I didnt know ‘she’ could only be used for cishet women…? What the heck are you talking about? I call a lot of people she, many of which I know were born with a penis…
Am I the only one that sees how problematic it is to push others to assume that anyone that does not publicly identify as anything other than straight has to be straight?
We live in an extremely heteronormative world. Yes it is gradually changing, but for thousands of years of human history, there was no such thing as ‘queer’ identity.
Were all of those people that lived prior to the 20th century straight?
Were you straight before you mustered the strength to publicly identify as anything other than straight? What about those that will never understand what their feelings, desires and thoughts mean for whatever reason… whether its a lack of support, education, representation, resources, freedom to do so, etc.?
I just don’t get it…. It’s so ignorant and backwards to ‘correct’ me when I say this guy is bi. I have eyes and a brain and life experience…. SMH