Erection Ring?

[EboniGoddess]

I was looking at a porn store website for some toys (mainly a dildo :smile:and a fucking machine:biggrin1 and they had this thing called an erection ring. I had seen it in some porno movies and was wondering does it help guys prolong orgasms or something? If so maybe thats what I need to get a guy instead of buying this stuff. My problem with guys is after they cum they just pull out and doesn't keep going because I haven't cum yet.

 

[deano-uk]

Perhaps you're with the wrong guy, if he is not interested in you getting enjoyment out of sex..
I always work on my wife cumming at least once, more often three or more times before I cum, depending on situation.

 

[EboniGoddess]

Perhaps you're with the wrong guy, if he is not interested in you getting enjoyment out of sex..
I always work on my wife cumming at least once, more often three or more times before I cum, depending on situation.

good point but its been more than 1 guy who has done this. At one point of time I was very sexually active with different partners. A guy has never made me cum but a vibrator on the other hand has several times. They all cum and then pull out. Damn doochebags!

 

[MrGoodDate]

To repeat what was just said. I too seek to satisfy my wife first, then when she has a second orgasm I join her in the excitement. This require that I play with her clit during our intimate moments until she has a cumm.
It is true when I have had my cumm I cannot continue much longer,,, it hurts too much while also feeling good.
My motto is "with me my woman always comes/cumms first."

 

[EboniGoddess]

I need a guy to play with mine. Its boring. He sticks it in. Moves up and down for a while, cums and then its over

 

[DonJuanDeShenzhen]

Cockrings that pull the balls away from the body can delay ejaculation, since the balls are usually pulled towards the body before ejaculation which is prevented by the ring.

3/4 of all men come in 2-3 minutes of intercourse according to some studies. Most girls don't come that fast. But neither do I

Change the guy! There are men that want to satisfy women more than just shooting their load ..

 

[CALAMBO]

sounds like you are playing with boys....get a MAN, sincere adult man who knows how to get the job done...they are out there...do not give it up to just anyone...find a good one

 

[MrGoodDate]

Rommette: I would love to get together/ chat with you.
Do you have Yahoo?

 

[EboniGoddess]

Rommette: I would love to get together/ chat with you.
Do you have Yahoo?

yes i do have yahoo...check you pm.

 

[NightFish]

I always try to get the lady I'm with to cum first that way I don't ever seem selfish and it turns me on when I see them squirming

 

[EboniGoddess]

Damn it! Where have I been? Hoping to get laid soon though

 

[sandwulf]

I'll have to agree with the other posters on this issue. The extra toys really aren't what you need. What your in need of is a man who is not selfish in bed.

While I will admit that I generally prefer guys, I have been with a women more then a few times in the past and I always tried to make sure that they orgasm first.
Even if a guy does end up cumming first, he should NEVER simply pull out and just be done. Ignoring the sexual needs of your partner like that should never be done. Even if the guy cums first he still always has other tools at his disposal that he can (and should) use to get you there as well.

If you prefer to keep your current guy but want the sex to be better, then your going to have to teach him what to do. Communication is essential. Teach him about the importance of lots and lots of foreplay. Show him the places to touch, kiss, lick ect.. that you enjoy the most and encourage him to find others that you don't know about yet. But no matter what, you need to communicate with him about what you like, and what works for you.
If your guy isn't good in bed now he will never get better if he doesn't know what he is doing wrong. I'm sure that several of the women on here can give you some pointers on how to properly train your guy.

Good luck.

 

[Rubenesque]

A guy has never made me cum

Same here.... I get close, but not quite. Even during oral sex.... but I think that's my hang ups and not their technique, because I never fail to bring myself to orgasm through masturbation. I have at least 2 orgasms a day - would be nice to have one with someone else in the room one day! hahaha

 

[EboniGoddess]

Same here.... I get close, but not quite. Even during oral sex.... but I think that's my hang ups and not their technique, because I never fail to bring myself to orgasm through masturbation. I have at least 2 orgasms a day - would be nice to have one with someone else in the room one day! hahaha

Same here.....lol. I was starting to think i had the female kind of erectile disfunction or something and should be on meds but i guess not. its not me....its them