bigk4: This is very embarrasing etc. but while having sex with my gf im hard then it starts going soft a little while after, basically it cant stay hard the whole way through, i was reading in a stress book and it says stress can be doing this but i can not think of any stressful happenings thats going on? sometimes we have a little break because i cant get hard agen so after about 10-15 mins we start again and i get hard, i think it may have something to do with my mind, like my mind drifts off somewhere else a little while into sex or could it be that i was using my right for almost a year and no pussy? im thinking its getting out of the rythm of using my right hand and getting into the rythm of pussy as i think the 2nd time i had sex with my gf i didnt take as long to cum wen we had it the 1st time? any help appriciated!