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Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by the_best_1, Jan 23, 2009.
have you ever hired one? what happened?
No. I have never hired one.
When a beautiful woman is called for, for whatever occasion, i seem to be able to have one with me because they want to be there.
I wonder about hiring an escort though - for social shindigs, but find it difficult to belive that a stranger could effortlessly navigate the complicated, unspoken mine field of the treacherous crowd she would be escorting me to.
I think this is not the sort of escort you are speaking of.
But - i have been one.
What happens? I arrive with a face cleanly shaven like polished marble, in appropriate attire, adore the woman i am with, smile, laugh, joke, converse with her friends and family, when she decides to leave we leave and then go back to her place where she lets me adore her privately. And then tells her friends about it. lol.
Okay, yes I've been with escorts before. The first time was on accident. I was 19, on vacation and didn't realize that the guy was an escort. I just thought I'd gotten really lucky...also, he didn't tell me he was an escort until after the fact. That was shady.
The second time I was cognisent of the fact that the guy was an escort and it was some of the best sex I'd ever had.
I guess the reason I don't think escorts are bad is because it's not that you can't get any on a regular day, but the fact that these people get paid to do exactly what you want them to do that makes it great. It's not usually awkward and dissapointing (well, I've heard stories, but nothing personal)like a random hookup can be. You can find someone who is exactly your fantasy and for a nominal fee have one hour or more of the greatest sex of your life. Why is that such a bad thing?
YES!!! some of the best sex when I've been on the road traveling was with escorts. Did my research b4 leaving home, lined up the dates for the evenings [and some afternoons] I was available. No hassle about AFF, other sites - we agreed on the date, time, place, amount and what was expected. They exceeded my expectations every time. Just remember, you get what you pay for.
Some of the best sex I have ever had was with escorts. In Australia the sex industry is legal and the girls have websites and there are review forums and so on. I think the men who get the most out of escorts are those who have a bit of experience with casual sex and one night stands.
The professional escorts are there to give you a good time, and it's up to you as client to steer things in the direction you wish it to go. The other thing that may seem odd but is true is that the girls can and do get turned on by clients. Orgasms are easy to fake, but not wincing with post-orgasmic clitoral sensitivity, delaying intercourse for a few minutes, or ejaculating, which happened with girls I was with a couple of times. This aspect of professional sex is possibly the best part, the way it is no-holds barred for the period of time that you and her are together.
My experience in Australia is that you need to pay a minimum, but more money doesn't necessarily mean better service. But if you find a good escort and are confident in yourself, you may well have the best time of your life.
He should have been paying you!
One of my older friends just hired a guy from XY - Home, and he didn't have any complaints. He booked out a guy named "Kaydn". Said he had a big one, so I guess that's a plus.
As I see it, the only difference between an escort and a pick-up is money.
I cant see having a moral issue about paying an escort but not having an issue with going out to a bar hoping to pick up someone youve never before seen if the issue is going to be about having sex outside marriage or not making commitment.
I cant see having a moral issue relating to what one spends, if we can afford to spend as much on something else.
From the perspective of the escort, if the escort is way young, vulnerable, and susceptible to being manipulated in a sexual context, I think that is serious. But for relatively independent adult escorts, theyre in the service industry. Lots of people have to act nice to get paid.
Maybe it is wiser to hold out for a stable relationship. Its way better to fall in love and build a life with someone you love. But that isnt necessarily in the cards for everyone. There are people whose circumstances are such that the odds may be very tough. For them, lifes best chance of ever experiencing physical intimacy even if true emotional intimacy is impossible might be limited to finding an escort.
Living in LA in the 80's; I would hit the clubs 7 nights a week.. and never had a problem with finding sex whenever and and whereever I wanted. Unlike all my friends I made it through alive and well; to this day I'm still neg. When I changed career's I worked on the road and met many very hot and fun escorts, it was quick, easy and satisfying. For over 2 years I have a great younger man who "stops by" every couple of months, I pay for the visit (reasonable rate); he and I separate with smiles on our faces. I'm too mature (nice word for old) to hit the clubs; understand where I am in life and what attributes I have and don't have at this point. I think escorts are great! As long as you hit the right websites you can see reviews and pictures as well before you send the email or pickup the phone.
Kaydn is cute as hell! I will have a book him next time I am in Austin on business!
And which websites would those be, exactly?? :wink:
This would be one
The Erotic Review
and for the boys
There are many other, just don't have the desire to search for them.
YES, I have, and if I had a huge amount of disposable income, I would keep doing it.
JJ offered me money!!!!
He wants me while I`m still a virgin!!!
I offered you money TO LEAVE ME ALONE, you gold-digger bitch...
All you want is to cum to america, the promise land, and to live in someones garage.
None of your holes are Virgins. You keep sticking those huge vegetables
I've been doing the escort for a few years, and I paied my university with that.
It's not strange if you love having sex with strangers and get paid for that. I really liked it.
Now here's an interesting question for you guys. I know the forum have classifields section, would it make sense to have an sub section of the classifields for escorts?
The fact of the matter escorts are part of the LPSG lifestyle. Folks get them beyond campionship, it's either cause the guy has body, but majority of it is because of the large dick size.
Living in San Francisco area escorting is everywhere; I to school with escorts, dated escorts (free sex), had a boss who was an ex-escort, know several folks who still escort while still working a day jobs, and etc.