I'd say I'm a grower not a shower--walking around naked, my dick is not very big. Kinda scrunched up as if it's hiding. Well, that's an exageration because it's not like some guys I've seen. Anyway, hard it's 7 with a kinda big head. Small around these parts, but it's all I've got and it has served me well. However, I think it could serve be better if it was not so shy. As much as I am interested in nudity, I'm shy about participating, but sometimes I do. But when I do I don't feel I'm at my best because my guy is usually shy and withdrawn until it starts to get hard. I seem to have built in protection against an inappropriate boner, but at this point, I'd like to get rid of it and become more of a shower. Other than taking medication, any thoughts? I keep thinking that in my case, it's mostly in my head . . .