erection loss?
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I'm 46 and have dealt with mild ED for several years. How long I stay hard depends on a bunch of variables, but I've got the appropriate treatment for it, and have a great sex life.
Do you have morning erections or erections while sleeping? Do you have a lot of sex or masturbate often?....sometimes it can simply be an issue of being jaded and overexposed to sex.
I strongly suggest you get referred to a urologist and have them take blood for hormone levels and other chemical issues, and do a Doppler ultrasound to determine whether there's a physical problem. If your doctor simply prescribes Viagra or another of the pills, ask him for the referral anyway. If there's a hormone problem or a vascular issue, you may be able to treat that more permanently and effectively than simply having to take a pill every time you have sex....for the rest of your life. And the sooner issues are discovered and treated, the better. Plus, it'll take that load off your mind that I know you have....that only makes it worse if you let it continue.
Do you have morning erections or erections while sleeping? Do you have a lot of sex or masturbate often?....sometimes it can simply be an issue of being jaded and overexposed to sex.
I strongly suggest you get referred to a urologist and have them take blood for hormone levels and other chemical issues, and do a Doppler ultrasound to determine whether there's a physical problem. If your doctor simply prescribes Viagra or another of the pills, ask him for the referral anyway. If there's a hormone problem or a vascular issue, you may be able to treat that more permanently and effectively than simply having to take a pill every time you have sex....for the rest of your life. And the sooner issues are discovered and treated, the better. Plus, it'll take that load off your mind that I know you have....that only makes it worse if you let it continue.
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It could simply be a warning sign of old age, of course.
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D_Keziah Binbanger
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How old are you? Because it doesn't usually happen to young people. You should see a physician about it. When you jerk off or have sex, do you lose your erection or do you maintain it?
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Yep, or simply you are tired. It happens to me when I'm very tired and I'm only 18.
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May be this is a big problem asociated to erectil difunction problems .Because it isen't only asociated to a man that never can obtein an erection .
Of course when problem is asociated as my case , to premature ejaculation , you can't resolve it as simple as manteining allway a masturbation or sex with bride to avoid lost erection ( I mean mantein movement in the penis, because people loose atention ) say that because it is posible a man cum with such penis movement .
In porno actor film is custom see how they suddenly aply a mastusbation or hand job work to his penis to mantein better erection or don't loose it at all , it cause effect but I don't understand how they can later be fucking hard a girl with out cum (well ??? if some hand movement make them feel a sensation ) .
The best and quick is derivated of Sidenafil , allow you for a long period manteion an erecction , a help with the hands is usefull too , and in my case with premature ejaculation allow me cum once and mantein erection for at least a second continous fuck and cum , with out loose erection
Of course when problem is asociated as my case , to premature ejaculation , you can't resolve it as simple as manteining allway a masturbation or sex with bride to avoid lost erection ( I mean mantein movement in the penis, because people loose atention ) say that because it is posible a man cum with such penis movement .
In porno actor film is custom see how they suddenly aply a mastusbation or hand job work to his penis to mantein better erection or don't loose it at all , it cause effect but I don't understand how they can later be fucking hard a girl with out cum (well ??? if some hand movement make them feel a sensation ) .
The best and quick is derivated of Sidenafil , allow you for a long period manteion an erecction , a help with the hands is usefull too , and in my case with premature ejaculation allow me cum once and mantein erection for at least a second continous fuck and cum , with out loose erection
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Maybe some nipple play and a finger inserted at the right time will change the circumstances, otherwise if you masturbate very often it could be that you're just needing a different type of stimulation. I also agree with All4Kim, the more you think about it the more it will happen and set you up mentally for more of the same. Get your hormone levels checked anyway and when the results come back that you're a potent stud things will take a turn for the better.
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Erection problems at your age could be a sign of other things, for example Diabetes...You may want to think about get some blood work done.
Jerking off may have become lackluster for you, you may need some outside stimuli.
When I was between girlfriends, stroking it could hold my intrest for so long before I needed to get off my ass and find a lady
Jerking off may have become lackluster for you, you may need some outside stimuli.
When I was between girlfriends, stroking it could hold my intrest for so long before I needed to get off my ass and find a lady
Smoking won't help as it narrows the veins and restricts blood flow.
Mostly though it's the body's largest sexual organ (the brain) that causes the problem.
I was about to have sex once when a thought came into my head and I went limp. The more I tried, the less he'd respond to my thought transmissions or the lady's hand and oral administrations.
Problem was, this went on for weeks/months until I managed to somehow get it back (I was under huge financial pressure at the time).
If you think you're gonna lose your erection, chances are you will.
You gotta believe that you're the number one stud in the world who pities the guys who can't get it up. When you believe it, it will become a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Cheer up.
Go the gym take up a sport or do other things that you're good at..
Get some confidence.
Anyone can be a stud. What makes you so special you can't, too?
Nothing at all. Be that stud.
Mostly though it's the body's largest sexual organ (the brain) that causes the problem.
I was about to have sex once when a thought came into my head and I went limp. The more I tried, the less he'd respond to my thought transmissions or the lady's hand and oral administrations.
Problem was, this went on for weeks/months until I managed to somehow get it back (I was under huge financial pressure at the time).
If you think you're gonna lose your erection, chances are you will.
You gotta believe that you're the number one stud in the world who pities the guys who can't get it up. When you believe it, it will become a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Cheer up.
Go the gym take up a sport or do other things that you're good at..
Get some confidence.
Anyone can be a stud. What makes you so special you can't, too?
Nothing at all. Be that stud.
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My advice: Ask your doctor to test you for low-testosterone (also called hypogonadism) and let your doctor put you on Androgel if the results show you to meet the criteria.
Also stock up on generic Cialis. Cialis is milder than Viagra or Levitra but for your situation it may be ideal because it stays in your system 24-48 hours.
Pre-1996, every "expert" said erection loss was in the mind. Now it is thought to be an organic (physical) cause almost all of the time. Shows you how quickly conventional opinions can change.
Also stock up on generic Cialis. Cialis is milder than Viagra or Levitra but for your situation it may be ideal because it stays in your system 24-48 hours.
Pre-1996, every "expert" said erection loss was in the mind. Now it is thought to be an organic (physical) cause almost all of the time. Shows you how quickly conventional opinions can change.
I think that if you masturbate to often you may lose your ability to get or keep an erection. If you slow down and relax that may help also. Always relax its just a thing, never put pressure on your self to perform. And I would suggest finding a partner to enjoy your self with, its so much fun to please others as well. Possibly learning to jelg properly will improve your penis health. I hope one of these suggestions help.
