering I tend to get a semi at least... And the same thing happens when I notice my own dick getting checked out.

Yes, it can be embarrassing, but also slightly flattering for those involved... I'm in the military and see lots of guys naked, and actually over time I've gotten used to showering with others, but it still happens from time to time.

Also I think it's normal for many guys, gay or straight, to check each other out to see where we stack up. It's not necessarily a sexual thing.
 
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Haha... I try desperately to think of something mundane or non-sexual... Or high-tail it out of there!

Unless, which is extremely rare, I'm certain that both of us are interested in putting on a little show.
 

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i cant tell you how to do it but you have to get a businesslike mindset as if there was nothing interesting around you and just get on with changing.
 

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I usually am the opposite at my gym... wishing I was hanging longer and lower after a good workout to look "respectable" and then I look down and say, "where did he go?" LOL

I think if you are nonchalant and don't make a spectacle, you're fine. If you start walking around with your hips thrust forward like you're a divining rod looking for a water source, then you'll incur the wrath of those inclined to feel angered or threatened. And by all means, PLEASE COVER UP IF THERE ARE MINORS PRESENT- not because you should be ashamed, but because you probably shouldn't be in the role of male role model in that situation. If others see you with a kid staring at your bone (and they will every time), you'll just be opening yourself up to a world of problems.

You're human and a dude, and we all know that sometimes they do indeed happen unexpectedly. Any guy should know that and won't immediately judge a gym shower boner as a sign of anything more than blood flow from a good workout. As I said before, you're judged by how you ACT with that boner.

EVERY GUY looks at gym cocks- every guy compares. Only the confident will admit it. That being said, probably 75% of the guys who see you will fall somewhere on the kinsey scale and actually LIKE seeing your bone. (Just remember- not everyone who appreciates seeing it would want to touch, feel, or get on it!) So you can be proud that showing a good semi is basically going to only have a negative reaction with 25%... and maybe another 15% of these guys are going to give you the benefit of the doubt as it just being a stray bone.

The bottom line is, get yourself groomed and get your body athletically fit- ht/wt proportionate, and, if necessary, make some use of your towel to maintain some minimal modesty. If you show a big bone, hey- it happens. As others have said, it will fade over time (damn it) :)
 

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It happens. Ive seen udes get a chubby to a total boner, just bring our own towel, i do. I use bigger towel to hide when he gets excited
 

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Seems like a regular thing for many guys. What do other people do and how often do you see it from other guys? I have only seen it once before.
 

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I've only seen wood in the locker room a cople of times, but seeing dudes bone up in the showers is totally common. Several times when I get done shampooing and wipe the soap off my face I've seen guys stroking when I opened my eyes. I think it's a bit more private there.
 

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This used to happen to me nearly everyday the first time I started to use a locker room. I was in a shower one time when a young man was showering. He boned up and was trying to hold it down with one hand, while using the other hand to wash himself. I almost told him to not worry about his erection and just take his shower and not be concerened about his boner. But I didn't say anything.