ethical dilemma

[dolfette]

8 years old.

and what worries you most...the time & responsibility or the financial side?

 

[B_ILIW]

and what worries you most...the time & responsibility or the financial side?

no not that. i don't think i'm ready to guide a kid. i'm just too happy with my own independence. in some ways i'm a still a kid myself lol.

 

[dolfette]

no not that. i don't think i'm ready to guide a kid. i'm just too happy with my own independence. in some ways i'm a still a kid myself lol.

well the main thing is setting a good example.
knowing how to have fun is good.
being independent is good.

at 8 he doesn't need 24/7 attention.
he mostly needs role models and people he can talk to.

but if you're pretty sure you're not going to be happy taking it on then it's better not to get involved in his life. kids can get their hopes built up.

 

[HazelGod]

shagging me doesn't give you a right to take over my family.

Spoken like a woman who hasn't yet been properly shagged.

 

[B_ILIW]

well the main thing is setting a good example.
knowing how to have fun is good.
being independent is good.

at 8 he doesn't need 24/7 attention.
he mostly needs role models and people he can talk to.

but if you're pretty sure you're not going to be happy taking it on then it's better not to get involved in his life. kids can get their hopes built up.

true again lol.

i agree it's not fair on him though.

 

[ManlyBanisters]

Spoken like a woman who hasn't yet been properly shagged.

:lmao:

You sure know the way to dolfie's heart, dontcha.

 

[helgaleena]

Spoken like a woman who hasn't yet been properly shagged.

:bsflag: Spoken like a man who has no children.

 

[dolfette]

spoken like someone who likes teasing me.