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If you are over 55 what are you erections like? Does it take you longer to get hard? Once hard do you stay hard?

I can get hard and stay hard but if my concentration is broken I can lose the erection or takes awhile to get hard if my mind wonders. Curious to what other experience.
 

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I'm 62. Been on testosterone for about 10 years. I'm not has hard as I used to be. But I also never have premature ejaculations. So while I'm not as hard, I can fuck for a long time.

One other addition this year was the cock ring. My wife says she can feel the veins and how pronounced my head is when in her. It also allows my cock to stay in a semi hard state.
 

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If you are over 55 what are you erections like? Does it take you longer to get hard? Once hard do you stay hard?

I can get hard and stay hard but if my concentration is broken I can lose the erection or takes awhile to get hard if my mind wonders. Curious to what other experience.
I started having that same issue around 50, difficult to get hard and easy to lose it if I lose my concentration. Easier to get and stay hard in the morning but needed Viagra for nighttime activity. Progressed to needing Viagra for any good sex by about 55.
 
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Definite change as you get older, takes longer, and the angle drops over the years!
That is what I find strange about myself. I either have a good erection or no erection. I read about most guys losing some hardness or size. If I start to lose my erection I deflate completely and no saving it.
 

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Definite change as you get older, takes longer, and the angle drops over the years!
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If you are over 55 what are you erections like? Does it take you longer to get hard? Once hard do you stay hard?

I can get hard and stay hard but if my concentration is broken I can lose the erection or takes awhile to get hard if my mind wonders. Curious to what other experience.
I can have fantastic erections, like I was in my 20s, or I can experience that same issues as you do. Unfortunately a break in concentration can lead to irreversible deflation, which really sucks.

Sometimes, when I know I've had a stressful week or day, or haven't slept well, I pre-emptively take a 5mg tadalafil so I know I will be able to get rock hard and please my wife and myself.
 

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If you are over 55 what are you erections like? Does it take you longer to get hard? Once hard do you stay hard?

I can get hard and stay hard but if my concentration is broken I can lose the erection or takes awhile to get hard if my mind wonders. Curious to what other experience.
67 yrs old, work out and eat as best possible. strong erections, need viagra to keep hard for as long as i want to.
 

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With me I don’t get very hard looking at pics online more of a semi but I do leak precum and if I’m actually having sex or jerking off I get there! It’s like when I’m in the moment it’s great it’s getting to that moment sometimes takes work.
 
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Has anyone tried both cialis and viagra! One better than the other?
Tried and still use both. Cialis stays in your system longer so gives me options for sex. Viagra only last a few hours but good to take when the moment strikes. I have the generic 10mg viagra tablets and at times take 2 or 3 to have a JO session with a rock hard cock instead of struggling to get hard
 
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Has anyone tried both cialis and viagra! One better than the other?
I am 57 and have tried both and hands down, I choose generic cialis. I take a small daily dose around 5:00pm every day, which works great for me. No need to worry about taking viagra 2-3 hours before, I am good to go any time of day. I have been married for 3 years now and with my wife for nearly 7 and have taken one or the other the entire time without her knowledge. Of course, it doesn't hurt that I am on testosterone as well.
 

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I am 57 and have tried both and hands down, I choose generic cialis. I take a small daily dose around 5:00pm every day, which works great for me. No need to worry about taking viagra 2-3 hours before, I am good to go any time of day. I have been married for 3 years now and with my wife for nearly 7 and have taken one or the other the entire time without her knowledge. Of course, it doesn't hurt that I am on testosterone as well.
Do you take 5mg ? I am thinking of trying that but may not be enough since I can’t get an erection that stays without any meds
 

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While I'm a few years away from the age number in question (but close enough :(), there has unfortunately been a reduction in both firmness and ability to maintain an erection from even a decade ago.

I don't have any difficulty getting erect to either imagery or stimulation, but as others have mentioned, it's more of a matter of keeping it if for some reason I become distracted. In others words, it is becoming quite easy to lose it with a change in stimulation or mental state. Once that happens, I can sometimes get it back right away with proper stimulation, but other times I'll need a certain "cool-down" period in order to continue. Fortunately when it comes to sex, my wife has always been understanding and we will switch to other things like touching or me continuing to manually stimulate her till I get back a full hard-on. Her giving me oral is usually a sure-fire method and sometimes she will just finish me off that way rather than take the chance going back to penetration.

One area where there has not been much change, if any, has been in morning wood. I can still get hard enough to cut diamonds in the morning; the only drawback being I'm rarely in the mood for morning sex and as any guy knows having an erection does not always indicate desire.

Perhaps the biggest change that has occurred over a longer time period has been in the angle. When younger and first experiencing regular erections it was straight up vertical, against my stomach, when standing; while now it is all but horizontal and sticks straight out. While I've never regularly measured it, I swear I've likely lost close to an inch at least over the years, but I'm willing to bet has more to do with also having more middle-tire spread as well.

Overall, it still fortunately serves me well even if the changes (along with the ones in the rest of my body) prove frustrating at times. One just has to accept inevitability I guess.