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Anyone have any advice out there on how to achieve an erection without touching yourself? Some of the younger guys will probably laugh but I'm not 20 any more. I was in the sauna the other day and this guy had no towel on and was sneaking a peek at my cock now and then and as I watched over the next minute he got to full arousal without touching himself. The guy had to be 50 years old. How is that possible? I would love to be able to do that but my cock is very thick and heavy so my guess is that it's naturally harder for me then it was for him. Advice?
 
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I’m not 20 anymore either. I get hard without touching. Not sure I do anything to ensure that. Maybe doing exercise helps.
 
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Anyone have any advice out there on how to achieve an erection without touching yourself? Some of the younger guys will probably laugh but I'm not 20 any more. I was in the sauna the other day and this guy had no towel on and was sneaking a peek at my cock now and then and as I watched over the next minute he got to full arousal without touching himself. The guy had to be 50 years old. How is that possible? I would love to be able to do that but my cock is very thick and heavy so my guess is that it's naturally harder for me then it was for him. Advice?
Touch your mind. I get hard by conversations or seeing things that start me imagining....
When with a lover, I'm always hard (w/o touching) before it's time to disrobe.

and a relatively healthy diet to keep my blood vessels open.
 

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Anyone have any advice out there on how to achieve an erection without touching yourself? Some of the younger guys will probably laugh but I'm not 20 any more. I was in the sauna the other day and this guy had no towel on and was sneaking a peek at my cock now and then and as I watched over the next minute he got to full arousal without touching himself. The guy had to be 50 years old. How is that possible? I would love to be able to do that but my cock is very thick and heavy so my guess is that it's naturally harder for me then it was for him. Advice?

In the case of the bloke in the sauna it would appear he didn't have what it takes for you to get interested/turned on.
Congrats on your thick, heavy meat!
 

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Anyone have any advice out there on how to achieve an erection without touching yourself? Some of the younger guys will probably laugh but I'm not 20 any more. I was in the sauna the other day and this guy had no towel on and was sneaking a peek at my cock now and then and as I watched over the next minute he got to full arousal without touching himself. The guy had to be 50 years old. How is that possible? I would love to be able to do that but my cock is very thick and heavy so my guess is that it's naturally harder for me then it was for him. Advice?

Since you are 99% straight, you were not aroused by the other person. Possibly the other person sneaking peeks at you , was attracted to your form, hence his boner. Unless you are saying you want to get instant erections using visual male stimuli
 
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A lot of it is mental bro, at least that how it works for me. I’ve been with girls that just holding hands make my cock want to rip open through the jeans zipper. Try to just focus on the part you find arousing, her legs, boobs, or if your a fag (no offence, I’m probably one in the making) his abs, glutes, biceps and just keep thinking about it and looking at it.

I find being in strip clubs always gets my juices flowing, cock bouncing in my pants like on a trampoline.

Wearing loose pants works too.
 
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A lot of it is mental bro, at least that how it works for me. I’ve been with girls that just holding hands make my cock want to rip open through the jeans zipper. Try to just focus on the part you find arousing, her legs, boobs, or if your a fag (no offence, I’m probably one in the making) his abs, glutes, biceps and just keep thinking about it and looking at it.

I find being in strip clubs always gets my juices flowing, cock bouncing in my pants like on a trampoline.

Wearing loose pants works too.
If no offense why would you even use the term? It’s a damn slur.
 

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Do you get hard when watching porn or do you still need to stimulate with your hands?

I’ve been in really horny situations where I’ve not been fully erect as my mind wasn’t 100% connected but I’ve sprung to attention when a guy I met, secretly caressed my hand.

Erections are more than physical, I prefer an emotional involvement to be fully aroused.

As long as porn or masturbation gets you hard then you don’t have a problem (if you don’t get erect then seek medical advice).

Don’t worry about not getting erect hands-free there’s more to stimulation, especially as you get older.
 

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Yes, I think my question was misunderstood. In the right situation, watching porn, etc. I get hard instantly with no manual stimulus. There's no issue there. I just wonder if in a situation where you can't touch yourself or where there is a bit of theater, exhibitionism, awkwardness, ie sauna and unknown person sitting across from you, if there is a way to relax muscles and think happy thoughts and get it done. I'm not talking cock under a towel with a pinky finger stroking the shaft discreetly to get erect, I am talking no towel, all hanging out to see for the masses and getting an erection from zero to full mast go time in 30 seconds. It was the most amazing thing I have ever seen. I was jealous........
 
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It happens to me all the time. Just holding hands, kissing, making out, someone unbuttoning my shirt and playing with my chest, makes me really stiff really quick. And one time, like you, I was sitting naked in a sauna, cock just floppy, and a guy walked in. Nice body, great personality, moderately hung, really nothing special.He stripped off his towel and sat across from me... and I just started getting hard. So did he. Maybe 20 or 30 seconds and we were both super hard. We joked about it, "Must be the horny weather in here, huh?" Nothing came of it, but it sure was impressive.
 

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A lot of it is mental bro, at least that how it works for me. I’ve been with girls that just holding hands make my cock want to rip open through the jeans zipper. Try to just focus on the part you find arousing, her legs, boobs, or if your a fag (no offence, I’m probably one in the making) his abs, glutes, biceps and just keep thinking about it and looking at it.

I find being in strip clubs always gets my juices flowing, cock bouncing in my pants like on a trampoline.

Wearing loose pants works too.
Hey pal...just wanted to let you know one thing......YOURE TOO CLASSLESS TO BE A FAG......but you’re truly classless enough to be a FUCKING ASSHOLE....
 
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When my wife and i start kissing i get hard in just seconds... same if some naughty penis thoughts come to my mind hehe... i guess the smaller chemistry works faster haha.

You can see in my video how fast that goes to a full hard mast. ok, i was pinching my nipples too ;-)