Erection Issue

Discussion in 'The Healthy Penis' started by B_Demention, Feb 25, 2008.

  1. B_Demention

    B_Demention New Member

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    Anyone notice that they don't get nearly as hard on their own (jerking off) as they do when with a woman? I have absolutely no problem getting it up and staying at my biggest when I'm with someone, but as soon as I'm on my own and it's just me and my hand, I'm pretty fucked. It's not that I can't get a hard on at all then, it just takes a while and it's not the same level of hardness. Doesn't seem to matter whether I watch porn or anything, not much seems to help. Anyone else?
     
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    Nope. There's no noticeable difference in the size or hardness of my cock between being on my own or being with someone.

    I have, however, seen some guys using it as an excuse for why they can't show a "proof pic" that shows them at their claimed size. :rolleyes:
     
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    i actually find that my own technique sometimes gets me
    harder than a womans technique.

    what get me hardest is my brain,if i think about my cock
    i do not get harder,but if i imagine the smell and textures
    of ass and pussy that is interlinked with a gorgeous person
    it sends chills down my spine with sexual energy.

    then boom my cock balloons up.
    sexuality is a very very mysterious art.
     
  4. Young N Sassy

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    Not that I would know from person experience, but I've heard a lot of guys tell me that. As long as you can get it up who cares :p
     
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    personal experience* Who knew I couldn't spell either =D
     
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    I have some of my best orgasms on my own. I know exactly what i like and how to do it. :tongue:
     
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    it's so situation-dependent. Sometimes you get yourself in just the right mood. Othertimes your partner does.

    I wouldn't trade times with my girl for anything. But sometimes I wish she knew just a bit more about how it felt.

    Of course, like YoungNSassy said, without that personal experience of having your own penis, I couldn't expect her too. But sometimes I'm harder for me, other times I'm harder for her.
     
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    Thanks for the replies. I had thought there'd be more folks out there with the same thing going on. It didn't occur to me to use it as an excuse to not reach my claimed size though - I like that one, and I'll have to remember it. Nah I'm just kidding, although there really does seem to be a good half inch or so difference in my case.
     
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    Slant , Your not alone I spring right to action when I stand next to her and yes I do get harder I think maybe the anticipation of not knowing when the moment will cum may allow me to get harder and harder sometimes to the point where all she has to do touch me and I'll pop .. Where as when I'm doing myself, most of the time I just want to get it over with so I can relax .So maybe what I'm trying to say is the longer it takes the more blood flows in..
     
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    Depends on the mood, sometime with the wife get really hard, all work up to really hard.
    But sometimes - if we do a more foreplay I am rock hard before I enter her, other times I get harder and bigger as I go.
    With me and my hand, depends what triggered my jacking - porn, PMs or boredom.
     
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    Definitely feel you man! I have often wondered if others had this issue as well. There is at LEAST a 1/2 inch decrease in size when I am whackin it as opposed to being with a partner. I love the reassurance I get in knowing I am straight when my cock pulsates and feels like it is about to explode because I am anticipating sex with a woman. Many chicks have said I could "hammer a nail with that thing". So yes... much harder with a woman. :D
     
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