I just want a small poll to see where I myself fit; the question is simple: Do you, more often, have to actually masturbate to attain an erection or do you have them just from thought / visual stimulation / etc. without touching your own penis? Now, I am sure there are those who can orgasm as such, but for this excercise an 'erection' is defined as a penis that is about 80% hard; so if you're not exactly at that max point it's okay, but you do have to get there most of the way. Reason I ask: I am actually finding it harder and harder to attain erections without touching my own penis; not neccessarily public news, but if it's not the norm I'd seek to correct it because while I like not having erections in public I don't like the fact that I don't have random erections, and to my knowledge I don't have night erections either. I'm young ( don't do any substances, etc. ), so, that should not be the case. Appease me? Stories welcome of that crazy time just to spice things up for everyone. Women welcome to tell stories, and if you want, share their own... er... arousal information? Thanks in advance.