I would expect that this is going to depend highly on the individual rent-boy, porn name or not.
If your rent boy is in it strictly for the money and doesn’t give a damn, you’re going to have a less than rewarding time.
If, on the other hand, they actually like what they do, they’ll be sure that all involved have a great time and the cash at the end is just closing of the deal.
The dude
@hvdude hired was obviously not in it for the fun and experience. He may also not even be gay, just a straight guy looking for easy cash.
I met a good number of those working at a gay bar with strippers. Some were gay, many were straight, most of those were fine. But there’d be the occasional guy who’d just as soon spit on “the fags” but wanted the cash they waved more. These were never nice people.
On the other hand, I’ve known a number of escorts, primarily gay guys, who really liked what they were doing, took pride in giving a great service (thereby getting repeat clients) and were conscientious and caring about the service they offered.
I can’t imagine that same attitude wouldn’t transfer to guys in the porn/escort industry.